Like is based on having a good feeling for another person; love is based on liking.
Likes can gradually evolve into love, but once you love, you can no longer say like, and this is the most obvious difference between like and love.
For us, when we like a person is a manifestation, when we love a person is another manifestation, the two are not the same concept, for men, the same is true.
Therefore, psychological research shows that in the man's heart, liking a person and loving a person deeply are actually 2 kinds of existence.
Liking someone is "I'm not sure about loving you"
01), Liang Zhengxian in the TV series "Thirty Only" bought her a lot of luxury goods when he and Manni established a relationship, and gave her a luxury car, but in the end, when Liang Zhengxian's legitimate girlfriend came to her, Wang Manni knew that she was forced to become a third party.
Does Liang Zhengxian like Wang Manni? I think I like it, if I don't like it, it is impossible to pursue Wang Manni so painstakingly, nor can I specifically seek the help of my legitimate girlfriend when I want to end this relationship, instead of leaving like I did with other women before, and scattering.
Does Liang Zhengxian love Wang Manni? I think it is not love, if it is love, then he will certainly not let Wang Manni become a third party without knowing it, nor will he never give Wang Manni a promise about marriage, let alone pretend to be a woman under the pretext of being unmarried when Wang Manni proposes to get married.
02), so, like is like this, it is extensive, but also uncertain, it is likely to be a whim, because a certain feature of the other party stimulates their own inner good feelings, so it produces likes, but when the freshness fades, the so-called likes are gone.
Women in a relationship, is to reduce their own IQ, at this time the woman is really stupid, who is good to her, she loves whom, but unfortunately, some people are born actors, good to a person, but also can pretend.
And what we have to do is to stay sane, not to be carried away by love, not to let ourselves experience things that are not worth the loss because of a little sweetness.
To love someone is to "I am sure that you are the only one in this life and this life"
01), the TV series "Beauty heart plan" in the Dai Wang can be said to have used her life to practice the promise of "I love you", Dou Yifang is a very smart girl, unlike other rouge fans, she can solve problems for the Dai Wang, so her position in the heart of the Dai Wang can not be shaken.
Dai Wang's mother did not like Dou Yifang, so every time she looked for stubble, Dai Wang would favor Dou Yifang, even if she had to face her mother's scolding, she also had to give her lover a blatant preference.
Even though there are three thousand harem beauties, but Dou Yifang can do three thousand pets in one, the daiwang rarely spoils other women, one of his hearts is in Dou Yifang, and this is the embodiment of a man's love for a woman, which is melted in practical action, and can be seen and felt.
02), Venus once said a paragraph when talking about the concept of parenting: "When my daughter grows up, I will tell her that if a man only hurts you to squeeze the bus, cloudy days tell you to pay attention to safety when you come home from work, send funny text messages to coax you when you are sick, please do not pay attention to him." ”
If a man embodies his so-called love only in verbal care, then there is no doubt that he must not love you, because he does not love you, so he will be stingy to give;
If a man is clumsy and can't even say a romantic word, but expresses his feelings for you with practical actions, then such a man is worth relying on.
Because a man who is willing to give for his other half is the real love.
Loving someone and liking someone have always been very different beings
For men, loving someone and liking someone have always been very different beings.
To love someone is to be unable to resist their innermost emotions and thoughts when they cannot see each other, and the other party is their own spiritual tranquilizer, just like such a line in the movie "Once Upon a Time in America" said.
"When I'm tired of everything, I think of you, I think of you living somewhere in the world, and I'm willing to bear it all, and your presence is important to me."
And liking someone will miss it, but it will never be as intense as when you love someone.
Of course, like in a reasonable and effective way to operate can become like, the key is what women will do, otherwise the deepest feelings will become flat.
Therefore, in the relationship between the sexes, women can think more from the perspective of men, enhance their intrinsic value, reserve more space for each other to be alone, and meet men's needs for freedom.
In this way, we will have a greater chance of making men's feelings for themselves change from likes to love.