Wen | Ling Wheat
Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
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Nowadays, the world is becoming more and more noisy, and people's hearts have become panicky and impetuous.
Jing is a sign of a person, a comfort and trust that is given to people.
Zhou Guoping said in "When You Learn to Be Alone": The highest state of life is quiet.
Jing, is the quiet of the years in the year of fine water flow, is the fine crush of chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea simmered, is the simple happiness that breeds in the light time.
When people get older, the quieter they live, the better their lives will be.
In "Cai Gen Tan", there is a saying: "Friends must be three points of chivalry, and people must have a little vegetarian heart." ”
In the second half of life, the circle does not need to be too large, three or two friends are enough. You don't need too much money, let the mind calm down, you will not be upset because you do not have a lot of money, you will not be sad because of the changes in life.
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Meditation is over, and small talk is no longer worth it.
Those who say that people are right and wrong, harm others and do not benefit themselves. Knowing people do not have to say everything, leave some mouth morality, leave some leeway for doing things, do not have to do everything, leave some residual virtue.
Don't talk about others behind your back. Not inquiring, not discussing, not evaluating the privacy of others is the best cultivation to get along with people.
Zhuangzi said: Zi is not a fish, but the joy of knowing fish. If you don't understand others and can't live on their behalf, don't easily evaluate others.
When people are old, if you want to have a good time, tell you a good way, that is, do not participate in the discussion of other people's rights and wrongs. Managing one's own mouth, guarding one's own heart, not exposing one's shortcomings, and not publicizing the faults of others is a virtuous person.
So, leave some time alone, you will meet your truest self, and find the true joy of life.
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Bai Luomei said:
"In this noisy mortal dust, we all need to have a place for ourselves to house our souls. Maybe it's a quiet house, maybe it's a wordless scripture, maybe it's a lost path. As long as it is the destination of their hearts, they are all stations, and they are no longer so confused for the future journey. ”
The world is prosperous, and it is indeed not easy to calm down in a materialistic society.
Everything in life is born from the heart, and if the mind does not move, the world will be still. Calm and cool! Rest in peace.
Stillness is both a kind of rest and a practice of life. When a person can really calm down, he can heal his heart.
To calm the mind is to be at ease with the situation, to go with the flow, and to let go of unnecessary burdens. When the mind is quiet, you can see the beauty you want to see.
If a person's heart remains at peace, nothing can disturb him. As the saying goes: Bodhi has no tree, the mirror is not a platform, there is nothing in the original, where to stir up dust.
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In life, everything can be satisfactory and everything is satisfactory.
Prosperous for a lifetime, floating and sinking for a lifetime, everything is just a passing cloud. Only when you laugh and see it, will the sea and the sky be wide, and the heart will have a mirror, and it will be willow and dark.
Someone said, "Only when the soul is quiet is when we are closest to ourselves." ”
Stillness is both a kind of rest and a practice of life. Those who know how to make the heart peaceful, the soul is free.
A person's life, in the final analysis, is a spiritual practice. A person reaches a certain age and will understand that life does not need so much, the simpler the happier.
"The journey of a husband and a gentleman is to cultivate oneself quietly and cultivate virtue through thriftiness." Non-indifference is not clear-sighted, non-tranquility is not far-reaching. ”
Truly intelligent people will seek a quiet heart. It's good to calm down and let's feel happy slowly!
Author: Ling Mai, a girl who likes words, is very happy to meet you in my words, and is willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.