Wen | Ling Wheat
Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
-01-
When a person starts to snub you, don't bother.
You always have a bit of luck in your heart, thinking that the person who is put in your heart will always understand your good.
You're so caught up in your own fantasies that you sing one one-man show after another. You think that as long as you give it your all, others will cherish you. After all, it's not who you treat well that you're bound to be treated the same way.
Love should be the collision and interaction of two hearts, not a person's obsession and search. People who don't care about you will not hurt you after all, and people who want to leave you will eventually leave.
Don't be silly, some people don't care about you at all. People who don't care about you, no matter how much you pay with sincerity and sincerity, still can't be moved. If so, why would you waste your enthusiasm?
When a person starts snubbing you, you should understand. People who treat you as grass, don't treat her as a treasure, call her unnecessary. Those who don't reply to your message, they say they are busy, in fact, they don't want to pay attention to you at all.
No one is naturally cold, just not that likes you. People who really care about you will not let you be wronged in the slightest. Because he really cares about you, he can't bear to see your lost eyes.
-02-
If you care too much about a person, you will hurt yourself to the ground.
Don't think that feelings are mutual, and some people don't really care at all. The person who has you in his heart, even if you don't do anything, he puts you first.
People who have you in their hearts are free at any time, and people who don't have you in their eyes are not free. The man who doesn't care about you, how you do it, he won't cherish you either.
People who don't care about you, the so-called busy and tired, are actually excuses! If a person doesn't care about you, he will find ways to hide from you. The person who really cares about you will definitely not let you wait for him.
You can love a person to the bone, but you can't love so lowly that you can't love to the dust. Don't bother a guy who doesn't want to pay attention to you because you're not the one in his heart.
-03-
People who say to you are busy, tired, and have no time must not be people who really care about you.
Obviously the other party does not like you, you still have to wait, to beg, to be humble, there is really no need for that.
You cherish me, I will double my return, you don't care about me, just let everything go to zero! When the other party snubs you, don't dwell on it.
When your enthusiasm is met with an indifferent response, then please take your feelings back. Sort out your mood, leave with dignity, and make yourself better.
Never give up on yourself for the sake of the man who is cold to you, leave him, and you can still have a wonderful life. Why should we seek perfection, why should we cry and cry?
In life and love, you should also be a brave person. Remember, love yourself well, and cherish only those who are worth cherishing for the rest of your life, this sentence will never expire.
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If you take the wrong road, you have to turn back, and if you love the wrong person, you have to let go.
Man always has to look forward, he can do it, you can do it. Anyway, what leaves is the scenery, and what is left is life.
In the world of feelings, one has feelings and one has righteousness is the basis of love. If you meet someone who doesn't care about you at all, give up early. As Liu Tong said: "In this world, the payment of results is called paying, and the payment without results is called the price." ”
The more humble love is, even if it is low to the dust, it is despised. Men and women, it's better to be single than to bother someone who doesn't care about you at all.
Don't wait until your enthusiasm runs out before you leave in pain. Lift your head confidently and step out of the shadows he has brought you.
The sand that could not be held was simply lifted. Gathering well and dispersing is also respect for feelings. The world is so big, there is always someone who will hurt you and care about you.
Author: Ling Mai, a girl who likes words, is very happy to meet you in my words, and is willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.