"Thirty Only" Why didn't Wang Manni choose Director Xiao Zhang, who has a house and a car and good character?

1.

Although the attitude should be correct,

In practice, it should

Don't take the first time on a blind date too seriously.

If you drink tea in a tea house with great generosity, it seems to be frank.

In the boat it is,

Concealment is revealed in the open, and publicity is exposed in concealment.

This is obviously just too hard work. It will put pressure on the other person.

2.

Friends can look back, when a shot is only the director's face, let people see the irresistible anxiety.

If you are anxious, things will not be easy to accomplish.

To a certain extent, the reason why things can't be done is because I want to make it too much.

Specially picked a day, specially selected a boat, specifically to find a secluded route,

This is not like a simple blind date, but like a well-prepared marriage proposal device.

Eat a meal, drink a tea, you can also talk about the rice and tea on the table, can not say anything, but also look at the people at other tables, look at the scenery outside the window,

But on a ship with only two people, is it not necessary to talk about the master of the rocking boat?

Even if you openly appear in a lively restaurant because of the special inconvenience of your identity, and choose to charter a place where the business does not look good,

Compared with rocking a boat, the operation of eating is also closer to daily life.

If others want to gossip, it can be said that it is just a casual meal with friends.

And a pair of lonely men and widows in a separate, more private space, how to explain, is not like a normal friend greeting.

3.

Sometimes, taking off your clothes and standing in front of people is not as good as the fantasy of "holding the pipa and half covering your face".

This can also explain why in today's era, wearing a mask is hidden, but it can unspeakably add a little beauty.

There is nothing wrong with the boat, but it is not suitable, and it is usually the director of the Pai Guang Zheng Wei Shore.

It is more suitable for literary and artistic youth who usually have wind and snow.

4.

Specific scenes are created for specific temperaments.

Otherwise, the painting style is not right, which will affect the performance of the aura.

It's like combing your hair into an adult's shape and putting on a handsome suit, such a temperament on a child, is out of place.

5.

There is also a scene where the director is thousands of miles away, cutting through thorns, just to invite the girl to watch a free movie.

This is different from taking a little girl to a celebration party and rubbing a meal by the way, and participating in an industry exchange meeting to rub an afternoon tea by the way.

Because the admission qualifications for those scenarios are arranged in advance, there is no need to painstakingly carry the behind-the-scenes operations to the surface.

Especially, in front of each other, no matter how simple and fast the process is,

Because a period of time is boiled down to making the other party wait, when the other party is the object of their own need to cater, especially if they put the other party in a high position, then they will appear to be in a hurry and rush.

6.

It's not that all processes need to be flowing, but at critical moments, don't mix too many jerks.

For example, one person could have walked with his head held high, one person twisted his waist to show each other's gender, talking and laughing into the love place of the wind and snow,

Now it is because of the appearance of an unrelated staff member that has created a heavy jam.

The reason is that you need to wait.

It's not all in line to eat, and you suddenly take each other and wait for a VIP passage to open. In fact, VIP channels don't need to wait at all. This is not waiting for someone else to deliver a ticket, and the VIP seat ticket is offered with both hands, in fact, the VIP seat ticket does not need to wait at all.

7.

The problem is,

"Wait", and "Free Ticket".

If it is an old husband and wife, it is no problem to find acquaintances to barter and exchange human feelings. At the same time, the wife will feel as if she has earned a hundred million because of her meticulous calculations.

But in the early days of communication, especially for the first time.

If you do not shy away from following the usual operation, there will be hidden dangers.

When the relationship between the two is still unclear and there are positive expectations for them, it is necessary to make some appropriate modifications to their external characteristics.

This includes how to deal with common problems.

8.

Of course, some friends said that I am a cow pen, that is, I can do whatever I want, that is, I want to exchange free tickets for a meeting.

Then there is another level that this kind of operation needs to be accompanied by, that is, it can be free to be free.

Being spontaneous means not worrying about the consequences of free dates. The follow-up will not be eagerly pursued, nor will it be obsessed.

It doesn't matter if it's good or bad, it's easy to marvel.

9.

Obviously, although the director does not seem to be hiding from the free tickets, his subsequent performance violates the rules of the game of "free and arbitrary".

After the little girl was displeased with the free ticket, the free and arbitrary approach was,

The more intently he explained, the more he seemed to care too much.

What you lose is not the truth, what you lose is freedom.

10.

The director is obviously, on the one hand, the poor only knows that he saves money, and on the other hand, he justifiably hopes that others will willingly save money with him.

From beginning to end, it is yourself who is tired.

That's a lot of paddling.

It's worth doing,

Not a man who racked his brains to find a way to save money,

Instead, we should rack our brains to pull each other into the camp,

Let the other party be involuntary and reluctant to spend more of your money.

11.

The real cow is not loud and vigorous.

The real cow is because it has the calm appearance of "not getting, not caring about losing". Not arrogant, not impatient, not in a hurry.

The cattle to the depths are leisurely.

Not caring about other people's evaluations, first of all, not caring about their own results.

Originally it is self-amusement and self-amusement, what others say, what do they do, and what does it have to do with themselves?