Wen | Ling Wheat
Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
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"Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself."
It is a sentence in the article "Yueyang LouJi" by the Northern Song Dynasty writer Fan Zhongyan. It explains the qualities that people should hold and lose.
Gathering and dispersing, worrying about gains and losses, all in one thought. The world is impermanent, life is changeable, and everything can be viewed with a normal heart in order to live a stable and open life.
In this life, in the end, it is just a dream. We have to see openly, take it, and put it down. Don't cry over spilled milk, don't worry about whether it will rain tomorrow, just live today calmly.
As the old saying goes: "The glitz of the world is like a dream, and it is a blessing to look down on the floating clouds." "Be low-key, don't be too proud, otherwise you will plant a curse for yourself."
Life is not complete, life is not a hundred percent.
I am blessed, but I am lost. Having a normal heart is a kind of indifference, a sense of tranquility. Life is rare to have a normal heart, to gain but not to like, to lose without worry.
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No one's life is smooth sailing, learn to let go, learn to digest slowly, open-minded and optimistic.
Wang Xiaobo has a famous saying: "In life, you will encounter some good things, and you will encounter some bad things, good things can afford it, bad things can also bear it, so it is not bad to be an ordinary person like this." ”
There are three thousand things in the world, and troubles disturb people's hearts.
If you are at peace, no one can hate; if you do not investigate, no one can disturb you. Success is not proud, failure is not discouraged.
People's life, or gain or loss, or rise or fall, with a calm heart, calmly face.
All good things must have a price behind them. As the Tao Te Ching says, "Misfortune depends on blessings, and blessings and misfortunes lie down." "Blessings and misfortunes depend on each other, and gains and losses are half-shared.
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People can't always do everything as they wish in their lifetime, and if you are preoccupied, the pain is your heart.
The Song Dynasty Wumen Hui Kai Zen master has a poem called "Ode to ordinary heart is the Tao", which says: "Spring has a hundred flowers and autumn has a moon, summer has a cool breeze and winter has snow, if there is no idle thing to worry about, it is a good season in the world." ”
What belongs to you, there is no need to deliberately compete. What does not belong to you, you can't ask for it. In life, there are losses and gains, but we must learn to look down.
The more desires, the more bondage; the fewer desires, the more freedom. Don't let greed steal your happiness.
Thinking too much, reading too much, asking too much, asking too much, are all unable to live with themselves. Life is such a thing. Only by not being insulted can you live happily.
Bitter without words, happy without words, looking down on gains and losses, laughing at everything, Fang does not live up to the necessities of life.
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Life will not be all satisfactory, life will not be all smooth.
Life is like a ship sailing on the sea, sometimes smooth sailing, sometimes strong winds and waves, no matter what the situation is, we must face gains and losses with a normal heart.
Calm and relaxed. Having a "normal heart" is the secret to living a dashing and happy life. With a normal heart, life is full of spring breeze!
Wang Yangming said: "It is normal to be unhappy about getting rich; it is normal to not worry about losing; it is normal to be not proud of reputation; it is ordinary to be slandered and not to be annoyed." ”
Gains and losses are the norm, and there is no need to be too calculated.
Good things and bad things will eventually become a thing of the past, and there is no need to be too attached. When people reach middle age, they should do their best, do their best, and then go with the flow.
Author: Ling Mai, a girl who likes words, is very happy to meet you in my words, and is willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.