Wen | Ling Wheat
Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
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In "A Generation of Grandmasters", it is said: In this life, people must see sentient beings, see heaven and earth, and see themselves.
It is difficult for a stingy person to become a big instrument. Only by being a person with an atmosphere can we become a great instrument.
The pattern of being a person should be large, "people are not good for a thousand days, and flowers are not red for a hundred days."
We live, to have a little pattern. In the process of interpersonal communication, most people are reluctant to interact with people who do not have a pattern.
It does not matter whether people are born poor, but the heart cannot be without patterns.
Because this is a disease of thinking, thinking is too scarce. His vision is very small, he will not look at the long term, only care about the small profits in front of him, and even do whatever it takes to achieve his interests.
A person without a pattern, even if he is temporarily profitable, will be defeated on the road of a poor life.
People without patterns usually lack cognition, do not think about analysis, and are often prone to some stupid behavior.
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People without patterns like jealousy and can't see others well.
It doesn't matter whether the IQ is high or not, and the high emotional intelligence is not a big problem, but the pattern of being a person must be large.
There is always such a person in life, he can't see that others are better than him, and if others have something he doesn't have, he hates and jealousy in his heart.
Jealousy not only harms others, but also harms oneself. And people with a big picture never care what others have. Don't care if others are better than mine, but focus on your own little happiness.
You can not be smart or unsociable, but you must be atmospheric. Don't be small-bellied, too calculating, try to enlarge the pattern, let yourself be more open-minded, and learn to be indifferent.
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The "Biography of Zhou Yi and The Next Biography" says: Poor will change, change will be general, and general will be long.
The pattern is not as complicated as we think, it is a person's vision and mind.
How big the pattern is, how big the cause is; how far the heart is, how far the future is.
People with a small pattern in general are naturally easy to be trapped by some small interests, and as everyone knows, these behaviors will often lose big because of small. They are narrow-minded, tangled in trivialities, often confining themselves to small spaces, and what they see in life is problems.
The larger the pattern, the less entangled. Not entangled with villains and scum, it seems to be tolerant of others, but in fact, it is liberated from oneself. With such a realm, it will not be easily disturbed by the outside world, but will move forward along its own goals.
Be a person, don't reason with rotten people, don't argue with fools. People with small patterns see only their own interests. And people in the big picture know how to make it good for others, so as to win people's hearts, think deeply, stand tall, and see far.
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"Poverty is a state of mind, and if you insist on being poor all your life, having a lot of money will not save you."
Man can be in a difficult situation, but he must not let his heart be in a desperate situation. Only those who have a broad mind can get the help of everyone and achieve good results. If the heart "dies," there will never be a chance to turn over.
Get along with people, in small things, be free, don't be too calculating. The person who becomes a big thing must be an open-minded person, and a person with an open-minded heart can have a big pattern.
How big the heart is, how big the stage is. A man, more terrible than no money, is that he has no pattern.
Open your eyes and you will find that the world is good. Be an atmospheric person, life has a new height!
Author: Ling Mai, a girl who likes words, is very happy to meet you in my words, and is willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.