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There is a saying that "all things are predetermined, and floating life and labor are empty and busy." ”
What does it take to see the withering glory of everything in this world? I think, it's the number of gas. Just like spring, summer, autumn and winter, there are vibrant spring and summer, and there are sad and unbearable autumn and winter.
The same is true of life. When it's time for you to develop, you'll rise particularly fast. And if your momentum stops, then you will naturally lose.
This is what Lao Tzu called "where blessings and misfortunes lie, and where misfortunes and blessings depend." It is also mentioned in "Zhou Yi" that "no pole Tai Lai, Tai Ji no come".
Victory or defeat rises and falls, that is the norm of nature, and no one can change it.
Just like a family of three, when it is blessed, it will move forward steadily, and the family will go uphill. And when it is not blessed, this family of three will be full of contradictions and the relationship will be particularly bad.
Not only does the family have qi numbers and blessings, but even people themselves will have qi numbers and blessings.
When we are young, because everyone's experience is different, we can't see through the number of qi and blessings. And when people have experienced something, they will naturally understand that in this life, people have a number of qi after all.
This number of qi will appear at the age of 50.
02
Confucius once said that the future life is terrible, and those who know the comers are not now? Forty-fifty and not heard, nor was he afraid.
Young people deserve admiration because no one knows what their future holds. And people who are still unknown at the age of forty or fifty are actually not enough to be afraid.
In Confucius's view, fifty years old is an end point in life and a starting point in life.
The end point is that we have already experienced half a hundred lives, seen through the successes and failures of the honor and disgrace, and know the rules of nature and the direction of life.
The starting point is that we who know the direction of life need to adjust new strategies to deal with future risks and keep ourselves in an invincible position.
It can be summed up like this, before the age of 50, we are looking for the path of life. After the age of 50, we understand the direction of life.
Without the polishing of time, people are prone to arrogance and lack of reverence. After the polishing of time, we will naturally understand that manpower is difficult, and this is a reality that no one can change.
Take the fate of individuals, as long as we reach the age of 50 and look back, then we will completely understand that the path of this life is not our own choice, often countless accidental and inevitable results.
Even if we are still ordinary, ordinary, and can't make a lot of money, we just accept this reality.
This journey of life, after all, allows us to continue to know ourselves. At the very least, we know our abilities, we have self-knowledge, and that is also a kind of wisdom.
03
A Fudan philosophy professor once said that it would be foolish to believe in fate before the age of 40. When a person reaches the age of 40, he still does not know his life, because his understanding is too poor.
At this point, we only need to think about the two sentences "forty without confusion, fifty and knowing the destiny of heaven" to understand.
Before the age of 40, we didn't even know what we were pursuing, and we were basically in a state of confusion. After the age of 40, we gradually become no longer confused. Especially at the age of 50, we can already know our "destiny".
We can understand this by looking at Liu Bang and Liu Bei.
Before Liu Bang was 46 years old, he was still a small in Pei County, and he didn't even know what he was pursuing in this life. But at the age of 47, Liu Bang raised an army and slowly figured out his direction, and the number of qi came up.
Later, Liu Bang also became more and more smooth, and after the age of 50, he obtained the "Three Masters of the Early Han Dynasty", and gradually gained an advantage in the Chu-Han struggle for hegemony, defeated Xiang Yu, and unified the world.
Speaking of Liu Bei, in fact, he is particularly similar to Liu Bang, before the age of 47, he still sent people to the fence, anyway, he lived a particularly humble life, in his own words, "I will not ride again today, and the flesh in the hips will be raw." However, the work was not accomplished. ”
However, when Liu Bei was 48 years old, Sangu Maolu invited Zhuge Liang out of the mountain, and his fate changed by one hundred and eighty degrees. Especially after the age of 50, he went uphill and became one of the overlords of the Three Kingdoms period.
As long as we have experienced, struggled, and suffered the hardships of life, we will see through it thoroughly. Life that has not experienced twists and turns, it goes without saying, because people in the greenhouse have a hard time seeing the fact of breathing.
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The number of qi in this life will be completely revealed at the age of 50.
Whether a person can achieve something depends on the experience before the age of 50. If you are still in a mess before the age of 50, then we can determine that this life is plain, and it is enough to seek a healthy life.
The more people who become great things, the more they need the blessing of qi numbers.
The number of qi referred to here, in the usual interpretation, is "heaven, place, and people.")
For example, if you want to do business, then you need to seize the opportunity of the development of the times, but also to open up the channels of commercial circulation, and finally unite all kinds of customers, and you also have a certain ability, then you can naturally do things.
However, if you lack any of the points, such as opportunities, then even if we are amazingly talented, we will not be able to do anything.
Tang Wang Bo wrote in the "Autumn Day Denghong Province Tengwang Pavilion Farewell Sequence": "Oh! The times are uneven, and the fate is uncertain; Feng Tang is easy to be old, and Li Guang is difficult to seal. ”
Feng Tang of the Han Dynasty could not be an official because he was "born at the wrong time" and regretted his life. Although the great general Li Guang had certain military achievements, he was still overpowered by the famous generals of the same period, such as Wei Qing and Huo Fuyi, so he did not have a title.
Even Feng Tang and Li Guang, who have been famous for thousands of years, will be lonely for a lifetime because of the unpredictable number of qi, so why talk about us ordinary people?
Being human, knowing where your destiny is going, and then doing your best to live, worthy of yourself, that is enough.
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