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As the saying goes: "Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black." ”
Who are you close to, then what kind of character you will be contaminated with. Approach good people, then you are good people. And close to the villain, then you will also learn the villain's set.
The magnetic field between people actually affects each other.
In the case of blessings and misfortunes, do you think that blessings between people, or disasters between people, can really be transmitted to each other?
Blessings are passed on. At the same time, bad luck will also be passed. You follow Bó Lè or admire your big boss, and you can naturally develop. On the contrary, if you follow some small, or particularly pompous people, then you are naturally unlucky.
Why should we be cautious when it comes to dealing with people? Can't you just make friends?
For the matter of making friends, we need to be cautious. Because where we will go, what fate will develop, depends on, sometimes it is not ourselves, but the people around us.
Why does Liu Yuxi sigh that "there is a great deal of humor in talking and laughing, and there is no white Ding in exchanges"? Because the people he interacted with were all learned literati and scholars, and they had the same magnetic field as him.
If you have these three types of people around you, I believe they will pass on their blessings to you.
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If you meet a good partner, that's your blessing.
As the saying goes: "Marry a good wife, benefit three generations; marry a bad wife and ruin your life." ”
In the same way, when a woman marries a self-motivated husband, she can naturally feel happiness. And marry a pompous and unfaithful man, then she will not be blessed.
In a family, if the husband strives to make money, and the wife does not know how to be frugal, nor does she know how to run the family, I believe that the family will not be stable, and will only quarrel endlessly.
If the wife is virtuous and virtuous, and keeps the family in order, but the husband likes to mess with flowers and grass, I believe that the family will not be harmonious and the children will be affected.
Whether it's for men or women, one principle is certain, and that's to find the right "partner". Having a good partner will keep you struggling for twenty years less. And when you meet a bad partner, maybe your life will be ruined.
We can see this by looking at celebrities throughout the ages.
In the Jin Dynasty, Sima Zheng, with Jia Nanfeng, directly opened the Rebellion of the Eight Kings of the Extermination Clan. In the Tang Dynasty, Li Shimin, with empress dowager, directly opened the zhenguan dynasty. This is the gap.
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If you meet a noble person who appreciates you, it is your blessing.
There is a saying that has been circulated throughout the ages: "Maxima is often there, but Bole is not often there." ”
There are too many Maxima in this world, but there are too few Bole who can appreciate Maxima. This dooms countless Maxima to end up being "ignored".
Some people are talented and extremely capable, but there is no stage for him to show his talents, and there is no Bole to pull him. As a result, it was just his mediocre life.
Some people are averagely talented and not outstanding in ability, but he met a boss who admired him, and he had a platform and space for development, and he also had countless resources. In this way, won't he be able to make a career?
Like Zhuge Liang and Liu Bei, the latter provided him with a platform for development and laid the foundation for Zhuge Liang to realize his ambitions. The former, on the other hand, directly propelled his career to the top.
It can be said that Zhuge Liang's blessings were passed on to Liu Bei, and Liu Bei's blessings also affected Zhuge Liang. Thus, the ancient beauty of "the unity of kings and subjects" appeared.
Nowadays, there are too few people who can meet Bole, so there are mostly ordinary people, and there are fewer people who can develop. Everything, just so realistic.
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If you meet a parent who knows how to understand you, that is your blessing.
When it comes to the nobles of life, then we have to mention parents.
In this regard, many people wonder, our parents raised us, we have long been kind to us, why do we still talk about parents?
Because the parents are different, the life of the children created is different. Parents who know how to educate their children, and even guide their children, often have certain differences with parents who do not know how to guide their children.
Take the words "understanding" and "respect", some parents respect their children's choices, but also know how to understand their difficulties, I believe that children will have no worries, but also can develop rapidly.
On the contrary, some parents do not know how to understand their children, nor will they respect their children, and it is easy to add blockage to their children if they go their own way. You know, relying on the old and selling the old will eventually cause family conflicts.
In real life, the word forgiving is actually very difficult to do. The word support is also rare. This dooms some people's original families to be unfortunate.
If you are lucky enough to meet a parent who can think from your point of view, then you should cherish it. Because of their understanding and support, they will make you go further.
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Write to the end
Professor Zeng Shiqiang said that in this life, if people can meet good parents, good partners, and good chiefs (Bole), then there will be no regrets.
Good parents will affect our lives; good partners will affect our happiness; good officers will affect the degree of our career development.
Since this is the case, then we must cherish these three types of people well and be grateful at all times. Because they came to our side, they all came to help us.
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