What the world needs most is talent, the most important thing is talent, now people are getting smarter, most people are not things in the pool, they have two shots, but it is difficult to say whether anyone uses it
Ability and level are not the determinants of a person's success. People with mediocre qualifications will make a difference if they are reused, such as Cao Pi and Cao Zhi, the two brothers, on the talent of Cao Pi is not comparable, but even if you have a level, if you do not use you, you are waste wood.
For example, Li Guang, who has not been weighted all his life, is known as the Flying General, which makes the Xiongnu feel frightened, but it is useless! No matter how big the skill, the Han Jing Emperor just couldn't look at him. So much so that he lived a lifetime of suffocation, and finally he was bullied and forced by the young Wei Qing to commit suicide.
There are countless people with ability, and there are very few who emerge, for example: we look at those folk artists, the singing skills are impeccable, but the nameless and unsought for them, but those hot singers, some of them sing out of tune, but they do not affect the scenery of others, shining on the stage, hugging before and after, and being sought after. Therefore, it is still not enough to just bury your head in hard work, and if you want to stand out, someone must praise you.
The person who holds you is the noble person on your life path, without the help of the noble person, it will be difficult to break out of your own world.
So, how to get the help of noble people, accumulate more blessings, and welcome more good luck?
In this issue, Yue Yue Guoxue will talk to you about this topic - a person, keeping in mind the three rules of the world, often have noble people to help, to welcome more good luck!
First, make serious efforts to cultivate obscurity
The ninth day of the first year, the hidden dragon should not be used - "I Ching"
When you first enter the workplace or have just entered a certain platform, remember this sentence - the situation is unclear, and the hidden dragon should not be used.
Don't show yourself up, don't make your point of view, stay quiet for a while, see the situation clearly, and then work on yourself.
A person, whether he is a well-deserved genius or a waste material in name only, does not matter. As long as it is not wasted to the end, there is still hope. There is no real waste in the world, it depends on whether it can be excavated, whether it is appreciated.
The first step is to find the place in you, and then, like cultivating flowers, watering, fertilizing, you must be very patient, waiting for the process of flowers to bloom, it will be very boring, very tedious, even very cold, very difficult to survive.
On the other hand, don't show yourself too early, because there is no strong support behind you, you are alone, and it is easy to be attacked by the crowd.
Second, find a heavyweight mentor to be the guide
Ninety-two, see the dragon in the field, see the lord. - The I Ching
After a period of accumulation of strength, you can accumulate thick and thin, establish the ideal person in your mind, and then fully express your sincerity to the other party - worship the teacher.
For the elders in the circle with high qualifications and high moral standing, they are willing to invest in the door, let the elders take a belt, help a gang, pull a pull, and help a support, which is the only way for young juniors to grow rapidly. On the road of life, if there is a heavyweight mentor as a guide, you can struggle for many years less.
If Guo Degang had not worshipped Hou Yaowen, it would have been difficult to have today's achievements, and if Zeng Guofan had not worshipped Tang Jian, the ending was unknown, and If Du Yuesheng had not worshipped Jin Rong, he might have been selling fruits on the beach, and it would be difficult to have the opportunity to get ahead.
In short, in the unit and workplace, without the appreciation of big people, it is difficult to stand on, let alone develop.
So why do the big people appreciate you?
This requires the ability and strength that you patiently cultivated in the previous stage, and fully demonstrated it at this stage. And you must take the initiative, specifically depending on your personal understanding and creation, in short, let the other party see your self-motivation and feel that you are a material that can be created, after all, no one is willing to accept an indisputable offspring.
Third, self-denial and self-discipline, and stay sober in the face of great right and wrong
Ninety-three: A gentleman is dry all day long, and he is not guilty. - The I Ching
Big people give you the opportunity to accept you, and they are also observing you, so you have to be self-disciplined and self-denying day and night
In every word and deed, we must pay attention to measure, especially we must never make mistakes, maintain a correct position in the face of major issues of right and wrong, and do not make mistakes, otherwise we will inevitably be out of the game and abandon our previous achievements.
When I mentioned Li Guang earlier, we all know that Li Guang is difficult to seal, Li Guang is brave in battle, and has made many military achievements, so why can't he be reused?
It was because when the rebellion of the Seven Kingdoms was pacified, Li Guang accompanied Zhou Yafu to pacify the Wu-Chu alliance and made a battle achievement, and Liu Wu, the younger brother of Emperor Jing of Han, took a fancy to Li Guang, and although Liu Wu and Liu Qi, the Emperor of Han Jing, were brothers, the two were not very harmonious, because Liu Wu always remembered his brother's throne and always wanted to replace him, so secretly he had been secretly developing his own forces.
Liu Wu saw that Li Guang was a rare general, so he wanted to win him over, so he found an opportunity to award the general seal to Li Guang. What a privilege it would be to naively think that the Emperor's brother had conferred on me the Great General's Seal? So he happily accepted it, not only that, but also happily preached everywhere - the King of Liang gave me the general seal, which made emperor Jing of Han very angry, if it were not for the fact that Li Guang was really unintentional, and when he was employing people, I am afraid that he would have been punished at that time.
So-called: the person who knows the times is Junjie, it is very important for a person to maintain a correct position, if you want to avoid making mistakes in the face of great right and wrong, you must always remind yourself to be careful and cautious, a little careless, full of losses.
On the road of life, it is inevitable to experience storms and storms, when the strength is weak, it is more necessary to rely on, a help, a person, remember the above three heavenly rules, work hard, self-discipline, there must always be noble people to help, life will have more good luck!
Of course, as the founder of zonghengjia, the wisdom of Oniguzi is not something that can be said in these two articles.
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As a summary of the experience of The Taoists, "Ghost Valley" integrates the essence of Ghost Valley's lifelong academic research, and its value is self-evident. This book was later called "The Forbidden Fruit of Wisdom, the Book of Wonders".
Today I recommend this book on psychology to you, mainly to teach us how to deal with people, from the perspective of human nature, any excavation of human weaknesses, observation, to success.
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