Liu Qi, who has not been forgiven until death, is the biggest "shame" of Dou Yifang.

Liu Qi was seriously ill, and the doctor said that he had exhausted his life and could not survive the hour, and before he died, he asked to see his mother again, but Dou Yifang ruthlessly refused this last meeting, on the grounds that she believed that Liu Qi had killed Liu Wu.

Liu Qi could not wait for the arrival of his mother, he could only let people carry the sick bed to Dou Yifang's bed, and a moment later, he might never see his mother again, Liu Qi explained with his last breath that he really did not kill Liu Wu and let Dou Yifang forgive him.

Liu Qi wanted to give the Tiger Charm to Dou Yifang for safekeeping, but the hand hanging in mid-air never received a response from the Queen Mother, just like his desire for mother's love for so many years, he had never received a response from the Queen Mother.

Obviously it is the one who is misunderstood, but for the sake of that little bit of pitiful mother-child affection, take the initiative to ask for forgiveness, Liu Qi's life, the biggest tragedy is to meet a mother like Dou Yifang, from childhood to adulthood, no matter what you do, you will be ruthlessly wronged by Dou Yifang, punished, scolded, alienated, this is the last time.

Dou Yifang's life, living very happily, she has Liu Heng's complete love, with the supreme rights of Empress Lü and Empress Bo, for this reason, Empress Bo is also jealous of Dou Yifang's life, until before she dies, she forgives her, but Dou Yifang's life, as the role of mother, is far inferior to the two empresses, and she has failed incomparably.

Absent motherly love

Liu Qi and Guan Tao were born in the Dai Guo, when Dou Yifang was still just a beauty of Liu Heng, the Dai Wang, and did not have a high reputation, what Dou Yifang did every day was not to accompany the Dai Wang, or to guard the child, in those days, Liu Qi and Guan Tao's childhood time was beautiful and happy.

However, all the changes, from the success of the king to quell the chaos and ascend to the throne, Dou Yifang, as Liu Heng's queen, naturally became the lord of the harem, she loved the world, and divided her energy to everyone who needed it, but ignored the pair of children who would not express their needs.

Guan Tao and Liu Qi both have their own palaces, there are special people responsible for taking care of life and living, there are also special masters, the master that Dou Yifang found for Liu Qi and Guan Tao, is Zhou Yafu, who is just and righteous, forcing them to study, copy, and force Liu Qi to practice martial arts every day, and even the birthday of Dou Yifang is locked up in the house by Zhou Yafu on the pretext of copying books.

Such a practice greatly killed the children's playful nature, but Guan Tao and Liu Qi, what they need most is not to play, but the company of their mothers, Dou Yifang and Liu Heng had a conflict, Empress Bo took the opportunity to give Liu Heng a beautiful time, Dou Yifang was comatose for a day and a night because of stimulation, And Guan Tao and Liu Qi quietly stayed by the bedside of Dou Yifang.

Until then, the nature and qualifications of the two children were still very good, and the feelings with Dou Yifang were still very deep, but with the neglect of Dou Yifang, Guantao gradually became a stupid and wayward person without a suitable person's education, and there was no shadow of Dou Yifang and Liu Heng's intelligence and kindness.

In the end, Guan Tao even had to frame her own mother, for her own interests, she had no conscience, Dou Yifang was also very disappointed in this daughter, and finally Guan Tao personally killed his half-brother Liu Wu, which made Dou Yifang misunderstand Liu Qi for a lifetime.

In fact, the acquired education and environment are more important than the innate personality, Shen'er did not have Dou Yifang's kindness, nor did dou Yifang's wisdom, but her two children, Wang Hui, grew up around Xueyi's aunt Mo Li, who was both wise and kind-hearted by the kind Mo, and became the next generation of sages, and Liu Wu grew up under the care of Dou Yifang, although he inherited Shen'er's impulse directly, but in his bones he was affected by Dou Yifang, and he had always remained kind until he was "targeted (Li Miaoren's scheme)" by his brother.

The nature of the pavilion pottery is not bad, if Dou Yifang can give the pavilion pottery some more companionship and education, the pavilion pottery will not necessarily be worse than Wang Hui, the pavilion pottery finally extended the blade to his mother, which is also the retribution for Dou Yifang's education dereliction of duty, Guantao is a married woman, Dou Yifang's influence on her is not very large, but as a son, Liu Qi, was injured by Dou Yifang for a lifetime.

Dou Yifang's education of Liu Qi is very similar to many parents now, that is, to find a master for the child that he thinks is very good, and then leave it alone, leave everything to the master to manage, be happy and comfortable, and concentrate on his own career, as everyone knows, the growth of the child is not to have food and drink and teacher education, they need more emotional care, and the indoctrination of values.

After Shen'er gave birth to Liu Wu, Liu Qi's attention after seeing his father and mother was focused on Liu Wu's body, and his concern for him and Guan Tao was even less than before, for this little brother who took away the love of his parents, Liu Qi had resentment in his heart, when Shen'er asked him if he liked his brother, Liu Qi said unabashedly, "Don't like, hate him, I wish he died sooner"!

This sentence Liu Qi was just lip service, but was used by Shen Er as a handle to frame Liu Qi, let Liu Wu fall into the river, and then said that Liu Qi pushed down, Dou Yifang listened, indiscriminately ran to blame Liu Qi, Liu Qi was frightened to hide under the table, Dou Yifang did not listen to the explanation, slapped Liu Qi's face, questioned:

Why hurt your brother, you were born to the same father, you are brothers and sisters, your master did not teach you, to be good to your brother?

Isn't this the typical thinking of a child who is not good and blames the teacher? As a mother, do not care about the feelings of their children, when things happen, without any investigation and understanding, do not listen to explanations, just treat their children, this is for a wronged child, how much harm to the soul!

Dou Yifang never knew her children, she didn't know why Liu Qi would hate Liu Wu for no reason, she didn't believe in the kindness of her son, Liu Qi was not the kind of person who was fierce, he would never do anything to his brother, saying such a thing, but feeling wronged for his mother.

Because Shen Er and Liu Wu, Liu Heng and Dou Yifang had a conflict, and Liu Qi told Dou Yifang:

I hate her because of him, the father and the emperor will not come to the mother queen here, I often see the mother queen hiding in the corner crying, I feel sorry for the mother queen, I hate him, I hate him, I am your son, why do you always not believe me, why do you always help others to beat me? I hate you! I hate you!

As an adult, Dou Yifang did not soothe the child's emotions, but let the child worry about her, how sad, and then hurt her own child, and how hateful, this is not a mother to do something!

The mothers of the world are desperately protecting their children, and Dou Yifang, for his reputation as a queen of sages, always sacrifices his children at the cost of his own virtuous name, Liu Qi was so angry that he escaped from the palace, died nine times, and almost lost his life.

After Liu Qi returned to the palace, he took the initiative to forgive Dou Yifang, the mother and son reconciled, and Dou Yifang promised that he would never misunderstand Liu Qi like this again, but her promise, like the weightless dandelion, could not withstand the blowing of a little breeze.

In order to balance King Wu, Liu Heng took King Wu Shizi to the palace as a hostage, and gave it to the crown prince Liu Qi as a companion, and Liu Xian, who was favored by his parents at home, had a sense of superiority all over his body, which made Liu Qi feel very inferior.

Liu Xianhun was prepared by his mother herself, elaborate sachets, hand-embroidered with exquisitely embroidered sweat towels, every birthday, his mother carefully prepared gifts for him, and Liu Qi recalled his own growth, it seems that the mother never personally did anything for him, Liu Xian asked Liu Qi:

Did your mother never do anything for you? She won't dislike you, like someone else!

This sentence completely stung Liu Qi, as a proud son of heaven, but he lived even less than an ordinary person, on his birthday, Liu Qi waited bitterly for his mother to be able to see him, and waited until late at night, and his mother queen was at the moment guarding the brother he hated, Liu Qi was extremely disappointed.

Extreme insecurity

Under the stimulation of Liu Xian's hot irony and cold thorn, Liu Qi's heart has changed, and he has a lot of resentment, after that, Liu Qi no longer longs for the favor of his mother, he began to take the initiative to alienate his mother, since he can't get it so much, then he simply doesn't want it, the real estrangement between mother and son is from this time on, which lasts for a lifetime.

At this moment, Dou Yifang still did not know why Liu Qi had such a change, did not know whether it was because she had done something wrong, she was like this, never really cared about the psychology of her children, self-righteously "for his good".

Liu Xian is a typical clumsy disciple, debauched, his arrival, so that the original nature of the good, temperament of Liu Qi, began to go to the extreme of "revenge" indulgence, Liu Qi actually began to enjoy the joy of doing bad things, he hates to be the prince who is asked by others.

Liu Xian took Liu Qi to peek at Dou Yifang to take a bath for the fiancée chosen by Dou Changjun, and after being discovered, he was bitten back by Liu Xian, this was the second time that Liu Qi was wronged by his closest and most trusted person, and once again he did not listen to the explanation and did not investigate the truth, so he locked Liu Qi into a dark violent room, and Liu Qi asked bitterly:

Queen Mother, am I your own child, am I your son in the end, why don't you believe me, why don't you intercede for me, why? Queen Mother, I hate you! I hate you! I hate you!

Dou Yifang, as a mother, is really too much of a failure, if it is changed to Empress Lü, who wants to hurt her son, she dares to be an enemy of the people of the world, and she is even more reluctant to let her son suffer a little grievance, so is Empress Bo, who did not hesitate to cut his face for his son, but also to protect his son's life! In Dou Yifang's eyes, everything is more important than her son, which is what she calls "great love".

Liu Qi was not accustomed to Liu Xian's bottomless "lowly", came up with anger, killed Liu Xian by mistake, King Wu found the palace to ask for an explanation, Dou Yifang gave birth to a "brilliant plan", pushed Liu Qi out to the King of Wu, let the King of Wu dispose of it himself, she wanted to gamble with the King of Wu.

Liu Qi hid in Empress Bo's palace, at this moment, the only person he trusted was this imperial grandmother who had no rights, Dou Yifang ran to Empress Bo's palace and tricked Liu Qi out, she told Liu Qi:

Qi'er, you come out, the mother is willing to bear everything with you, you are at fault, the mother is willing to carry for you, carry for you, if you are not wrong, the mother must return your justice, you are the child born in october by the mother, no mother in the whole world will harm her own child!

Liu Qi once again believed in Dou Yifang, above the main hall, Dou Yifang personally pushed Liu Qi, who was terrified and trembling, to the sword of King Wu, regardless of Liu Qi's struggle, Liu Qi's despair, helplessness, and the collapse of trust at that moment filled every cell under the body, although Dou Yifang was a scheming, but such a small child understood what a plan was.

Oh my God, what kind of mother is this, not to mention that this bet may be lost, Liu Qi may lose his life, just for a seven- or eight-year-old child, a large knife is on his neck, to cut himself to death, even if he does not die, the psychological shadow left behind is also a lifetime can not be erased, which is difficult for an adult to deal with, Dou Yifang actually fiercely put his heart down.

From then on, Liu Qi's last bit of trust in Dou Yifang was gone, no matter what Dou Yifang did for him, he would subconsciously feel that Dou Yifang was going to harm him, and in the past, he believed in the truth that "tiger poison does not eat children", but when he was pushed by his mother's hand to the bottom of King Wu's knife, he no longer believed it.

When Liu Qi was eighteen years old, Dou Yifang and Empress Bo helped Liu Qi arrange marriage and chose a virtuous and kind concubine, Bo Qiaohui, but Liu Qi never had to look at her squarely, because she was arranged by her mother, and he liked a small palace girl with a humble birth and a straightforward nature.

Dou Yifang painstakingly taught Qiao Hui how to grasp her husband's heart, what she didn't know was that Liu Qi was not Liu Heng, and it was impossible to make Liu Qi really like it with the means she taught, and Qiao Hui was not a talented person.

Endless misconceptions

Liu Wu was made the King of Liang, and was sent to the fiefdom at a very young age, there was only one prince in the palace, Liu Qi, and he was also a righteous prince, and his wariness and resentment toward Dou Yifang were gradually diluted by time, however, Liu Heng's illness was critical, and he once again tore apart the mother-son relationship that was hard to repair a little.

Liu Qi, as the crown prince, because of the "bribery" thing was relegated to the imperial tomb, the emperor was critically ill, Dou Yifang did not dare to recall the prince, in order to stabilize the situation in the palace, she sent someone to summon the King of Liang back overnight, Liu Qi and Dou Yifang, there was a lack of trust between mother and son, Liu Qi always thought that his mother and queen, hurt Liu Wu more, now there is no communication, Dou Yifang directly did this, Liu Qi inevitably misunderstood, he thought that Dou Yifang wanted to empty him as the prince, and established Liu Wu as the new emperor.

Under the misdirection of Princess Guantao, Li Miao, and Bo Liangdi, Liu Qi also believed that Dou Yifang wanted to make Liu Wu the new emperor, this time, he had put up with his mother for decades, stretched out a "sharp blade" and forced Dou Yifang to hand over the tiger charm, at this moment, Liu Qidu could not bear to hurt Dou Yifang, although he participated in the "forced palace", it was only to confirm that Dou Yifang himself was not as they said.

In Liu Qi's eyes, what was revealed was another disappointment, at this time Liu Wu led the soldiers into the palace, the three children gathered together, karma, all presented one by one at this moment, planting melons and melons and beans, no matter what kind of relationship, what kind of results you want to get, what kind of causes you have to plant.

Dou Yifang can let her two biological children stab at her, it is her dereliction of duty as a mother, can make a son of another life desperately protect her, at the expense of the future of life, but also the good cause she planted, but to share too much love to other people's sons, in order to be a good stepmother, ignore their own children, such a practice is still wrong.

Liu Qi was able to ascend to the throne in a kind of "forced palace" situation, Liu Qi's life, constantly confirming whether he was Dou Yifang's son, confirming whether Dou Yifang had love for him in his heart, Dou Yifang called Liu Qi to the Buddha shrine, let Liu Qi admit his mistake, Liu Qi asked Dou Yifang:

In the heart of the queen, am I still your son? Does the Queen Mother still love me as always?

Hearing Dou Yifang's affirmation, Liu Qi let go of his resentment, his mind was simple, because of the extreme lack of love, it was always easy to be moved by a little love, he knelt down and begged Dou Yifang to forgive, but in exchange, Dou Yifang used the condition of "letting Go of Wu'er, not caring about him bringing troops into the palace" as a condition to let Liu Qi ascend the throne.

Although Liu Qi had a grudge against Liu Wu in his heart, he never wanted to kill each other, as long as Liu Wu'an kept to himself, he could also make him safe and rich all his life, and he kept his promise to Dou Yifang for a lifetime, and Dou Yifang's misunderstanding of him also lasted a lifetime, and she did not know this son at all in this life.

Liu Wu was deceived into the palace by Li Miaoren's design, Dou Yifang blamed all the mistakes on Liu Qi, Liu Qi promised Dou Yifang to send Liu Wu back to the fiefdom safely, never to enter Beijing again, but Liu Wu did not settle down from then on, he was in liang state, he was privately legislated in Liang, collaborated with the enemy and treason, and also made a dragon robe privately, without a duty as a courtier.

Dou Yifang asked Liu Qi to spare Liu Wu's life, this time, even Guan Tao complained that Dou Yifang was eccentric, the improper things of his own birth, and the treasure of other people's births, Guan Tao had a bad heart, sent someone to kill Liu Wu, Dou Yifang learned the news, once again did not listen to Liu Qi's explanation, firmly believed that Liu Qi could not tolerate Liu Wu.

Liu Qi's body was already very weak at that time, he was already dying soon, he did not want to leave this world with regrets, and he did not want the mother queen to misunderstand herself again, he dragged the sick body to pray for Dou Yifang to listen to his explanation, Dou Yifang refused to meet, and finally Liu Qi could only pray for Dou Yifang's forgiveness, but until death, Dou Yifang did not look at him with a straight eye.

Liu Qi, as a prince, carries jiangshan sheji on his back, naturally from childhood to live a different life with others, he needs to have responsibility and responsibility, in order to take on a country, but Dou Yifang is too indifferent to him, Liu Qi said the most regrettable sentence before he died: "In my memory, the queen mother has never hugged me"!

This sentence contains too many things, Dou Yifang, as a mother, absent from the growth and companionship of the child, and finally pushed her child step by step into the abyss of pain, even death is not so at ease, when she knows that she misunderstood Liu Qi, her heart is very painful, but it is already too late.

In Liu Qi's life, the biggest tragedy is to put on a mother like Dou Yifang, and dou Yifang's life, the biggest shame, is not to do a good job as a qualified mother!