Whether it is a man or a woman, in love, you may have encountered such a situation.
I like someone, but the other person doesn't like me. In this case, it is indeed a bit embarrassing. For us, don't know what to do?
If you give up on this, you seem to be unwilling. However, how easy is it to make the other party like themselves?
But there are variables in everything.
At this time, maybe he doesn't like you. But that doesn't mean there will never be a chance. Therefore, the key to feelings is a lot of times to see how you face it.
What should you do if someone you like and he doesn't like you? Analyze from four perspectives.
First: find the reason and see if it can change. This is very important.
There must be specific reasons for not liking you.
And for you, to find this reason. For example, he just doesn't like your type. Well, in this case, perhaps you can only choose to give up.
For example, if it is because the other party thinks that your conditions are not very good, you have not met his mate selection criteria. Well, after you try to meet this requirement, you will have a chance.
Therefore, why people don't like you, you have to know it yourself. We're going to find out why. Then combine this situation and see if there is any possibility of change.
If there is no possibility of change, then we have to accept reality.
After all, the matter of feelings is between two people. You like him, in a way, your own business. And whether the other person will like you or not has nothing to do with you.
So, when you encounter this situation, the first thing is to do it.
Second: recognize the reality, stop the loss in time, and don't get entangled if people don't like it.
There is a saying called: radish greens, each has its own love.
Emotional things cannot be forced. We must always respect this most basic principle. If you're sure the other person just doesn't like you. Then, you don't have to dwell on it.
Some people love too lowly. Even in this case, they still want the other person to accept themselves. For this, they are willing to pay more.
In fact, this kind of love is a kind of begging. But how can such feelings bring you happiness?
We look for the other half in order to make ourselves happy and happy. Since people don't like you, why do you still have to pester?
Continuing to pester, it will only make yourself unhappy, and it will also make the other party unhappy.
Therefore, we need to stop loss in time.
You always have to believe that there will be someone who really likes you and is waiting for you.
Third: Forgive each other and forgive ourselves, we all have the right to choose.
Some people will hate the other person because they don't like themselves.
It is not right to do so. You have your rights, and everyone has the rights. We must first learn to respect the choices of others.
If you can't even do that, why like each other?
Therefore, if you like someone, you don't necessarily have to be together. What you like, is your business. And whether the other party will like you or not is someone else's business. You can't interfere.
Feelings are to say that you love me.
In this way, two people together will be happy. This is also the most basic principle in love.
Without this principle, everything is empty talk.
Don't do something in the name of love that hurts each other. To really like someone is to want the other person to be happy.
Fourth: Pack up your mood and find your own fate.
In life, there will always be someone who will like you very much. After you actually meet him, you will understand what love is.
So, if you like someone, he doesn't like you. It only proves that there is no fate between you.
We can all find the person we like, and that person likes himself. Only such feelings can bring us true happiness.
Of course, not exactly likes. Even if it's someone we like, we hate him. After all, no one is perfect. So, in a broad sense, there is no such thing as a complete liking in the true sense of the word.
So let's not be so attached.
If the other person really doesn't like you, then you have to clean up your mood. Go find the one who really likes you.
Only in this way can we find the happiness that belongs to us.
Emotional Lessons:
In love, do not force, do go with the flow, you can get the happiness you want.
To love someone, you must first learn to love yourself.
So, if you meet this guy, he really doesn't like you. Please don't embarrass yourself, and don't embarrass the other person. Let go of his hand and you will find that the fate that belongs to you will soon come.
Yeah, that's what happens in relationships.
Only by truly liking each other can we create more happiness.
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