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In history, there were two men who liked wives, one was Cao Cao and the other was Hu Xueyan, one official and one businessman; those who were good at using women to make profits were also these officials and businessmen; and it was these two people who enjoyed all the tenderness in women.
Let's talk about Cao Cao first, this man likes wives and is famous, he has 16 wives and concubines in his life.
They are:
Mrs. Ding, Mrs. Liu, Mrs. Bian, Mrs. Huan, Mrs. Du, Mrs. Qin, Mrs. Yin, and Wang Zhaoyi These are 8 ladies, and there are 8 concubines, namely Sun, Li, Zhou, Liu, Song, Zhao, and Chen. Among them, the most important thing for him is nothing more than the previous 8 ladies, and it is these women who have left him a good wife.
Cao Cao's original wife, Mrs. Ding, could not have children.
Among them, Mrs. Liu gave birth to a son and a daughter, which was Cao Cao's eldest son, and this Mrs. Liu unfortunately died prematurely, and this son was raised by Mrs. Ding.
In the later battle of Wancheng, Cao Cao's romance caused a great disaster. Originally, Zhang Xiu led the crowd to surrender, but Cao Cao saw the widow Zou of Zhang Xiu's uncle and wanted to forcibly accept him as a concubine. is the most widely streamed on the Internet, I don't know if my wife would like to share the same table with me tonight.
This made Zhang Xiu, who had already surrendered, angry, rebelled on the spot and raided Cao Cao's military camp.
In this war, Zhang Xiu was victorious, Cao Cao was defeated, and suffered heavy losses, and the eldest son Cao Ang died in this battle. And Cao Ang's adoptive mother, Cao Cao's original wife, Mrs. Ding, learned about this, had a huge conflict with Cao Cao and returned to her parents' home.
Cao Cao also went to pick her up at her father-in-law's house, but Mrs. Dante was more temperamental and was reluctant to go with him, saying that he killed her son. Cao Cao saw that she was resolute at this time, so he divorced her and allowed her to remarry.
Dan Ding's family must know that the dispute with Cao Cao is a conflict between husband and wife, but if they really remarry, it is not a conflict between husband and wife, so the Ding family does not dare.
At this point, Cao Cao's first wife and second wife were gone, and after that, Cao Cao no longer cared about women, and embarked on the road of collecting beautiful women.
Accepting wives, the saddest is Mrs. Zou, and the most famous is Mrs. Du. This Mrs. Du was originally the wife of Qin Yilu, a general under Lu Bu, and she was a standard wife, and Guan Yu had already set her eyes on it, and asked Cao Cao for orders to ask for this woman after the city was broken. Cao Cao agreed to him, but in the end he repented and accepted it himself, not to Guan Yu, for this reason, which made Guan Yu unhappy.
There is also a Mrs. Yin. This Mrs. Yin is the daughter-in-law of He Jin, the former Han general, whose husband died early and is a widow. was favored by Cao Cao and accepted as a concubine.
Although there are many women in Cao Cao's harem, there are only 3 who are really wives, Mrs. Zou, Mrs. Du, Mrs. Yin, and the others are not. Cao Cao is a hero, able to write, martial arts, and wine, lustful, and has a history of affairs outside, and there are not many records, but the women he has touched are undoubtedly countless.
Among the many women in the harem, the only one who dares to stand up to Cao Cao is the original wife, Mrs. Ding.
Even Mrs. Bian, who later became Queen Bian, gave birth to 4 sons, and in the face of Cao Cao, she also figured out his psychology. Husband and wife are still the best match, history is really a mirror, regardless of men and women, you look at those divorced women now, once divorced, they are all very bad, there is a reason for this, penetrating human nature is the truth.
The reason why Cao Cao's harem has so many women and accepts wives is that in addition to his own lust, there are also factors of the times, during the Eastern Han Dynasty, there were constant wars, and a large number of men fell on the battlefield, resulting in weak social stability, and the society could not take care of these widowed women; This is also a kind of stability for women and society.
It is actually the same as the current social situation, when the economy is not good, and women are driven to the family and marriage. The family is the best protection for women, because a stable society must be a stable family.
After Cao Cao finished, let's talk about Hu Xueyan, the richest man in the late Qing Dynasty, a red-capped businessman, and his 13 wives.
It is recorded in the book that Hu Xueyan was originally a strict wife, but because the original partner did not give birth to a son, the family was big, and he began to be proud in business, and slowly he broke free from his wife, accepted a concubine named Furong, and gave birth to a son.
In the business field, he has been dealing with officialdom all the year round, and he must know the importance of women, he redeemed a girl named Rue Xiang in the Qinglou, who looked like a fairy, he endured the pain of cutting love, married brother and sister with this woman, and then gave her to Wang Youling. And this righteous sister later gave him help in his business, which is understandable.
He also transferred his concubine A Qiao to He Guiqing, a student in Jiangsu. The two formed a deep friendship.
The woman who really brought Hu Xueyan to the top of his life was a woman named Mrs. Luo Si, this woman was Hu Xueyan's old acquaintance, and he used to like this woman, but unfortunately, at that time, he had not yet made a career, and this woman married someone else. Now, the woman's husband is dead, and she is a widow with a child.
After Hu Xueyan knew about it, he went to propose marriage and accepted the woman he once liked.
This woman is very business-minded, capable, and understands the world.
Hu Xueyan has a famous saying: "One is not an official, the other is not famous, but only for profit, marrying a wife and accepting a wife, a romantic life, this life is enough!" It is recorded in "Records of Experiences and Stories" that Hu Xueyan after development is absurd and promiscuous, and loves beauty. As long as it is a beautiful woman he likes, no matter what the identity of the person is, or how big the dowry is, he never cares.
For this reason, he also robbed the people's daughter and caused a murder. said that he had a daughter in a shop, and he took a fancy to him, and after the owner of the shop knew that it was Hu Xueyan's identity, he was afraid of him and agreed to give his daughter to her as a child.
But the shopkeeper's daughter was unwilling, and threatened to marry an ordinary family rather than be a concubine, and because of her fierce temperament, she finally hanged herself.
As far as I personally understand, the reason why there are so many and beautiful women behind Hu Xueyan is inseparable from the woman Mrs. Luo Si.
Why?
It's very simple, Mrs. Luo Si entered the door later, and she is also married for the second time, and she also has a child, and her wife Lu is a domineering woman, she wants to gain a foothold, what should she do?
It is recorded that Hu Xueyan also built a building because of many women, named Jiaolou, and he accepted 13 glamorous concubines, known as "Hangzhou Thirteen Hairpins".
"The Biography of Hu Guangyong" wrote: "The concubines are in groups, and the thirteenth floor is built to store them." The garden is large, indulged in sensuality, living luxuriously, too princely, arrogant and lascivious, and greatly changed his nature".
He also imitated the Qing court system, and the emperor's flopping of the card was used on his wives and concubines, and their names were written on the tooth card, and whoever opened it was served by him at night.
Hu Xueyan also has a weird hobby, letting the concubine wear light clothes, embroidered with the words "carriage and horse cannon", and have nothing to do with the main room, playing chess for fun. This kind of fun, for now, should be bondage, whipping, and so on.
It's just that he married his wife and concubine who entered the door, and his hunting behavior outside was even more colorful, and for this reason he also had a grudge against many people, but he was a red-top businessman, and politics and business were integrated, so people who were unhappy with him had to endure him.
As far as Cao Cao and Hu Xueyan are concerned, in terms of women's use, Hu Xueyan is better than each other, but this is the reason of the times. In the Cao Cao era, there was no prosperous economy, social turmoil, conquest, and power were all men's world. In the late Qing Dynasty, foreigners came, and trade was unimpeded, so women had the ability in society.
But businessmen are always not comparable to power, and thinking is not on the same level. Historical contributions, Cao Cao threw Hu Xueyan a few streets, but it is undeniable that without Hu Xueyan to provide military salaries to the imperial court, it is difficult to speculate whether the history and changes in the future.
These powers, these money, the extravagance of extravagance, has been the case throughout history.
The hunting of the ancients is now said to be a short choice, and the abandonment of the ancients is now beautified as being protected by the eagle.
The ancient magnates robbed the people's daughters, and the modern people's women took the initiative to embrace the powerful.
In ancient times, women from good families swore not to be concubines of powerful people, but to marry ordinary people; now women from good families wantonly trample on ordinary families and want to be the third of the powerful.
All the above women, in the historical era, whether stable or turbulent, most of the women are involuntary and have no freedom.
If, I mean, these women are reincarnated in modern times, they are all free, and they don't have to be involuntarily gone, then what would it be like?
Will they still replicate themselves who were once free and involuntarily?
Of course, the women who are occupied by the powerful are all beautiful women, not pure women.
A woman with beauty can be dominated by them, not as a woman can be dominated, a woman wants to be dominated, then she needs to have beauty.
So how does a woman have beauty?
Eating fine grains, leaving production, avoiding the sun, coarse chaff is definitely not good, leaving production, avoiding sunlight, this is the basis for women to maintain beauty. So how can a woman eat fine grains, leave childbirth, and avoid the sun?
Well, this seems to be something that only the powerful who occupy the resources of production can provide.
Therefore, if a woman wants to maintain her beauty, or use her beauty to make a profit, it has little to do with which era she is in and whether she is free or not, it is all in the circle of the powerful.
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