Oniguzi was a prominent figure in the Warring States period, and everyone called him a saint. Although Oniguzi lived more than 2,000 years ago, the precious wisdom he left behind has been passed down to this day. Oniguzi: The best state of doing things as a person is not deliberate. Do not deliberately self-expression, nor deliberately indifferent to fame and fortune; do not deliberately pander, do not deliberately be crazy; do not deliberately chase popularity, nor deliberately stand out. If it is, it is not tired, not entangled, not disappointed, and has the indisputable world as written in the "Cai Gen Tan": "Spoiled and not alarmed, watch the flowers blossom and fall before the court; go to stay unintentional, look at the clouds in the sky and the clouds".
Oniguzi told me: When people reach fifty, try not to be more truthful in these two things, which will bring misfortune. After listening to it, I felt like I was enlightened, and I felt that my mind was also very open-minded.
I don't know what to do, I have always been in love, and I must be able to "go along with the feelings" at will
People's feelings are really complicated, first of all, the flesh and blood impact brought by the five senses, and then the soul impact after getting along, but how many can resist long-term coexistence and run into each other?
Sometimes a relationship can really be short enough to make people sigh, and there will be a long-term but never complete deep affection. All things are like Tai Chi, pay attention to a yin and yang harmony, the feelings are also, the personalities of the two people need to complement each other, and then there will be emotional run-in.
In the face of feelings, it is necessary to go along with the feelings, there are eternal feelings in this world, but only because of people's seven passions and six desires, resulting in only a few such feelings, some people may not see a pair of gods and immortals in their lives, let alone experience it personally. Like is like, but at the same time as liking, you must be very clear about what kind of like you really are, and you must also be very clear about the importance of this kind of like in your heart and then make a decision, which is responsible for yourself, but also in order not to disappoint the other party.
All feelings are not playthings, they need to be taken seriously by everyone, and those who can face up to their emotions and move with their hearts will definitely have great achievements.
There are all kinds of changes in human affairs, and I learn to "look at it coldly" and think about it
Between the worlds, everything has its cause and effect origin, no matter what it is, there may be an ending that is completely contrary to the imagination, there are unpredictable changes in all events, there are still human hearts in the world, and the most elusive thing for people is the word "human heart".
The so-called cold view is not "hanging high without concerning oneself", but a kind of insight. It is not easy to distinguish between good and evil, and the story never knows who plays which role until the end. At this time, you need to have a cool head and clear thinking to help you judge, don't be interrupted by others to choose and firmly believe in the direction, people are herd mentality, sometimes they will choose the same path as the public, but sometimes what they give up is the justice they have always insisted on.
No matter what is not thought twice, there will be regrets, any judgment is inseparable from careful thinking and deliberation, no important decision can be decided in an instant, all inferences can not be separated from reasonable basis, to see the right and wrong in life as a case, carefully think twice before considering whether to involve it.
Leave seven points of seriousness to live, and leave three points of dementia to prevent death. Everything must not be too serious "hot", we must leave three points of leeway, not only for their own future, but also for themselves to leave three points of peace, will not be sincerely afraid all day.
The pace of life is often too hurried, and the wind and rain have experienced more ups and downs, and they will look down on all the world. Red dust is like a dream, and no one is the only one. Fireworks are beautiful, but they are just moments! All that belongs to you is memories and dreams, and the courage to stride forward
Of course, the above is only my half-understanding of "Ghost Valley"!
In this complex social system, we have to cultivate our ability to deal with the world, and what Oniguzi teaches us is to be strict with ourselves, cultivate ourselves, be lenient with others, and repay society is to do good!
Now there are many people who learn ghost valley, because ghost valley strategy is different from Zhuge Liang, his strategy can be applied to the study and life of our ordinary people, and learning life will go to a higher level!
After reading "Oniguzi", I found that there are many ways to deal with the world, and there are many techniques and strategies for accumulating good luck. Old Mr. Onigu has already made it clear!
If a person has not yet made a fortune by the age of forty, then he should read more "Ghost Valley".
In fact, it's not just middle-aged people. If young people had read this book earlier, they would have been more likely to learn the truth about society and understand the complexities of people's hearts, and they would have been more likely to succeed. Reading more about "Ghost Valley", in addition to understanding more about some unspoken rules of society, can also make it easier to do things.
At present, there are many entrepreneurs who study Ghost Valley, because the strategy of Ghost Valley is different from Zhuge Liang, Zhuge Liang is talking about governing the country and the world, while Mr. Ghost Valley is talking about the wisdom of the people, which is more suitable for us to study.
If it can be passed down and will be passed on forever, then there must be something worth learning about the philosophy of oniguchi. According to the records of his disciples' descendants, his strategies are gathered in the book "Oniguzi", which is all wisdom that can be used in our daily lives.
It is worth mentioning that "Ghost Valley" has gathered the ideological essence of zonghengjia, bingjia, Taoist, immortal, etc., not only for each article to have analysis and introduction, but also attached to the ancient and modern Chinese and foreign representative cases, covering management, shopping malls, workplaces, life and other fields, with wonderful stories to show the wisdom and strategy of ghost valley.
In fact, after watching "Ghost Valley", many people will be surprised to find that the usual communication skills and "unspoken rules" mentioned by Mr. "Ghost Valley" thousands of years ago have been very clear. If you reach middle age and are still confused and worried about your livelihood, then "Ghost Valley" is really a book you must read.
This set of books "Ghost Valley" has a total of 5 volumes, each of which is a wisdom book that is of great help to the workplace and life, it can be said that as long as you take out one of them, they are books that will benefit you for life.
After reading "Ghost Valley", I know that if you meet a pig, don't talk to him about ideals, because it only knows feed.
After reading the "Parchment Scroll", I know: When the heart is big, the matter is small. When the heart is wide, the annoyance is gone.
After reading "Wolf Road", I know that people who are not used to it, don't care, smile, is the best counterattack.
After reading Murphy's Law, I learned that everything is not as simple as it seems, and the more you are afraid of what will happen, the more you will happen.
After reading "The Weakness of Human Nature", I know that there are two things in the world that cannot be looked at directly, one is the sun, and the other is the human heart.
A whole set of five books to improve your intelligence, why not?