Wen | Ling Wheat
Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
People live with one heart, what kind of heart you have, what kind of life you have.
Life is inevitably trivial, always calculating, and the heart is small and troublesome. Be relaxed in your heart, look down on things, and don't worry about it.
The bigger the heart, the bigger the pattern, the fewer the problems, and the happier the life. If you're narrow-minded, you'll have more problems, you'll be easy to calculate, and then trouble will come and your life will be endless.
People with narrow-minded hearts cannot hold the slightest grievance and pressure, and everything will be compared, and there will be no place for the heart to stand. Such a person always has knots in his heart that cannot be untied, obstacles that cannot be passed, and life is too hard.
You are angry because you are not generous enough; you are depressed because you are not open-minded enough. Life is short, it is rare to be confused, do your best, and be at peace with the situation.
You can't be preoccupied with people, and you can't be mean and unkind in your dealings. "Narrow-minded, you know at a glance": People who love to take advantage of small things have these three characteristics.
It is not forgiving.
The greatest cultivation in life is tolerance. It is neither cowardice, but forgiveness.
Be generous, let go when you get along with people, be generous, be quiet when there is a dispute, be generous. No more worrying about trivial matters, no more sleepless nights over unthinkable worries.
The heart is wide, the road will be wide, the heart is small, and it is easy to add trouble. Be tolerant a little heart is not tired, tolerate some friends will be true.
It is understandable that we are unreasonable and unyielding in matters of principle, but there is no tolerance, because the slightest mistake of others will not be forgiven, which is the greatest evil in the world.
The lower the spiritual level, the narrower the boundaries of the soul, and the more they like to be unreasonable. This kind of people is narrow-minded, has no overall view at all, and is not worthy of deep friendship.
Split hairs.
A person with a big pattern does not cling to the gains and losses of the moment, and does not care about the trade-offs of a single thought. They do not camp dogs for false names, do not fight for profit, in order to have a life of thousands of weather.
Truly intelligent people often know how to be generous and do not care about temporary gains and losses, because they understand that convenience with others is convenient for themselves, and more and more blessings will be paid.
Narrow-minded people love to calculate, think about those trivial things every day, hate others better than themselves, do not know how to appreciate others, and may even calculate others behind their backs.
Narrow-minded people are determined not to let themselves suffer losses, no matter who they get along with, they are all profitable, and they always try their best to take advantage of a little more. Dealing with such a person is invincible, maybe he is calculating you somewhere, or it is better to stay away.
Good at jealousy.
You're jealous because you're not good enough.
If a person can't see the good of others, chooses to erase the achievements of others, and vents the unhappiness in his heart, this move actually exposes his own heart.
Narrow-minded people are different, they don't work hard, they can't see others well, they always secretly hold grudges in their hearts, other people's excellence is torture for them, always looking for opportunities to fall into the well, it is really hateful.
Such a hypocritical person can't treat you as a friend, and he is very hypocritical and dark inside, and he just wants to get some benefits here. Such a person really needs to keep an eye on it, if you can stay as far away as possible.
Wheat Message: Stay away from the narrow-minded, in case you are calculated.
There is nothing difficult in the world, and the mediocre disturb themselves.
There are too many troubles in the world, mostly because they can't get by with themselves, and they are entangled with themselves. When you learn not to calculate and not to dwell, life will become smoother and smoother, your fate will be better and better, and your blessings will be more and more.
Some people in life are not big enough, small belly chicken intestines, narrow-minded. Obviously, he is inferior to others, and he must blame others for all his failures and anger others.
Interpersonal communication, try not to deal with narrow-minded lovers, if you have to contact, then you must also keep more eyes, so as not to get yourself into trouble.
Everyone's time and energy are limited, and they really have to know how to make trade-offs in interpersonal communication. Narrow-minded people, who often have these three obvious characteristics, encounter early and stay away.
In short, "Near Zhu is red, near ink is black." "We can't be narrow-minded people, and we try not to deal with narrow-minded people, so as not to leave a curse."
Author: Ling Mai, a girl who likes words, is very happy to meet you in my words, and is willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.