Wen | Ling Wheat
Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
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Hayao Miyazaki said:
"Life is a train to the grave, there will be many stations along the way, it is difficult for anyone to accompany the whole journey from beginning to end. When your companion is about to get off the bus, you should be grateful even if you don't give up, and then wave goodbye. ”
People have lived half a lifetime, seen how many ups and downs, and seen how many times the world is hot and cold. At a certain age, people have to try to stay away from the noise, find silence, and find their original heart.
In this world, instead of exploring people's hearts, it is better to quietly enjoy a beautiful scenery. When you get older, you will understand the importance of a relaxed state of mind.
A person's blessing comes from his own good mentality, from his own state of mind of not arguing. When we are old, we must use a calm mind, we can afford it, and we can put it down.
As Sanmao said: "Don't think about the future, don't think about the future, at present, this is not a top priority, the current urgency is to make your heart quiet." ”
-02-
Mibel said, "To have a quiet mind is to grasp the whole of the mind; to have a stable mind is to be able to direct oneself." ”
In old age, people really don't have to worry too much about anything, and they don't have to worry about anything. When you are old, you don't gossip, you don't worry about idleness, and you don't care about idle things. Don't complain, don't make noise, adjust your mindset, and live your old age with peace of mind.
Scrambling and robbing will make you lose your happiness, and comparing with others will make you insatiable. Life that is indifferent to fate is the highest state of life.
When you get old, you will look down on gains and losses, cultivate your heart with a solitary posture, break the anxiety and resentment in your heart, and make your heart more bland and less angry.
Protect your body, know how to maintain health, and make yourself relaxed. Some words are not to be spoken casually, learn to keep your mouth shut. There is no right and wrong, no sorrow and trouble! In old age, quiet nature is the best.
If the mind is free of distractions, the mind can calm down and feel life with the heart. If people in old age still talk and talk endlessly, will they seem too immature?
-03-
Yu Hua wrote in "Shouting in the Drizzle":
"Instead of pretending to have a lot of friends, I went back to solitude and started living alone as the real me."
Everyone will be the icing on the cake, and there are a few people who send charcoal in the snow. People who treat each other with heart deserve deep friendship, but those who communicate for the sake of face should be broken as soon as possible.
As the saying goes, low-quality socializing is not as good as high-quality solitude. In middle age, you should understand that it is enough to have three or five friends in this life who can dig up their hearts.
Don't waste a lot of time and energy trying to please others. When people are old, they must throw away the meaningless liquor bureau, take the initiative to cut off useless social interactions, and stay away from garbage socializing.
-04-
Ge Rong says:
"Every man has two lives. The first is to live for others, and the second time is to live oneself. The second life is often from the age of ten. ”
People do not want to be disliked in their old age, and learn to "be quiet". There is no need to chase the worldly bustle, not to envy the prosperity of mortal dust.
Looking for a relaxed and quiet, living with gratitude in the midst of complexity, in order to be unencumbered, will be closer to happiness.
Quiet can overcome the impatience in the human body and avoid being affected and controlled by emotions.
Lin Qingxuan said in "The Most Beautiful Life is Qinghuan": "Qinghuan is the subtraction of life, in which we abandon the worldly pursuit and the binding of desire, and return to the purest joy, which is the most delicious situation in life." ”
People are old, calm down to listen to a song they like, water the flowers, flip through old photos, and drink tea with three or five friends.
It is enough to quiet yourself, to enjoy life in peace, to spend the rest of your life in peace.
Author: Ling Mai, a girl who likes words, is very happy to meet you in my words, and is willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.