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In "Oniguzi", it is said:
"The way of the saints is hidden and hidden."
Deeply. If a person is too ostentatious, he will cause too much criticism to himself for no reason. Only those who know how to hide deeply can walk steadily and far, either arbitrarily living a life or eventually becoming a great instrument.
Hiding deeply is the top wisdom of being a human being, do you have it?
01. Hide the situation with your body and move after planning
Oniguchi believes that most of the people who can achieve great things are:
"There are those who are ordinary."
The simple explanation of this is that a person who has achieved great things, no matter what he does, will not expose his emotions, and he will always be calm and serene and silent.
That's right.
Sometimes, the fundamental difference between success and failure is not talent and hard work, but to see if you can hold your breath, Sima Yi can hide his position, so laugh to the end.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Sima Yi was born into a famous family, and was known for his intelligence in his youth, and was even asserted as an "extraordinary person".
In the sixth year of Jian'an, Cao Cao, who was then Sikong, heard of Sima Yi's wisdom and wanted to recruit him. However, at that time, the situation was chaotic, and Sima Yi protected himself for Mingzhe, and pretended to be ill and lied that he was suffering from rheumatism, which was pretended for seven years.
In the middle of the way, Cao Cao sent people to investigate the truth many times, but even if the secret agent took a silver needle and stabbed Sima Yi's foot randomly, he still did not change his face, and Cao Cao believed that Sima Yi was really ill.
Later, Cao Cao unified the north and became the hegemon of the Three Kingdoms, at which point he again found Sima Yi.
Sima Yi pushed the boat along the water and agreed to Cao Cao's application, which not only fulfilled Cao Cao's love talent, but also won the Lord for himself. It was precisely this wisdom of the hidden situation that made Sima Yi soar.
Ancient Yun: "Quiet does not show the machine, cloud Lei Tun also." "Dealing with people should be restrained, just like a thunderstorm that does not occur, in fact, it is waiting for the best time."
If you expose all your hole cards in order to pursue temporary interests, but you are kicked out early, it is not worth the loss.
Hiding in front of the opponent is like wearing strong armor, not only can the knife and gun not penetrate, but also can accumulate energy in the hidden place.
So, hide your ambitions, stabilize your mind, wait for the opportunity, let the wind and waves rise, sit firmly on the fishing boat, and you will eventually catch the big fish you want.
02. Hide your feelings with your heart and not be insulted
Lin Qingxuan said:
"There are eight or nine things in life that are not satisfactory, and I often think about one or two, but I don't think about eight or nine."
Life is like an ups and downs electrocardiogram, sweet and sour, bitter and salty you always have to taste over and over again, so the best coping posture is open-minded, when you can calmly face every wave, you get the true meaning of a lifetime of happiness and smoothness.
Tang Dynasty poet Wang Wei was born in a good background, coupled with extraordinary talent, at the age of 21, he became a champion and obtained the top traffic of Chang'an City.
However, because of his arrogance, his men angered the emperor with the performance of the yellow lion dance, because yellow is the color that can only be used by the royal family, and in this way, Wang Wei, who had just become a Taile Cheng, was changed to join the army and exiled to Jeju.
Wang Wei's status instantly fell from the peak to the bottom, but Wang Wei, who was exiled, did not have any complaints in his mentality.
He met all kinds of strange people in Jeju, monks, Taoists, celebrities... Wang Wei even wrote them into poems and created good stories.
In the eyes of others, the depreciation is more like public-funded tourism in Wang Wei's eyes.
Later, Wang Wei's wife died of difficult childbirth, and he was deeply saddened, and he did not marry for the rest of his life. But he never confided in outsiders about his suffering, and still lived every day with peace of mind.
It is precisely because of Wang Wei's indifferent mentality that he was able to silently digest pain in silence, and finally led to a beautiful poem and won the elegant title of "Poetry Buddha".
Writer Xue Xiaochan said:
"Life has always been like this, as light as a feather, but as heavy as Tarzan, the key is to see what kind of state of mind to take, to hold up this lever called life." Lifting well is lifting a heavy weight; if you lift it badly, it is Tarzan pressing the top. ”
Yes, life is always full of joy and sorrow, and everyone will always encounter some unsatisfactory things in their lives.
Maybe we can't escape it, but we can choose to smile.
Only by maintaining an emotional state of pampering and not being shocked can we not be devastated by a blow, and can we taste the true meaning of life in the pain of life.
03. Hide wisdom with the brain, and great wisdom is like foolishness
There is a funny question online:
"What is the best answer for a man who inadvertently breaks into the women's bathroom?" Some say I'm sorry, I went wrong; some say I didn't see anything..."
The best answer in the comments section is to quit and say, "I'm sorry sir." ”
Reading this answer, it is really dumb, think about it carefully, and feel that this person has avoided a conflict by pretending to be stupid, and is really wise.
Many times, being smart is not really smart, and people who know how to hide are really smart.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Yang Xiu was because he showed off his own cleverness and caused the disaster of killing himself.
Cao Cao's mansion was repairing the garden, and after repairing it, the craftsmen invited Cao Cao to come and see it. Cao Cao didn't say anything, just wrote a "living" word on the door.
The craftsmen on the side looked at each other, not knowing what medicine Cao Cao was selling in the gourd.
At this time, Yang Xiu, who was beside him, said: "Adding a movable word to the door is not 'wide'?" Cao Gong must have felt that the door was too generous, so he should keep a low profile and make the door narrower. ”
The craftsmen rebuilt the garden gate and invited Cao Cao, who was satisfied and asked who had seen through his mind.
Another time, when someone else gave Cao Cao a box of puff pastry, he still didn't say a word, just wrote "Yihe Crisp" on the box.
Yang Xiu saw these three words, so he took the cake and shared it with everyone.
Cao Cao saw Yang Xiu's move and asked him the reason, yang Xiu replied: "The box says 'one person and one bite of crisp', I dare not disobey Cao Gong's orders." ”
Cao Cao's mind was seen through by Yang Xiu for the second time, and his heart was displeased.
Later, Yang Xiu interpreted Cao Cao's "chicken ribs" military order as follows: "Chicken ribs, chicken ribs, tasteless food, it is a pity to abandon it." Cao Gong means Banshi Hui Dynasty. ”
When Cao Cao learned of this, he was furious and did not listen to Yang Xiu's defense, so he ordered someone to pull him out and cut him.
Yang Xiu may not understand until his death, it is his proud little cleverness that has sent himself to a dead end.
In "Oniguzi", it is said:
"Judge the deceit of others, and do not be indignant at faith."
To put it simply, when you perceive the cunning of others, as long as you have a number in your heart, you must not show it in words.
Why? Because for a very suspicious person, if you overly understand his intentions, he will be very jealous of you, and you will hide deeply, but let him feel that you are loyal and reliable, trustworthy.
However, many people do not understand this truth, always feel that they are very powerful, but anyone who sees through the minds of others wants to show it in their mouths, but when they have achieved a little achievement, they are complacent, and they wish that people all over the world know. As everyone knows, in the end, because of the little cleverness, he forced himself to a dead end.
In fact, people who are truly wise have always been low-key and unobtrusive, because the depth of the water is silent, people are steady, and they sometimes prefer to pretend to be stupid.
04. Hide your words with your mouth and keep your mouth shut
The old saying goes: "When you say what you say, you know it; when you are silent, you know it." ”
More important than being able to speak eloquently is knowing what to say and what not to say.
Most of life's troubles come from words, and if you ignore it and just satisfy your desire to talk, you will definitely suffer a big loss.
In his early years, Zeng Guofan suffered many losses because he did not understand the "Tibetan dialect".
When he first entered the official field, Zeng Guofan often played and bluntly pointed out the shortcomings of the emperor, which caused the emperor to be angry. Thanks to the persuasion of other officials, Zeng Guofan was spared a difficult situation.
He pointed out the problem of greed and lust among the officials of the same dynasty, so he established many political enemies for himself. After experiencing many tribulations in the official arena, Zeng Guofan began to reflect on himself and be cautious in his words and deeds in the future.
Later, when Zeng Guofan talked to others again, he was always cautious. Not only was he the last to speak, but he also did not say a word before speaking, carefully recording the speeches of his colleagues.
Oniguzi said:
"The one who looks is not beautiful and not evil, so he is very affectionate."
This means that if a person, no matter what he encounters, does not like to be in shape, angry, and taciturn, then he must have deep feelings, is a person who can keep secrets and entrust, yes, and eventually Zeng Guofan became a generation of late Qing dynasty courtiers, relied on by the emperor, famous for eternity, it is precisely because of this truth.
Too many words, is one of the reasons for failure, a momentary heart is straight and fast, bringing to themselves are often thousands of troubles and constraints, cherishing words like gold, emotional stability, will give people a sense of stability and reliability, but more worthy of trust and respect.
Therefore, the true wise people hide the merits and demerits in their hearts and never reveal them, not that they are stupid, but that they understand the truth that evil comes out of their mouths, and they do not grasp things, and they prefer not to say anything.
05. Mei Niang said
In the most classic of the oni valleys, he mentions:
"Yang has no yin and no birth, rigidity and weakness, and no obscurity."
To put it simply, it means: there must be yang in the yin, there must be yin in the yang, there must be softness in the rigidity, and there must be rigidity in the softness. On the surface, this seems to mean that a person should be yin and yang in harmony, strong and soft, but in fact it is a reminder of people's hidden wisdom in the world.
If a person is too bright, just, always exposing himself, highlighting himself, and not knowing how to hide himself, then it will often lead to disaster.
After all, wood is in the forest, and the wind will destroy it. Therefore, hiding deeply is the top wisdom of being a person.
Keep in mind:
Only by hiding the sharp edge and cultivating obscurity can we accumulate strength, wait for the opportunity to hit a blow, and achieve great achievements.
Hide your emotions and not be insulted, in order to achieve good times without arrogance, adversity without sadness, and control your life.
Hide your strength and know how to pretend to be stupid, in order to save yourself, avoid disasters, and have a smooth life.
Hide the language, silence, only to get the dependence and trust of the nobles, the big instrument is late.
Hidden deeply, this is actually the wisdom that the famous strategist of the Spring and Autumn Warring States period, the ancestor of the Zongheng family, Ghost Guzi, has always advocated.
Oniguchi is a very legendary person, he has a magical birth, more magical experiences, and magical abilities. Even if he does not go out, he can still know the world's affairs and calculate the future development direction of many things.
He was also proficient in hundreds of schools of learning, and there were 500 famous disciples under his disciples, including Su Qin, Zhang Yi, Sun Bing, Pang Juan, etc., all of whom were well-known figures in Chinese history.
And his insight into human nature is profound. Many of his teachings have also been widely used in the fields of shopping malls, love scenes, and workplaces in later generations, and want to become a big winner who hides deeply, has superior wisdom and controls his life?
Then open this "Ghost Valley", it will definitely help you become a hidden, vertical and horizontal life winner.
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