Wen | Ling Wheat
Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
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In the Analects, the Son:
"I have five out of ten and am determined to learn, thirty and standing, forty and not confused, fifty and knowing the destiny, sixty and obedient, seventy and doing what the heart desires, not exceeding the rules."
Around 40, it may be the most unhappy period of life.
At this grade, we have long passed the age of temperament, and we will feel powerless when working.
When people are about 30 years old, they are still very optimistic and talkative, but when they are over 40 years old, people's psychological changes are too big, often sullen, the circle of friends is also much smaller, more and more lonely, but also for the health of their parents.
When people reach the age of 40, all the happiness and beauty, don't expect others to give themselves, learn to give themselves to themselves.
The pressure of work, the lack of financial affluence, family conflicts, the health of parents, the schooling of children, all the superposition of problems occurs in the decade or so around the age of 40 to 50.
After people reach the age of forty, on the road to getting old, do not easily bow their heads. Unsatisfactory life should not continue to escape, but learn to face and bear, and accept your own imperfections.
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There is a sentence in "The Chains of Life":
"What will happen in the future, I don't think about it at all, if I think about today all the time, worry about tomorrow, what is the meaning of life?" It's that things are so bad that they can't get any worse, and I think there is always a way to go. ”
Life is like a drama, what matters is not the length, but whether the performance is excellent. Each of us plays a different role on the stage of life, as long as you play your role well.
When a man reaches the age of forty, he reaches the age of non-confusion.
What is not confused? I can see everything clearly, and I am no longer attached to and preoccupied. When people reach forty, they can see through the heat and cold of the world, and they taste the cold and warmth.
Forty-year-old people, the most practical age group, have gone through half of life, there are fewer opportunities and opportunities, and they should not make mistakes and take a roundabout road.
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When people reach the age of forty, they chew on the cold and warmth of the situation and feel the ruthlessness of the years.
Forty is not confused, not confused by external objects, know how to maintain their peaceful mentality, learn to make real choices, so that they slowly tend to mature and steady.
The past is long, forty years in a flash. Life is actually nihilistic and short, it lies in the breath and inhale, it disappears like flowing water, never to return.
40-year-old people, don't forget to care about their own health, there are old and young, and you have your family behind the responsibility on your shoulders.
Many middle-aged people have their own health problems, especially at the age of 40, just like the broken car, the problem is constant, insomnia, anxiety and so on.
Life is limited, life is precious. A good body is the capital of the revolution, and when you are usually busy, you must also arrange time for exercise.
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Ang Lee said: "Life is not just sitting and waiting, good luck will fall from the sky." Even if it is destined, you have to find it yourself. Whether you try hard or not, the result will be very different. ”
Sometimes, life may not be so satisfactory. But we still need to face, once may escape, but as we get older, facing is the attitude we should have.
The forty-year-old is very sensible and sober, he understands his responsibilities, he must take on family responsibilities. At this age, it is no longer as angular as when I was young, although I still pay attention to principles, but I also know how to let go and let go.
Forty years old is the best time for a person to be fully mature and stable in all aspects.
People in this period can clearly recognize reality, be down-to-earth, and effectively assume various responsibilities they bear. Therefore, when people reach the age of 40, learning to face and bear is a very important attitude towards life.
Author: Ling Mai, a girl who likes words, is very happy to meet you in my words, and is willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.