Wen | Ling Wheat
Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
-01-
After experiencing too much, I gradually saw through a lot.
See through some things, see some people clearly, there is no need to say that it is broken, it is good to understand in your heart.
When I grew up, I learned that the more painful it was, the more silent it became. The more bitter it is, the more it remains silent. Sometimes we are very tired and don't want to communicate with people, just want to listen to our own inner voice;
Sometimes I am silent and just want to empty my mind. Originally, I had a violent temper, but now I don't want to say a word.
When people see through, you understand how to get along, things see through, you don't want to do things. As a human being, we must understand that some words have to be said, and some words are preferred not to be said.
Anyone can say something, but not everyone knows the wisdom of keeping their mouths shut. To be a human being, you must learn to speak, but also to learn to be silent, not to say meaningless words.
Some of the entanglements can only be interpreted by silence. Don't talk when you have nothing to say, and remain silent when you don't know how to answer someone else's words.
-02-
Writer Liu Zhenyu once said:
"One person's loneliness is not loneliness, one person looks for another person, one sentence finds another sentence, is the real loneliness." 」
There is no real empathy in this world, preferring to remain silent than complain to people who don't care about you at all. Frequently looking for people to complain will be looked down upon.
Silence to speechlessness is a state of mind that only those who understand understand it; you will not understand my silence, how can you understand my sadness.
People who understand you, whether they say it or not, understand you. People who don't understand you, no matter how much they say, they are. Instead of complaining, it is better to act, and it is better to be strong than to complain.
"Zhuangzi Zhibei Tour" said: "Heaven and earth have great beauty without words", the most beautiful scenery can not be expressed in words, the most powerful force, often begins with silence!
Sometimes it's not silence, just inability to speak. Silence to tears is a heartbeat, only one's own heartbeat.
-03-
Life is not satisfactory, nine times out of ten. There are thousands of heartaches, and silence is the most disappointing.
It is best to keep a bowl of water between people, otherwise the closer they get, the more contradictions there will be. Over the years, we will gradually find that in fact, many words in life do not need to be spoken.
The silence of the woman is the speechlessness after exhaustion, the cold indifference after the disappointment and determination. Don't argue with people, don't mess with each other.
The "Aphorisms" says: "Self-cultivation is to purify the heart as the key, and to involve the world with caution as the first." ”
It is better not to say what others are right and wrong; it is better not to say what is hypocritical. A person who knows how to listen is even more needed than a life coach.
Joy or sorrow are hidden in the heart, introverted in the world, spoiled and not shocked. Immerse yourself in your own world, irrelevant to others, quiet, simple. Leave a silence for yourself, no need to explain, no need to deliberately disguise.
-04-
The ancestor of the Zongheng family, Oniguzi, once said: "He who speaks, moves; he who is silent, jingye." ”
It is better to be silent than to be silent. Before speaking, you must think carefully, be careful with your words, and prefer to be silent than to talk too much.
Silence is an attitude of life, sometimes talking too much, but the misfortune comes out of the mouth.
Words are the embodiment of a person's wisdom. Tranquility is the power of silence and the sublimation of the self.
The words in your mouth are your life path, learn to speak well, life will go further.
The old saying often says: "The depth of the water is silent, and the person is steady", and being silent at the right time is a kind of cultivation, but also a kind of realm.
Learning to shut up is a kind of practice in life. When people reach middle age, they should be themselves who are still and deep.
Author: Ling Mai, a girl who likes text coffee, is very happy to meet you in my text, and is willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.