Wen | Ling Wheat
Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
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Xue Xiao Zen said:
"A person, most of the time is a person on the road, you run, you rejoice, you sad, the most antidote to you, is yourself, no one understands you better than you, and no one understands you more than you." 」
Loneliness is everywhere, sometimes in the midst of the bustle, but the heart is more and more lonely, especially for people who are not good at words and inconvenient to vent, they are more lonely and lonely.
People, sometimes, also have to be a little lonely. There is no need to chase the worldly bustle, not to envy the prosperity of mortal dust. Once in a while I just want to be alone and quiet, undisturbed.
Life needs to be calm, the heart can be clear, in order to know the road you want to take, what you need.
Instead of exploring the human heart, it is better to quietly enjoy a beautiful place. The years are traceless, that quiet and simple, is not the perception of beauty in life.
-02-
Being alone is because I have escaped the temptation of fame and profit from the outside world.
Many things can only be thought out, thought far, and thought thoroughly in solitude.
Slow down, let go of chores, and calm down to listen to your inner voice. You want to be beautiful, to listen to the truest voice of your heart, not to work so hard just to be a fake for others.
No one cares, no one is as good as others, you have to try to be quiet and do what you have to do. Be quietly alone, and you will witness many miracles of life in a hurry.
In some senses, a person who has been alone for a long time is more able to deeply understand the nature of life and the position in which he is located, and is more able to keep a clear head in a complex and changeable life.
-03-
Forty is not confused, fifty know the destiny of heaven, and in middle age, Fang knows that life is in the world, like a deep water and still current.
Along the way, there are too many fame and profits that the world craves, and there are too many right and wrong that can be quarreled with red ears.
To be a person and do things is not to argue about fame and fortune, and if you don't argue, then there will be no one to argue with you. Merit and fame, success and achievement, are just things outside the body, there is nothing to argue about, nothing to grab.
In the world, the most disturbing word is contention. Life is trivial, everything is changeable, be a person who does not care, life will become more and more beautiful.
What do people fight for in this life? Scrambling, sadness, struggle, and a hundred years later, it will be all floating clouds.
Like a passage: don't chase a horse, use the time to chase the horse to plant grass, until the spring is in full bloom, there will be a group of horses for you to choose; don't deliberately tie up a person, use the time without friends for a while, to improve your ability, and when the time is ripe, there will be a group of friends to walk with you.
What you will get, and when you will get it, everything has been arranged long ago. It is better to be indifferent to the heart, so as to exchange for the peace and tranquility of life.
-04-
"Once upon a time, the carriage and horse were very slow, the letters were far away, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime" This is a poem by Mu Xin, which was once the norm and has now become a luxury.
A person has a way of living, a person has a way of living.
As long as you live diligently, a person's life can also shine. In real life, many people have long been accustomed to living alone, commuting to work alone, eating alone, walking alone.
Most of our usual social interactions are useless. The surprises and surprises of life are just right, some people come and some people go is the norm, just look at it with a normal mind.
You can make friends when you are young, and when you reach middle age, you have to start doing a subtractive lifestyle. When people reach middle age, there are fewer friends, which actually means that you have found the center of gravity of your life.
See through life, experience countless ups and downs, a person lives quietly and quietly, without dispute with the world. The days of liking to be alone, those trivial and beautiful times, are all the joys of a person.
Author: Ling Mai, a girl who likes words, is very happy to meet you in my words, and is willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.