Oniguchi can be said to be a very legendary person. He was born in the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, and was familiar with the strategy of war, and there were many famous disciples in history such as Pang Juan and Su Qin. Not only that, he was also proficient in various schools of learning and was one of the representative figures of Taoism.
And it is worth mentioning that he founded the Zonghengjia school. This school did not have as many rules and regulations as other schools, in contrast, the Zonghengjia school was more understandable and had a profound impact on future generations.
Among the many wisdoms left behind by the sage Guzi, he said that most of the people with these two characteristics are narrow-minded people who cannot be deeply related
The first feature: those who are proud of others are not as good as those who are shallow
Those who always feel that others are inferior to themselves, they must also be shallow people. Arrogant people feel that what they do is right, and others do not do everything as well as themselves.
Such a person is better to say that they are blinded by their own pride, can not see their own shortcomings, can not see the advantages of others, cooperation with them will not only not help in the career, but also by their attitude to affect their mood, like this kind of narrow-minded people, do not have a deep friendship with them.
And a person with ability, when he encounters such a person, will not care too much about them, because a person with ability knows that a person with high eyes and low hands is not a real skill, such a person, whether as a friend or a partner is not the best candidate, and if we meet such a person, we must wake up and not regret it in the end.
The second characteristic: those who are suspicious of people will be villains
Only small people will always think that others are villains, they will always stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others, do not know that they are exactly that kind of person, a person who likes moral kidnapping, their hearts are first of all very narrow people. There is a video of a young man on the bus giving way to a seat, but suddenly kicked the teenager next to him, because the teenager did not give up his seat to the old man.
Such a person is obviously a moral kidnapper, and the young man thinks that he has a reason to "teach" others when he gives up his seat, but his behavior is no different from that of a villain, and like a kind of person, we do not need to have deep friendship with them, and those who have ability will not care about them.
For people who are really capable, when they meet these two kinds of people, they will not care too much about them, because this will not only not help their careers, but also harm their mood more than they lose. The more incompetent people are, the more they will find superiority in others, so that we do not need to have deep friendships with them.
Remembering these wisdoms summarized by Oniguzi can remind us to reflect on ourselves and pay attention to our behavior and behavior, then bad luck will naturally go away.
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