Li Zongwu, the leader of the Houhei Learning Sect, pointed out: As a person, you must know 3 small skills, learn one or two, and you can also be fierce!
1, know how to give people a sense of mystery
In the eyes of the thick blacks, there is nothing more influential to the public than mysterious qualities. Even those ordinary things, once they are draped in the veil of "mystery", people will cherish and admire them twice. Why? Because what people need is that mysterious feeling.
Throughout the ancient and modern Chinese and foreign countries, in many historical allusions, it is seen that creating one's own influence is the prelude to success.
For example, Cao Cao blackmailed Tianzi to order the princes, Liu Bei always claimed to be the true emperor of the imperial family, and they used this to create their own influence so that each of them had their own support and make the world three points; Zhuge Liang made Liu Beisan look at Maolu and not see, and Kong Ming used this to create his own influence to make himself a future marquis.
The fox was a weak individual; Cao Cao Liu Bei, both of whom had been nobodies; Kong Ming had been a disgraced scholar. In a small range, it is not denied that they have individual charm, but to find a marquis, or even to win the world, their influence is still far from enough, through other people or things to strengthen and expand their influence, thus getting their own purpose - to give people a sense of mystery, this is their secret to elevate themselves.
Tip: Create a sense of mystery for yourself appropriately, even if it is an ordinary person, it will give people a different feeling. Sometimes, it is precisely this difference that leads to great success.
2. Know how to adapt
Thick blacks are fickle, but no matter how they change, they are centered on their own interests. Indeed, the world is often changing rapidly, and various forces and factors will play different roles and intricately affect the development of things, so the way to use one trick in doing things is to "see the wind and make the rudder".
Among the famous historical figures, some people often master the thick black wisdom to become famous in ancient and modern times. They can go with the trend, and they can take advantage of the situation with every move they can do, not only can the opportunity truly become a source of wealth, but even in the face of adversity, they can also help people get rid of difficulties, desperate life, and turn danger into safety.
When the business of Hu Xueyan, a famous "red-top businessman" at that time, was booming, there was a sudden incident in which the Taiping Army attacked Hangzhou, which was a major change he experienced. And this change almost forced him into a desperate situation.
Tips: Success lies in a "change" word, and the process of adaptation lies in a "wisdom" word, only by organically combining the two can we turn disadvantage into advantage and draw a satisfactory end to the final win.
3, know how to borrow the power to act
Taking advantage of the situation to carry out struggle, we can win more with less, the weak over the strong, and the small and broad; and using force to solve our own crisis is a strategy for gaining superiority or turning crisis into safety and turning weakness into strength. In short, there are many situations in life that need to take advantage of the situation, so we say that taking advantage of the situation is an indispensable successful strategy.
The meaning of the word "borrow" is very subtle, not simply borrowed and returned, that is only a superficial meaning. The profound meaning of the word "borrowing" is to act with the force, take advantage of the situation, transform all unfavorable factors into favorable factors, and guide the development of things in the direction of their own wishes.
Tip: As the saying goes, "Even if you are covered in iron, how many nails can you hit?" If you want to succeed, you have to learn to "borrow power". If I can learn to borrow chickens and eggs, and borrow the strength of others to use for my own use, I will not worry about not being able to develop and grow. Therefore, thick blacks often see "borrowing" as a good way to make no profit. They borrow chickens and eggs, borrow strength to make money, use the wisdom of others to make money for themselves; make a name for themselves with the influence of celebrities, borrow the media to expand their influence... It can be said that they borrow everything.