Wen | Ling Wheat
Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
-01-
All are born as human beings, and they are all lonely.
Everyone is lonely from birth, landing alone, and the most one goes.
Liking to be quiet is the original mind of a person.
"Calm down, everything will be fine" said: "We can't live and work quietly in the world, we can't calm down to feel and experience, we can't calm down to think and plan, so happiness becomes out of reach." ”
As I get older, I like to be quiet, I don't like to be stuck in the crowd, and I don't like to talk about others. People who have not been in touch for a long time should not contact each other again, they are busy, and there is no intersection.
The poet Wang Wei wrote in "The End of the South Farewell": Every time xing comes and goes alone, victory and emptiness are self-aware. Walk to the end of the water and sit and watch the clouds rise.
Most interpersonal interactions are just a face-to-face booing greeting. Whether you are happy or not, few people care.
People who like to be quiet and alone are often able to find their own pleasure and will not change themselves because of other people's ideas. People, the older they go, the more they like to be alone.
-02-
When I am older, I look down on the world and don't want to worry about it anymore.
The Confucian "University" says: "Knowing and then having concentration, being still and then being able to be quiet, being quiet and then being able to be at peace, being able to be at peace and then being able to worry, and being able to worry and then being able to get." ”
If the mind has no home, it will wander everywhere. The more you are in a noisy crowd, the easier it is to lose yourself. In a vast world, everyone needs a place to put our souls.
If you look at the things around you with a pure mind, you will feel that everything in this world is actually very simple. It can be said: "The mind has no material desires, that is, the autumn sky and the sea; sitting on the piano book, it becomes a stone room Danqiu."
To the extent to which a person can be quiet, his wisdom can increase.
Plain is life, simple is life. Only when the mind is quiet can we achieve "idly watching the flowers blossom and fall before the court, and the clouds outside the sky are cirrus clouds." ”
-03-
Su Dongpo once wrote: "There is nothing to do with this meditation, one day is like two days."
The most rare thing in life is a cloud water Zen heart, no matter the wind and water waves, no matter the vicissitudes of the world, I will not move.
When I get older, I look down on fame and fortune and don't want to compete anymore.
Only by calming the mind can we understand that the highest state of life is tranquility. As Feng Zikai said, "Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to be joyful, and since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate."
Only when the mind is calmed down can we slowly see through and see clearly what is right and wrong in this complicated world. To be quiet in the middle of a disturbance is not to avoid the world and live in seclusion, but to keep one's heart in everything.
Man, who comes naked, goes without a penny, so there is no need to fight for fame and profit. The best way to live the rest of your life is to cultivate a pure heart and not be insulted.
-04-
The Sutra of Tranquility says, "Man can always be quiet, and the heavens and the earth will return." ”
Life has ups and downs, and the more experiences you have experienced, the more you can see through. For human sophistication, it is also indifferent. If you should stay in the past, let it stay in the past, after all, only you will accompany yourself for a lifetime.
Purity can make a person's heart become stable, and when a person is alone, he can often settle down and experience the happiness he has at the moment.
Years urge people to grow old, the age of knowing the destiny, often see and think through many things, more often, just want to enjoy a quiet time alone.
"Idle leaning on the Bed, Yu Gonglou outside the peak of a thousand flowers." Who do you sit with? The bright moon breeze shines on me. ”
The mind is not quiet, happiness does not come, and happiness cannot be found. People, the older they get, the more they like to be quiet, so that they can get inner peace in the hustle and bustle of the city, and they can have more time to do what they like.
So, very good!
Author: Ling Mai, a girl who likes words, is very happy to meet you in my words, and is willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.