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Most men, after forty years old, are actually still teenagers in their minds, of course, not in intelligence, but in affection.
Perhaps, he is very mature and stable, but if you give him a child's toy, he can still play with it for half a day;
Perhaps, he is a high-cold person outside, but it is likely that when he watches the ball at home, he is also shouting, "opening his teeth and dancing claws";
Perhaps, he is a workplace elite outside, but he can't change the stink of throwing socks at home, even if he realizes it, he doesn't want to change it.
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So-called, men are teenagers until death, this sentence is very true.
So, what will the woman that men like after forty look like?
Some say that their favorite at any time is a woman who is eighteen. Of course, among them, it is definitely a girl who is full of vitality, youth, and likes, but it may also be that this situation is limited to "like".
When a person reaches middle age and is over forty years old, if there is still a woman around who is like a little girl's temper, he must always coax, always care about her emotions, always pet and hold, in his "upper old, lower and younger" age that needs to be taken care of, he needs to be provided for the ancestors, it is estimated that it will not be long before he will be bored.
Therefore, middle-aged men, the goddesses in his mind, are mostly not "little girls".
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Feng Tang once said: Before the age of forty, his favorite girl to laugh at, a girl smiled, her face was like a flower on a branch, like the moon in the clouds was exposed, just like the grass on the earth was green, very disturbing.
It can be seen that before the age of forty, men have no resistance to young girls.
Even if this girl does not have the appearance of a sinking fish and a goose, and the appearance of a closed moon and a shy flower", her gentle smile, a small action, and a simple sentence may charm him. Whether her personality is flamboyant or gentle, whether she is heavily makeupted or plain-faced, whether she is strong or virtuous... As long as the girl's appearance is in his aesthetic point, he will feel that this girl is the goddess in his mind.
Because, before people have no sense of family, his focus will be on the "face" and "personality" of girls, as long as these two things meet his own standards, he will be eager to chase.
After forty years of age, whether it is a man who has become a family or a man looking for a partner, his view will change somewhat, because this woman must be able to marry home, live a life, and be able to fit in with him, in order to be called the real "goddess" in his mind.
Just like another sentence that Feng Tang said: After the age of forty, I realized that I was sick with stink, and realized that the probability of changing all the stinky problems in my lifetime and becoming a Buddha was very low, so I broke the jar and broke it, gave up the removal of my inferior roots in many aspects, and more and more disliked the girls who picked my faults.
It can be seen that after a man is forty years old, he will care about the "face" of a woman, but he will turn his attention to a woman's "character" and "means of dealing with the world", that is, this woman should get along with him comfortably, which is his "goddess".
So, what qualities will a woman have that will be the goddess in his mind? Will it make him obsessed? Look at these three points.
A woman who can have both fireworks and is elegant and indifferent
When girls are young, it is difficult to remember the word "elegant".
Because they have enough youth to squander, have enough time, can overcome the harsh reality, they can live a very brash, they can also live a cool, very sassy,
However, one day, the girl will grow into a woman, become a wife, a mother, so her state of mind will change a lot.
Some women, under the influence of time, are becoming more and more anxious and irritable, and they are not accustomed to all kinds of things... Let people get along with it and want to escape.
However, some women can drive out the boredom in chai rice oil and salt, and live comfortably and calmly. She raises her hands and feet, all of which are quiet and decent, so that you can feel the beauty of time precipitated on her, and the years have found balance in him.
Being with such a woman will make men feel very stable and not impatient no matter what situation they are in and what storms they encounter.
Men over the age of forty will have some small habits that are difficult to change.
An elegant and indifferent woman, he will not force him to change himself in order to adapt to her, but will let each other adapt, find a lifestyle that allows both people to be comfortable.
Life is long, people reach middle age, it must be all kinds of small trivialities that keep invading, all kinds of small tribulations, and constantly harassing.
An indifferent and elegant woman, she will not be a little thing, just whirring, will not be silent, lifeless, but has a temperament of the charm of a woman, easy-going and calm, quiet and peaceful.
Just like Lin Huiyin, Lin Huiyin when she was young was fresh and beautiful, elegant and generous, and after marriage, she did not let her glory fade away because of the grinding and destruction of the years, but the ability to control life is getting higher and higher, no matter what the situation, she can calmly and calmly settle in the present.
A woman who can be gentle and virtuous, but also has a romantic atmosphere
There is a saying that middle-aged men are not as good as dogs.
Probably means that the pressure of a man in middle age will be multiplied, he will lose the romantic mind of his youth, lose his fighting spirit, and without the spirit of "seeking up and down", he will also live more and more depressed.
Remember the subway entrance, the drunken man? Crying and hugging his wife to pick him up: Sorry, I was useless...
It can be seen that if a man has a person around him who can reassure him, it is especially important in his heart. This woman can not only make him feel the warmth of home, but also bring him hope for life.
She will use her gentle and virtuous to run their home well, and she will also use her romantic feelings to let him unload the burden on his body and meet the challenges of life.
He can reveal his vulnerability and helplessness, because he knows that she will not abandon him, but will give him comfort and care; he can tell her about his inner sorrow and contradictions, because he knows that she will not give up on him, but will see through his various people in front of the scenery, titles, education, etc., he is a "good boy" or "bad boy", give him pity and love, do not let him feel lonely.
She will also have a romantic atmosphere that makes him addicted, because she understands him and knows that he loves her, so he wants to give her romance and joy.
And, some women, it is difficult to be romantic for a lifetime.
In life, we can see some situations, Valentine's Day, men buy a bouquet of roses, full of joy to give to women, but women are disgusted: spend this money, buy this, this is enough for a month's food expenses.
Perhaps, she is also happy in her heart, but it makes the atmosphere of men loving her more awkward, less romantic, so that men are overwhelmed, very uncomfortable in their hearts, obviously want to get praise, get affirmation, but they are scolded and nagged.
Perhaps, such a woman, she will also be a family, can save, rarely wear makeup, dress plainly, but live too pragmatic, less erotic, less romantic.
Therefore, a woman who can be gentle and virtuous, but also has a romantic atmosphere, will be the most beautiful woman in the heart of middle-aged people.
Years pass, life has many winds and rains, and in the hustle and bustle of the world, a gentle and virtuous woman with a romantic atmosphere will surely become the most beautiful scenery in the hearts of men.
A woman who is both spoiled and dependent, and occasionally arrogant and "cat-like"
No matter what age a man is, he is an animal eager to chase.
In life, people who have owned cats know that when it has asked for you, it will approach you, cling to you, and coddle with you, and when it is angry with you, it will wait for you to coax it, and it will be very arrogant.
And a woman like a cat will often be the appearance that men desire most from women.
Li Shi once said a sentence: A person's real state of pampering will put down all the armor on our bodies.
A man's desire for a woman to prove herself will make him feel that the woman loves him and trusts him. But, believe me, not many men will like women who are reckless and spoil themselves at any time and anywhere, or women who pretend to only want to "get benefits" from him.
After all, after forty years of age, having experienced several loves and meeting many women, he will easily be able to distinguish a woman's intentions, whether she is really spoiled or has a plan.
So, a woman who is spoiled and genuine to him will make him feel very rare.
Therefore, the woman who really attracts him will often rely on him a little bit, and will also have traits in his bones that he can't grasp. There will be a little bit of mystery, and a little bit of freshness.
She will not be like Zhang Ailing, once she is moved by a man, she will be humble and "low into the dust", but like Hepburn, "reflect her beauty into the soul".
This kind of cat-like woman attracts men's hearts.
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The so-called "goddess" is mostly wanted but not sought.
Every man longs for a woman who can "go up to the hall and go down to the kitchen", gentle and kind, with a lovely soul and romantic feelings.
However, in this world, "gold is not perfect, no one is perfect", women are cute, but no one will be so perfect. Moreover, life is bone-like, realistic, it is necessary to be able to manage the chai rice oil and salt, and it is possible for two people to be together even if they are not accustomed to each other, but still want to hold hands and live.
Therefore, if your pillow person, in the present moment, she can understand you, not abandon you, can greet you warmly, take care of you in every way, can give you encouragement when you encounter danger, can not abandon you when you are in a low valley, and can give you courage and assistance when you are confused and helpless... She is your "goddess".
Please be sure to cherish her well.
Life is long, do not seek dignitaries and dignitaries, but seek qinser and ming, do not seek to be happy and happy, but seek to raise eyebrows.
You know, the wife is still her own good.
In this life, there can be a person who is not pretentious to you, not hypocritical, not denigrated, she can see all your stinky problems, can stand all your stinky temper, she is the most beautiful "goddess" you have met in your life.
Author, Frank Fox
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May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!