A person, if there are these "bad eyes", then he is comparable to a villain, and he has to guard against it

01

Someone once said that the most terrible thing in this world is not ghosts, but people.

We are all afraid of the illusory ghost, but it has never harmed anyone. And it is not other species that harm people, but people themselves.

There are two strokes of the word, one writes goodness, and the other writes ugly. When we are kind, people's hearts are like the rising sun, which makes us feel warm. And when ugly, some people will distort human nature, giving people a cold and dangerous feeling.

Just like in the workplace, don't look at some people who are obviously very good to you and always talk to you, but in fact, everything that is good, all the closeness, is just the behavior of others to confuse us.

When the villain calculates us, basically it will not come overtly, and will often choose "darkness Chen Cang", it is possible that we have been calculated, and we do not know who the person who harmed us is.

People in the jianghu, we want everyone to keep a good side, that is impossible to do. At least, we are kind, and those who "bully the soft and fear the hard" come.

No matter when, it is better to be a person, or to keep one more heart and eye.

When it comes to keeping "heart eyes", I think of a sentence, the heart eyes of the wicked are often more terrifying than you think.

A person, if he has these "bad eyes", then we need to be prepared.

02

Good at jealousy, not good at seeing people.

Human nature has a characteristic - envy, jealousy and hate.

If you have some skill, some people will envy you; if your ability is greater, others will be jealous of you; if your achievements make him unattainable, then he will hate you.

In fact, all the struggles in the world begin with "jealousy".

Last year, the child of his friend Mr. Zhang was admitted to a 985-year school, and he himself was particularly happy anyway. However, his relatives did not look at it, thinking that these college students of famous schools did not necessarily make much money when they came out.

After Mr. Zhang heard his relatives' words, he did not say anything. In his opinion, these words clearly have a "sour" meaning in them. Since we all know who the other person is, why bother with it?

We don't have to get too close to those who are "jealous" of us. Sometimes, between jealousy and calculation, it is just a thought, and there is no need to test human nature with your own sincerity.

For the jealousy of others, it is naturally difficult for us to change. However, for ourselves, don't be jealous of people, that is the best cultivation of being a person.

03

Hypocrisy is ruthless and the means are fierce.

Mr. Li Zongwu said that only by pulling out the black can we see the real thing.

If we want to see the moon, we have to shake off the clouds; if we want to see the light, we have to shake off the darkness; if we want to see reality, we have to set aside the hypocrisy.

If truth is a luxury, then hypocrisy is the norm.

In daily life, we deal with people, and we often encounter those who "make a scene" passerby. And when there is a scene, it is also a relatively normal behavior.

The most abnormal should be those who are hypocritical to the extreme, and the means are fierce, and there is no temperature in the heart.

They are like poisonous snakes, hidden in a place that others can't see, then it can observe others in the secret place, and as long as it has the opportunity, it will immediately attack.

This kind of person, don't look at them as particularly terrible, think that we can't meet ourselves. Perhaps, they are disguised and hidden around us. In this way, the heart of defense is indispensable, and this is the truth.

04

Wobbly, falling into the rocks.

There is a saying that is very realistic, the grass on the wall, where the wind blows, it will fall to which side.

Some people do not have their own position, and they will not support anyone, anyway, they are wavering, either choose to please both sides, or choose to sit back and watch the success or failure, anyway, it is the "wall-riding faction".

In fact, these wavering people are the most terrible. Because he will give you the fiercest blow when you are the weakest, and he is particularly good at falling into the rock.

When I was younger, someone once said to me: "The people who make you unlucky are often not your opponents, but those who are watching you fail." ”

Deeply.

Worship high and step low, that is ultimately human nature. Success or failure, that is also a reality that we cannot change. No matter how we struggle, we are bound to meet these "falling stone" people.

If we want to avoid being harmed by others, then we need to improve our own strength and build a city and armor that can protect ourselves.

05

The face is thick and dark, and the eagle looks at the wolf.

In the "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", there is such a role that is both admirable and feared, that is, Sima Yi.

Sima Yi's boss could not survive Sima Yi. Sima Yi's opponent was directly eliminated by him. Even those who did not know Sima Yi were implicated in the later period.

Sima Yi can be summed up in one word, that is, we often say "eagle eyes wolf gu". The general meaning is that a person's brutality and ferocity are as creepy as a vulture and a wolf.

If you use a word to replace "eagle-eyed wolf", there is actually one word that is particularly appropriate, that is, "thick face and black heart".

A person, as long as his face is particularly thick and his heart is particularly fierce, then he is particularly dangerous. For ordinary people, once we meet these people, maybe we will not even have the bones eaten by them.

This, in fact, is not the general "bad heart", but a kind of absolutely fierce posture, we can not get too close to these people.

It is still necessary to say that you should keep an eye on yourself, and at the same time, don't ignore the bad eyes of others. This is the king's way of protecting mingzhe.

Wen/Shushan has deer