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"Beauty Scheming": Shen Er has slept with four men, why none of them can change her fate

Shen Er drank the poisonous wine handed by Dou Yifang himself, and left the world with remorse, she pursued the power of a lifetime, and finally did not achieve her wishes, no one regretted her after death, Shen Er's sudden departure, there was no shock of a wave, there was no scenery funeral, and there was no filial piety and grandson Phi Ma Dai Xiao, who died in a dark prison.

Shen Er has experienced four men in her life, two are the supreme emperor, one is a magnate who loves her to the bone, and the other is the Fei Fei Gongzi that Shen Er met when she first opened her love, in that era of "women rely on men to eat", Shen Er actually did not change her fate because of them.

Thinking about Shen'er's life, in fact, it is very sad, she has never got real happiness, none of the four men are "truly in love" with her, Shen'er is with them, are more calculated than feelings, which is also doomed to The fate of Shen'er will eventually lead to tragedy.

1, Qinglou woman, Liu Shaokang's attitude to marriage, wrote the reality of men

Shen'er's fate changed because of the appearance of Dou Yifang, originally she had a happy family, a father full of justice, a gentle and kind mother, but the appearance of Dou Yifang, so that her parents were killed, originally Dou Yifang promised to accompany Shen'er forever, but she still lost her word.

Shen Er was driven out by Dou Yifang's aunt, yin and yang mistakes were taken care of by the old bustard of a qinglou, brought back to do "reserve" flowers, Shen Er has been a beautiful embryo since childhood, the old bustard wants to use her to make a lot of money, and has not abused her much over the years, but there is no trace of warmth around Shen Er.

Shen'er has no relatives in this world for a long time, her only hope is to find a man who can love her and hurt her all her life, take her away from this place that makes her feel uneasy, and live a happy and ordinary life together.

Shen Er grew up so big, she had seen all kinds of men, she knew that the love in most men's mouths was just a lie that came from the mouth, and could not withstand any temptation, she asked those men, did anyone want to accompany her to the Yin Cao Mansion, everyone flinched, then a crisp voice came from behind the curtain: I accompany you.

It was a gentlemanly brother, Shen'er was also immediately attracted by his handsome face, at that time Shen'er was still innocent, Liu Shaokang was the first man chosen by Shen'er, in order to test him, Shen'er plunged into the water, Liu Shaokang did not hesitate to jump down to save her.

Shen Er had seen so many men, the first time there was such a man, desperately jumping into the water to save herself, she asked Liu Shaokang, "Are you not afraid of death?" Liu Shaokang replied: "I am more afraid of losing you than death", the same is the rhetoric of men flirting, this time Shen'er believed, and sure enough, in the face of love, women are brainless.

Although Shen'er has a variety of styles, but she did not think of relying on her body to exchange for more things, she only wanted a simple happiness, when choosing a man, she did not take power and financial resources as the standard, only based on her own likes as the standard, Liu Shaokang is not a very rich person, but Shen'er does not care about these, she only hopes that he can marry himself and give himself a home.

Shen'er asked Liu Shaokang when he would come to marry her, Liu Shaokang said that when he finished kissing, Shen'er told Liu Shaokang: If you dare to be touched by other women, I will kill you, I said that whoever wants my Shen'er's body will bear my life, if you can't afford it, I will kill him!

In fact, Liu Shaokang just wanted to play with Shen'er, when Shen'er said to marry her, he was stunned, but in order to get Shen'er's body, he still said against his will that he would be responsible for a lifetime, he said that he would not agree to that family affair, because in his heart, there was only one Shen'er.

However, men are always realistic, whether in reality or in the plot, men's standards for lovers and wives are not the same, for lovers, most of them choose to be affectionate, women who can bring him more stimulation, in the face of lovers, but also what kind of love words can be said, but not necessarily true.

And for the standard of the wife, always can not escape the gentleness and kindness, the family is innocent, because the wife is related to the entire family and future generations, is to stay for a lifetime, unlike the lover, tired of playing, you can get rid of it, Liu Shaokang's last choice, is also the choice that many men will make.

Liu Shaokang's blind date is Du Yunxi, a girl with a clean family and a temperament that does not lose shen'er, and most importantly, Du Yunxi is gentle and kinder than shen'er, more knowledgeable, and will become a man's inner help, Liu Shaokang did not hesitate to choose Du Yunxi.

For Liu Shaokang's choice, in fact, it is not difficult to understand, Shen'er is too easy to get, and he is only a few things that "please men", and after a long time, he is tired, and naturally he does not cherish it.

Shen'er is a Qinglou woman, even if she is innocent and clean, but her body is also full of dirty breath, like the Liu family, a family with a bit of status, the elders of the He clan will not agree to marry Shen'er, even if Shen'er has only one man, Liu Shaokang will believe, but others will not believe, he does not have much affection for Shen'er, naturally he is not willing to offend the clan for her.

On the day that Liu Shaokang and Du Yunxi became intimate, Shen'er came to "congratulate" and sent a very special gift, an unformed fetus, which was the child of Shen'er and Liu Shaokang, he was Shen'er's first man, and Shen'er sincerely loved him and believed in him.

The betrayal of the person she loves the most is the most painful, Shen'er is not willing to see the man she loves marry another woman, if she doesn't get it, she will destroy it, she killed Liu Shaokang and sacrificed her love, she said that if she gets her body, she will be responsible for a lifetime, if she can't do it, she can only die.

Liu Shaokang's way of shen'er, let me see the most selfish side of men in the relationship, in the face of two women with similar external conditions, he will definitely choose the more selfish side, for this reason, at the expense of hurting another person, once he let go, the former sea oath mountain alliance has turned into clouds, as if they have never known each other, cold and strange.

Zhang Ailing once said: I thought that love can fill the regrets of life, but what creates more regrets is love. Shen'er's life shortcomings also began with this dead love.

Such an ending, if it is replaced by a weaker woman, can only let others start to abandon, not everyone has the courage of Shen'er, dare to avenge themselves, but Shen'er has also become a wanted criminal, paying the price for love!

2, there is no supreme right, Liu Ying is just a mortal in Shen'er's heart

Shen'er mistakenly met Du Yunxi again, the resentment of being abandoned at the beginning has been hidden in Shen'er's heart, she hates Du Yunshi for the destruction of her family as soon as she appears, she hates Du Yunshi for promising not to leave her but throwing her in the street, she hates Du Yunshi for snatching the man she loves most.

At that time, although There was hatred in Shen'er's heart, there was still a trace of kindness in her heart, she was infected with the plague, Du Yunshi took care of her day and night, And Shen'er forgot her previous grudges and reconciled with Du Yunshi, at that time, Shen'er sincerely regarded Du Yunshi as his only relative.

Shen Er also promised like Du Yunxi that if she was favored by the emperor after entering the palace, she would definitely let her Sister Yunshi live a good life, and Du Yunxi sincerely helped Shen'er to approach the emperor at the beginning, but when she herself got closer to the imperial power, the more she found that being favored was a terrible thing.

At that time, empress dowager Lü Yan controlled the government and was bent on letting her niece Zhang Yan give birth to a prince, so she executed many of Liu Ying's concubines and also killed many princes, and Du Yunxi desperately tried to prevent Shen'er from being favored in order to save Shen'er.

Since being let down by Liu Shaokang, Shen'er no longer believes in love, she only has rights in her eyes, she feels that as long as she becomes the woman of the emperor, she will enjoy endless glory and wealth, and she will no longer be bullied like a kitten and a puppy, and now that she is spoiled, she will not live long, and Shen'er is not willing to take risks.

However, Shen'er is not God's perspective, Du Yunxi while doing everything possible to stop her, on the one hand, he is deeply loved by the emperor, and the first second is still persuading Shen'er to dispel the idea of approaching the emperor and live with peace of mind, and the next second the emperor rewards a bunch of things, such "deception", so that Shen'er can not accept, Shen'er roared angrily:

No wonder you don't let me get close to the emperor, it turns out that you yourself have climbed the branches, sister, if you get the emperor's favor, I am happier than anyone, but as a sister, there is no afterlife in this life, you are hiding from me too much, you don't have to pretend to be sorry, I know that in this palace, a group of women are robbing a man, and only I am stupid, only I am stupid, I believe you will help me!

In Shen'er's view, Du Yunxi was afraid that she would be favored first, robbed Du Yunxi of the opportunity, and only then did she do everything possible to stop herself, Du Yunxi said that it was dangerous to approach the emperor, but she herself used the ignorant empress step by step to get close to the emperor.

This was the second time Du Yunshi deceived Shen'er, her "good intentions" once again pushed Shen'er in the direction of the wicked, after which Shen'er spent a period of time in the palace without anyone's attention, Du Yunxi's reappearance gave her new hope, Shen'er tried her best, it was difficult to get close to the emperor, almost spoiled, and was once again interrupted by Du Yunxi.

The next day came the news that the favored palace ladies had inexplicably disappeared, and Shen'er also understood Yunshi's sister's painstaking heart, and the sisters rebuilt it, but because of the empress's plan, Shen'er became a hostage, Yunshi was reborn and renamed Dou Yifang, sent to the Daiguo as a meticulous work, shen'er's first half of life, bad luck is related to Du Yunshi.

Fate was toyed with by people in applause, Shen'er was more eager for power, her good nature was all destroyed, turned into a "power is the plan" person, she tried to get close to Liu Ying, and finally waited for an opportunity, she used miracle medicine to cure Liu Ying's illness, in order to please Liu Ying, she secretly took Liu Ying out of the palace.

Liu Ying was no longer willing to come back after leaving the palace, and wanted to be an ordinary couple with Shen'er, to play in the mountains and rivers together, and enjoy a peaceful life, but Shen'er did not believe in this illusory promise for a long time, and only wanted the rights that could be held in her hands, and she and Lü Hou returned to the palace.

In Shen'er's heart, Liu Ying is just a chess piece she uses to climb upwards, if Liu Ying does not have the supreme imperial power on her, it will have no value for her at all, even if Liu Ying can love her and hurt her, it is not what Shen'er wants, which is also doomed to The tragic end of Shen'er.

3, Lu Lu loves his wife: When he meets people who truly love and care for himself, he has long lost the ability to love

Shen'er was originally a smart girl, but she was blinded by the power, had no ability to think, and helped the emperor escape from the palace, which was a capital offense, and when Lü Hou let her choose, she wanted to give her a way to live, but Shen'er chose the road of death.

Prudent's philosophy of life is: I'd rather take risks for greater benefits than sneak around and steal life!

Lü Hou fulfilled Liu Ying's promise to make Shen'er a lady, and then there was Shen'er's death, the Han Palace had rules, all concubines without heirs, the emperor would be martyred after death, Liu Ying was announced to die, and Shen'er's end was to give Liu Ying a funeral.

In order to save her life, Shen'er took the initiative to hook up with Lü Hou's nephew Lü Lu, which may be the lucky beginning of Shen'er's life, but it was not until after the loss that she did not know how precious this relationship was.

In order to save Shen'er, Lü Lu stole the day and rescued Shen'er to become his wife and military master, And Lü Lu loved this woman with many flowers and intestines, and was willing to listen to her everything, and even more willing to do anything for her.

Through Lü Lu, Shen Er lived a life of power, wealth and status, and even more got The unique favor of Lü Lu, how happy it should be for a woman to get these at the same time, but Shen Er does not seem to be satisfied with this happiness, she wants to be an empress.

Shen'er threw Lü Lu into his hands, took the military power from Empress Lü, and became the emperor's master, forming a situation in which Liu Lu's two families were divided, and once there was a mutiny, Shen Er threw Lü Lu himself into king.

Lü Lu did not really want to be that emperor, but Shen Er wanted to be an empress, even if he offended his aunt and carried the reputation of a thief, he also had to fight for Shen Er, originally the victory was in hand, but Lü Hou's loyalty to the Liu family made Lü Lu lose.

Lü Lu became a chaotic thief who everyone was condemned, living with Shen'er in anonymity, he was spoiled from childhood, he would not do anything, Lü Lu and Shen'er's life was very difficult, he was very distressed about Shen'er, bought a bun, he himself was reluctant to eat, all to Shen'er, and lied that he had eaten.

For the sake of Shen'er, he put down his face and went to the Qinglou to play the piano, but Shen'er did not want to live a hard life, and finally calculated that Lü Lu had come, she poisoned Lü Lu, Lü Lu knew that it was poisonous, but he was willing to eat, he did not want to drag Shen Er, as long as he died, Shen Er could start again, this is the only man Shen Er who is really willing to die for her in this life:

Shen'er, I am the Lu family, if you show up, it will definitely kill you, instead of letting you suffer with me, it is better to send you to the empress dowager, so that your future life will be better, and I, have my own place to go, to the place you want me to go!

The deepest love is not that I am willing to die for you, but even if you let me die, I will not hesitate to drink the poison you offered with your own hands, Shen'er found the man who is willing to die for her, and is more willing to use death to complete her, but unfortunately she has long since lost her understanding of cherishing, Lu Lu to the last moment of life, is for Shen'er, to live for her, to die for her.

Shen'er's life, the biggest mistake is to fail Lü Lu, a woman's life, the most rare thing is to meet a man who is willing to pay all for himself, if Shen Er and Lü Lu know how to restrain their ambitions, rest assured that they will follow Lu Lu to live a rich life, do not use him to obtain things that do not belong to them, there will be no sad ending later.

4, Liu Heng concubine: climbing the peak, do not know how to meet and converge, will only die faster

In the end, although Shen Er once again used Dou Yifang to become Liu Heng's concubine, she had already become a person with a different face, blinded by jealousy, and lost the ability to perceive happiness.

When Shen Er entered the palace again, she saw that Dou Yifang had become an empress, and her heart was very unbalanced, and she wanted to collapse Dou Yifang and replace herself, and the feelings between Dou Yifang and Liu Heng were decades of love, and Shen Er tried to shake, which was simply whimsical.

Shen'er used Zhou Yafu and wanted to force the palace on Dou Yifang, but the organs calculated everything, and finally dialed the reverse scales of Dou Yifang and Zhou Yafu, and Shen'er threw Zhou Yafu, saying that Dou Yifang was the murderer who killed his sister that year, and Zhou Yafu had always been suspicious and united with Shen'er.

But Shen'er was wrong, should not put his hand on the body of the snow kite, Shen'er asked the emperor to marry the snow kite, Zhou Yafu, when the snow kites got married, Shen'er sent a cup of poisonous wine, and the snow kites were wasted by the people arranged by Shen'er on the road.

Using the snow kites to divide the relationship between Dou Yifang and Zhou Yafu, Shen'er succeeded, but what she did not expect was that Snow Iris's loyalty and Zhou Yafu's nature were so firm, Shen'er threatened Snow Iris with Zhou Yafu's life, let her slander Dou Yifang and Liu Ying's affair, she told Snow Iris that in a few days she would be the empress, as long as Snow Iris listened to her, Zhou Yafu would be fine.

Snow Iris was sandwiched between Zhou Yafu and Dou Yifang, did not know how to face it, chose to swallow gold to commit suicide, protected Dou Yifang, and also protected Zhou Yafu, which completely aroused Dou Yifang's killing heart.

Dou Yifang involved framing Shen'er and poisoning his children, Liu Heng did not see Dou Yifang's plan, but he still accompanied Dou Yifang to finish the play, Dou Yifang gave Shen'er a cup of poisonous wine, broke their last sisterhood, Liu Heng for Shen'er's death, there was no slightest fluctuation, from beginning to end, Shen'er did not enter Liu Heng's eyes, let alone into Liu Heng's heart, it was Shen'er's calculations, and only then did she have a child.

Before her death, Shen Er summed up her life, and she told Dou Yifang:

From the very beginning, I shouldn't have dreamed of what didn't belong to me, of taking the emperor away from you, and I wanted to be the empress, but all this was just a dream!

Shen Er's life was ultimately ruined by his own greed, because of a hurt, he sealed his heart, causing him to only see the right, not the truth, miss the most beautiful things, and also kill the people who loved him the most.

No matter at any time, women should not indulge themselves in the face of setbacks and suffering, show their most unbearable side, let alone lose their original intentions, learn to live with self-respect and self-love, and learn to love themselves well in the days of being looked down upon and not loved.

There is a saying in "Know It or Not": The daughter's family has to be strong in the heart, and the strong is in the face, it is going to suffer losses, not only to make people slander, but also not necessarily to the top! The more powerful that is, the more you can't see it on your face! Shen Er just lost in the inability to hide her desires and emotions, and wrote the power on her face, if someone had not protected her, she might have died a long time ago.

In this life, the first thing that matters is to learn to be a sensible governor. People live in this world, there are always those who are willing and those who do not, what is yours is yours, not yours, do not force, cherish the blessings and follow the fate, can not do whatever it takes to seek the end... May we all maintain our original intentions, and do not harm ourselves and harm others like Shen'er.