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As the saying goes: "Usually do not burn incense, temporarily hold the feet of the Buddha." ”
For people, we pay attention to foresight. In real life, there are very few prescient people. This will create a result, missing out on opportunities and passing by nobles.
More than three decades ago, there was a well-funded investor who, because he looked down on a young man who was starting a business, so he missed the opportunity to double his wealth by dozens of times.
The investor's peers just valued the young man's ability and thinking, so he raised tens of millions of dollars for the young man, so that the young man had the funds to open up the market and develop the enterprise.
Until now, this discerning Bole has long become a legend of business, a rich party, and its wealth has increased tremendously.
The same investors, why is the gap between the former and the latter so large? One sentence can be summarized, do not understand the "cold temple burning incense", that is a kind of great wisdom.
You're always dealing with people who are in the middle of nowhere, and if you think these people are worth interacting with, you're missing out on opportunities. You know, in the eyes of people in the sky, there are not many more friends for you, and there are many friends less for you.
Conversely, if you're dealing with some people who are still downcast but talented, you're "investing." Most likely, your investment will be doubled in the future.
To be a person, you cannot be short-sighted. Having a relationship with these people will benefit us for the rest of our lives.
02
Having a good relationship with potential stocks is the beginning of luck.
A boss once said that potential stocks in the market are often more valuable than bull stocks that have already been stereotyped.
These words, whether for social networking or investment, have great reference value.
Take the "marriage" we are all familiar with, what do you think is the best mate selection condition? I think it is the "appreciation space" in this person.
Twelve years ago, Mr. Zhang, who was traveling with him, had just come to Shenzhen from the countryside to work hard, and no one could afford it anyway. However, his mind is very shrewd, he is also very diligent, and his personality is particularly careful and self-disciplined.
In the years when he was looked down upon, he has been silently accumulating strength, and at the same time, he has worked hard for the entrepreneurship in a few years, which is not easy anyway.
In the process of starting his own business, he met a girl who fell in love at first sight, and the girl also admired him very much, and the two were also together.
With the support and companionship of his lover, his big rear is also stabilized, so that he can continue to climb in his career. Now the couple already have their own studio, a lot of income, a car and a house, like a winner in life.
In fact, don't look down on those who are temporarily downcast. Sometimes it makes more sense for us to deal with potential stocks than with wealthy people who are already rich. All successful people like other people's charcoal in the snow, and do not value the icing on the cake of flattery.
03
It is our vision to have a relationship with someone who knows how to be grateful.
How can one tell if a person is worth dating? We only need to see if he understands gratitude or not.
Generally speaking, people who know how to be grateful, their future achievements and their personality will not be much worse. And for people who don't know how to be grateful, even if you invest more, it is meaningless.
During the Three Kingdoms period, there were two unique geniuses, one named Zhuge Liang and the other named Sima Yi.
Liu Beisan took care of Maolu and invited Zhuge Liang out of the mountain with the most sincere etiquette, thus impressing Zhuge Liang and making him willingly spend his life in the great cause of Shu Han.
It can be said that the most brilliant thing in Liu Bei's life was not the establishment of shu Han, but the achievement of Zhuge Liang and himself.
And Cao Cao? He knew that the three horses were in the same trough, but he still chose to keep Sima Yi, believing that his son could suppress him. Who knew that Sima Yi especially knew how to be patient, and he was as fierce as a poisonous snake. As a result, it was the Cao family's inheritance, which Bai gave to the Sima family.
It can be said that Cao Cao's biggest mistake in this life was to leave Sima Yi and make him bigger and stronger, thus destroying his own Cao Clan Jiangshan.
In this comparison, we can clearly understand that it is our vision to be with people who know how to be grateful, and even to make them convinced.
04
Have a good relationship with a leader who is temporarily down, and you will become more and more smooth.
As the saying goes, feng shui takes turns.
In the process of life, there must be twists and turns and peaks. If we only look at a person from a tortuous point of view, then we are easily blinded by a leaf and cannot see the truth of the matter.
For example, in the workplace, some bosses are temporarily down, and everyone hates him, so what should you do?
First of all, we have to look at his ability and his future development space. Second, we have to look at his mental nature and his posture as a person.
If his ability is strong enough, and there is a huge room for development, only because of bad luck and temporarily lost, then we can not fall into the well, but need to have a good relationship with it.
Why do some people have a good relationship with the leader, while some people will not be valued by the leader even if they meet each other again? Everything is a matter of "timing".
When the leader is more depressed, you pull the leader, and even boo him to warm up, anyway, it will not hurt him. Then he will remember your kindness. In the future, as long as he makes a comeback, then you will definitely have a big backer.
On the contrary, if you ignore him when he is down, and flatter him when he is powerful, then he will naturally ignore you. People, all need to encounter a campfire when it is cold. And don't like to add fireworks when it's warm.
That's all.
Wen/Shushan has deer