For love, we are always very greedy, and it is not a fortunate thing to want the person who is with us to love himself for a lifetime, so he can achieve it.
It's just that we don't know too much, and we always feel that if we want to keep a person by our side, we must firmly tie him up, so we control each other, we try again and again, or we start to be unscrupulous when we are with each other, and no matter how ugly words we say.
Men yearn for freedom, how can they be tied?
Bad words hurt June cold, those blurted out words, how can a man love himself for a lifetime?
It's just that the bamboo basket hits the water empty, wasted effort, all things can not be forced, go with the flow is the best.
In fact, whether a man can love you for a lifetime, everything has a definite number.
Your particularity determines how long a man can eventually love you
The beauty of Dou Yifang and Shen Er in the TV series "Beauty And The Heart" is one of the best, even among the three thousand people in the harem, it is impossible to let people ignore those two faces that fall into the country.
However, it was also very good-looking, but Dou Yifang could gain the emperor's favor alone, while Shen'er was not welcomed by the emperor, and even felt bored.
The reason for this is that Dou Yifang is not only beautiful but also talented, she can advise the daiwang when he is troubled by the cession of the city, and she can also use her own wisdom to help the daiwang guard his country, so how can a person who combines beauty and talent not be favored?
Regarding the occurrence of love, Shakespeare once said: "Women love with their ears, and men, if they will love, they love with their eyes." ”
It is true that a beautiful face can enter a man's eyes, but we need to know that beauty is rare but not scarce.
Because there is never a shortage of good-looking people in this world, and those talents, character, values and other scarce things can let us enter a man's heart.
It can be seen that a woman's charm is never limited to appearance, she is truly beautifully refracted in the depths of the soul, and the unique beauty will grow with age.
Your behavior will determine whether men will eventually stay with you or not
In the TV series "The First Half of My Life", although Chen Junsheng has a successful career, he also has his own troubles, no high education, no overseas study experience.
At this stage of middle age, if he is not poached by other companies, if he is not promoted, then he will soon be replaced by his subordinates.
But all this, Luo Zijun did not know, and it could even be said that she had never tried to go into Chen Junsheng's heart to understand him, she was well protected, she had always been responsible for spending money, and her ears did not hear anything outside the window, but Chen Junsheng's pain was never known only to herself.
Later, Chen Junsheng's side appeared a person who was equal to himself, and the other party could go into his heart, understand his own difficulties and then comfort himself, so Chen Junsheng's inner balance began to shift.
Time will determine who can appear around us, and our behavior will ultimately determine who can stay, we can't stand still, we can't just look at ourselves, but also improve ourselves and look at the people around us.
Tang Jing in "The First Half of My Life" once said: "Two people together, the person who makes rapid progress, will always get rid of the person who stands still, because people's instincts are to explore more of the extension and connotation of the poet of life life." ”
When we enhance our own value, when we can be on a par with each other, then we can go hand in hand with each other, so that love, regardless of whether it is, will inevitably go a long way.
Your efforts will determine how long a man's love for you lasts
Zhang Ailing's "Half Life" has this sentence: "Men after middle age often feel lonely, because as soon as he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who want to rely on him, but there are no people he can rely on." ”
When you are young, the pressure of men is not very large, and when you reach middle age, you will find that children need fathers, wives need husbands, parents need sons, and they are surrounded by people who need to rely on themselves, but there are very few people they can rely on.
At this time, if women only love themselves and only know how to take, but do not consider the feelings of men, then their marriage may usher in a crisis.
Therefore, we can't be too egotistical in a relationship, but also for men to consider, to sympathize with their difficulties, even if they will not say anything too beautiful, a sentence of "hard work", a sentence of "it's okay, I have been" can bring men the gentleness they want.
If a person feels warmth in the depths of their hearts, they will want to give this warmth back, so when we learn to pay for men, men feel that they are cared for, and naturally they will always love us.