Gu Lei is dead!
No one could have imagined that it was obviously a small family dispute, and it would eventually become a heavenly separation.
Because of Gu Lei's death, the feud between sister-in-law Feng Xiaoqin and the eldest sister-in-law Gu Qingyu broke out, and the mask of face and heart discord was completely torn apart, and the two women blamed each other.
Sandwiched between the Gu family and his mother, Feng Xiaoqin, the little tiger became the child who was constantly worried that "we would not be driven away".
The funny thing is that no one in the entire Gu family reflected on who caused Gu Lei's death, until Feng Xiaoqin hysterically pointed out that Gu Qingyu was also the murderer.
Before that, the Gu family accused Feng Xiaoqin of killing Gu Lei.
The fact is also true, she ran away from home in the middle of the night, Gu Lei came forward to block, between the dispute, Gu Lei fell down the stairs and knocked down the glass, which was the direct cause of his death.
The Gu family put all their malice on Feng Xiaoqin, which was not appropriate, and also directly showed the coolness of the Gu family.
Gu Lei's death, who is at fault?
There are too many responsible persons.
01, casually place glass neighbors
Gu Lei's death is the result of various coincidences of events.
According to the doctor's judgment, he died due to excessive blood loss, and this result, strictly speaking, was somewhat sloppy, but it was like that.
Regarding the scene where Gu Lei and Feng Xiaoqin argued about rolling down the stairs, if you look closely, you can find that before hitting the glass, Gu Lei first planted the whole thing and hit the head hard, and then hit the glass.
Too much blood loss, just the glass cut the aortic in the neck, or is there internal injury bleeding from the head and the rolling down of the body?
The doctor did not mention, then we should be completely made of glass.
This also means that if there is no glass, Gu Lei will not die, then, the direct murder weapon is glass, and the direct murderer is the neighbor who placed the glass and Feng Xiaoqin, who caused Gu Lei to fall.
After Gu Lei's death, the Gu family pushed all their resentment and malice onto Feng Xiaoqin alone, why do I feel that the Gu family is selfish and cold?
One of the reasons is their differential treatment of their neighbors and Feng Xiaoqin.
Feng Xiaoqin fell down because gu Lei, who had lost his hand, but what caused his death was the glass that his neighbor had placed indiscriminately.
But when Feng Xiaoqin tried to find a little justice from the neighbor, change the fairness once, and reduce his pain and guilt, what did the Gu family do?
Gu Shihong's first time was to think that they were not wrong, upstairs and downstairs neighbors for so many years, forget it.
"Why are you suing them, how did they know this could happen?"
But how did Feng Xiaoqin know that such a thing would happen?
Gu jia's double standard, how is it used?
They place dangerous goods, causing the death of others, because they don't know if there will really be an accident, so there is no mistake, then Feng Xiaoqin is wrong?
Can she predict that there will be an accident? Feng Xiaoqin deliberately killed Gu Lei?
"You are a person, I beg you, they are all neighbors upstairs and downstairs for all these years, or forget it, even if this matter is won, can Gu Lei still survive?"
Looking at the neighbors for decades, the death of the son is counted, so why not look at the daughter-in-law to take care of them for 8 years, and give them a grandson, consider Feng Xiaoqin?
Feng Xiaoqin is a direct fault, the responsibility of the neighbor is not small, can forgive the neighbor, can not forgive the daughter-in-law?
Looking at Gu Qingyu again, she was more direct than Gu Shihong, and said Feng Xiaoqin to ask for money.
"Xiaoqin, I want to ask you, what is your purpose in filing a lawsuit?" Is it for an explanation, or is it for compensation? Aunt Dong is indeed responsible for this matter, but the lawsuit is won, and she can't lose a few dollars, in case people in turn sue you for blackmail, everyone will remember it very ugly, and it is not interesting. ”
In the current plot, Gu Qingyu does the most one thing, that is, to analyze and maliciously speculate on the thoughts and practices of others.
Especially the speculation on Feng Xiaoqin, it is undeniable that some are facts, but some are prejudices.
After Gu Lei's death, the Gu family hated Feng Xiaoqin fiercely, but they lightly exposed the faults of their neighbors.
When Feng Xiaoqin filed a lawsuit against her neighbors, what she exchanged was Gu Qingyu's prejudice that Feng Xiaoqin earned "dead man's money" and ate her brother's "human X steamed buns".
"My father is a very traditional person, maybe in your eyes, face, reputation and other things are not important, but he feels important, I know you are worried about the future of the little tiger, I can assure you, all his future study expenses, living expenses, I am responsible for the end, if you do not believe, I will give you a document now." 」
Except for Feng Xiaoqin, no one thought of asking for justice from the neighbors.
Even directly said that "everyone is ugly, and the face and reputation of the father are very important."
Who's ugly?
Face is more important than the son' and brother's justice, right?
If the sister-in-law wants to blame the neighbors, it is just disregarding your face, and it is only natural for you to blame the sister-in-law? If the sister-in-law wants justice, is she blackmailing others? Do you want face to be able to count directly? Gu Qingyu can do that?
02, the father of the son and daughter-in-law who let the daughter go home when they quarreled
At the end of the day, no husband and wife are not quarrelsome, unless they are fake couples.
Big or small.
A couple quarreled for 8 years, one party will learn to coax the wife of the pig, the other party will still remember to put a handmade flower in the middle of the night after the quarrel, affectionately play the other person's forehead to say happy birthday.
It can be seen that their marriage mode is not too bad.
However, living with the family, there are always such and such problems, such as the most obvious sister-in-law problem, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
In the marriage between Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei, Gu Qingyu occupied both identities.
She is essentially a sister-in-law, but psychologically, she is Gu Lei's "mother".
Between feng xiaoqin and Feng Xiaoqin, not only with the problem of sister-in-law, but also with the "contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law", Feng Xiaoqin, who herself married into the Gu family, has impure purposes, no matter how much she has paid in those 8 years, in the eyes of the Gu family, it is the price she should pay.
The Gu family naturally excluded her while enjoying her wholehearted care and anger.
Even Gu Shihong, who looked at the reasonableness of things, was actually confused.
Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei are no longer newly married young people, and the feelings and daily life between their husband and wife are not suitable for anyone to mix too much.
But it is clear that Gu Qingyu is the main backbone of the whole family.
Therefore, we can see that in the 8 years of Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei, Gu Qingyu's shadow is everywhere.
Gu Qingyu, who can move out, why can his hand still stretch out so long?
Naturally, it was Gu Shihong's problem.
But when Feng Xiaoqin and Gu Lei had a little fight, Gu Shihong immediately called Gu Qingyu.
He seems to be tightly guarding the balance between his daughter-in-law, but he really transfers the matter to his strong daughter and lets the daughter who moved out come back to "uphold justice" for her son.
Gu Lei was cowardly, and Feng Xiaoqin was strong.
The two quarreled, and the Gu family's subconscious was that the son suffered a loss and had to find foreign aid.
Before Gu Lei's accident, why did they quarrel?
Because Feng Xiaoqin was drunk and had contact with Boss Shi, Gu Lei, in a fit of rage, quarreled with her all night, and even threatened to take his son for paternity testing and divorce.
Feng Xiaoqin only then packed up her bags and left.
Although Feng Xiaoqin loves to calculate, the content of this quarrel is an insult to personality, coupled with all kinds of irregularities such as borrowing money for buying a house and reporting to Gu Lei for classes but not attending classes, Feng Xiaoqin is obviously holding her breath in her heart.
"You can rest assured, she is for the little tiger's school in Shanghai, she will not go back to her hometown, you hurry to let Gu Lei take a soft apology, maybe I have not yet arrived home, they will be reconciled."
In fact, it is.
After Gu Qingyu returned home, the Gu family was harmonious, and Feng Xiaoqin was not angry.
The quarrel, like it didn't happen.
Gu Qingyu had a very accurate understanding of Feng Xiaoqin, and Feng Xiaoqin did choose the honest Gu Lei in order to stay in Shanghai and have a hukou.
It is one thing to understand exactly, it is another thing to mix or not to mix.
If Gu Shihong really knew how to measure up, he should understand that it was a family affair between his son and his daughter-in-law, and he could not mix it, let alone let Gu Qingyu mix it.
It was precisely because of his life-threatening phone call that Gu Qingyu also returned home despite the cold.
If you go home and see that everyone is reconciled, there is nothing wrong, this father and daughter are sensible enough, there will be no small meeting again this time.
There are no surprises behind.
Gu Shihong seems to mix everything, but he is the "ear god" who mixes the root of the Gu family.
Without his repeated phone calls, where did Gu Qingyu come from so much leisure to run home and hold a small meeting to "reconcile" the quarrels and contradictions between his brother and his sister-in-law?
03, cold science student sister
There is a particularly ironic line in the play, to the effect that Gu Qingyu is a science student, too rational, too analytical, too cold, too ignorant of human feelings.
No matter what Feng Xiaoqin's original intention was to marry into the Gu family, she and Gu Lei have been living a good life for 8 years, and they have also taken good care of two generations of old people, right?
Can you see what Gu Qingyu has done?
Have a small meeting.
But whenever she was at home, there was almost a shadow of a small meeting, it was all a family, what could not be put on the table and said, it needed to be hidden to guard against Feng Xiaoqin?
In those 8 years, how many family meetings did Gu Qingyu hold, and did she count them herself?
If she hadn't come and mixed it up, the Gu family's small family would not have existed.
Gu Lei had no opinion, Gu Shihong was holding everyone's long shelf and face, and the father and son did not seem to have anything to quietly analyze and plan.
But Gu Qingyu is different, she is too purposeful and forward-looking.
Feng Xiaoqin just bought a house, she has already thought about things more than ten years later, saying something like "These years I have been pressed with my father, but after these ten years, in case she has a mind."
Therefore, all her "sense of crisis" comes from her own speculation and rational analysis.
On that day, the reason for Gu Lei's quarrel with Feng Xiaoqin was not in the matter of buying a house, but she provoked Gu Lei and Feng Xiaoqin' affairs, and it was really handy.
After nagging and forcing those who had said it eight hundred times, the fire that Feng Xiaoqin had just suppressed was rubbing up again.
What does Gu Qingyu really want to do?
Really so uneasy, and so fond of interfering with his brother's small family, simply instigating Gu Lei to divorce, isn't it over?
Can pay for a babysitter, where is there a ready-made, feng Xiaoqin who is bound by marriage?
Gu Qingyu's kind, typically like that, wants the horse to run, but does not want the horse to eat grass, maliciously speculates about Feng Xiaoqin, provokes her and Gu Lei, and completely treats her as an outsider, which is indeed inappropriate.
Before leaving home, Gu Lei and Feng Xiaoqin were indeed reconciled, and if she was smart enough, she should understand that at this time, she should take a step back and act as if she was just going home for a meal.
Instead of dragging my brother and dad back to the house for a meeting.
The company can work clearly, the logic is clear, but between the family, the calculation is clear, naturally there is no human touch, Feng Xiaoqin eavesdropping is not right, Gu Qingyu is also wrong.
Before Feng Xiaoqin's few words, "You pressed him everywhere, robbed him of his blessings, and robbed him of his Yangshou", the part of her complaint was actually a fact, and it was impossible to deny it.
"If you hadn't come and said those words that day, would I have been able to go?" Can I go? Can I go? We had already reconciled, Gu Lei had already learned to call the piglet, it was you who came over, talked nonsense,, provoked the feelings between our husband and wife, and it was you who made this matter unmanageable. ”
Gu Qingyu was too calm, and for the Gu family's household chores, the analysis of "the head is the Tao" itself is a wrong fallacy.
It was still difficult for Qing officials to break off family affairs, not to mention Gu Qingyu, who had his own prejudices from the beginning.
Without this small meeting, to be honest, Feng Xiaoqin really wouldn't have taken the luggage and left again, and Gu Lei wouldn't have chased him out and fallen down the stairs.
Gu Lei's death, the cause and effect are analyzed layer by layer, in fact, everyone in it is not innocent.
04, Feng Xiaoqin, who is a fool
When did the contradiction between Feng Xiaoqin and the Gu family escalate?
It was from the time the little tiger grew up.
It also started with every small family meeting hosted by Gu Qingyu.
According to Feng Xiaoqin's original idea, go to Shanghai, find a stable and honest man to marry, and be good for a lifetime.
"Why did you come to Shanghai in the first place, what did you want to find a reliable person, a lifetime, safe and stable, don't ask for anything else, be happy ..."
She is a person from a small place, and her thinking may not be as independent as that of women in the new era, and even carries the traditional concept of relying on men.
However, the shanghai natives have their own attributes of purity and arrogance in their bones.
If the two sides have similar family backgrounds, perhaps the contradiction is still small, but the disparity between the two sides' family situation is too large, and in the eyes of outsiders, Feng Xiaoqin has failed anywhere.
Gu Qingyu believed that she had seen through Feng Xiaoqin's selfish intentions, and misjudged that she actually wanted to live a good life, and for up to 8 years, she was prejudiced.
Gu Qingyu knew that Gu Lei was useless, but still felt that Feng Xiaoqin had climbed her brother.
In her positioning, she never put Feng Xiaoqin in the position of her family.
In her mind, there is an equation:
Feng Xiaoqin's Shanghai hukou, daily food and clothing without worry = Gu Lei's children, the Gu family's free nanny, and Gu Lei's bedmate.
This is the equivalent exchange, 8 years of making cattle and horses, is the price that Feng Xiaoqin should pay.
It is precisely because of this equation in Gu Qingyu's mind that during those 8 years, Gu Qingyu constantly strengthened the content of this equation to Gu Shihong and his brother through the mode of holding small meetings.
Feng Xiaoqin didn't care about Qing Yu's heart, even if she gave everything.
Marrying into the Gu family with personal selfishness seems to be Feng Xiaoqin's original sin, so that she can't turn over in the Gu family for the rest of her life.
Every family meeting that Gu Qingyu opened told Feng Xiaoqin in Chiguoguoguo that you are an outsider.
The Gu family can't give Feng Xiaoqin's family a sense of belonging, nor can it give her a sense of security, she wants to move out, she wants to have a family of three living with her husband and children.
This kind of thought became more and more profound after the little tiger gradually grew up.
"Later, when I met Gu Lei, I thought, how can I make Gu Lei more prominent, and then later, there are little tigers, little tigers grow up, I just thought, I want to buy a suite, this idea together, I can't stop it."
If Feng Xiaoqin had confessed her fate early, instead of allowing time to breed her thoughts of wanting to move out, there would have been no tossing and turning about borrowing money to buy a house for half a year.
But Fan Feng Xiaoqin herself is an economic independent, but if she has a little savings, a little bit of resistance to the Gu family's ability to fight against Gu Qingyu, and then think about buying a house, they will not come to this step.
However, this kind of demand is too high after all.
Asking a woman who has to work all year round, take care of the young and old, and live herself as a gyroscope to become an economic independent is itself unfair and unreasonable.
05, cowardly and unassertioned Gu Lei himself
Gu Lei's death is a pity, but he himself is also responsible.
The 36-year-old Gu Lei, in front of the Gu family, lived without the slightest sense of existence, and even in the propaganda poster of "Heart Residence", there was no character like him.
Gu Qingyu and Gu Lei are dragon and phoenix fetuses, but whether it is from the double quotient, ability, appearance... Gu Lei was not as good as his sister Gu Qingyu, who was born a few minutes earlier than himself.
Even if it was only a few minutes earlier, Gu Qingyu had the consciousness of an elder sister.
After the death of their mother, she consciously assumed the role of "mother", taking care of her brother, who was weak and frail since childhood and coughed in the winter.
The sister was spoiled, the elders of the family carefully cared for it, and Gu Lei lived like a giant baby, like a child who had not been weaned in front of his sister and daughter-in-law.
The character of the cowardly, wooden, no opinion, the wall grass is good and knows to see the wind blowing, he is not even as good as the wall grass.
Take the matter of borrowing money to buy a house.
Feng Xiaoqin has no money but wants to borrow money to buy a house, has a lot of selfish ideas, wants to move out, wants to live as a family, wants a sense of belonging, and wants to give her children a good school environment.
Although borrowing money to buy a house in this case is not rude, basically equivalent to asking for money, even if Gu Lei considers a few points for Feng Xiaoqin, this matter may not have room for maneuver.
After all, Gu Qingyu said it grandly: As long as you want to buy, I can support it.
But his words "I don't care" and "I am casual" completely cut off Feng Xiaoqin's possibility of buying a house, and also gave Gu Qingyu another reason to hold a family meeting.
The daughter-in-law is strong, let him do anything, have to rely on force, the sister is strong, say what is what.
To put it bluntly, between his daughter-in-law and his sister, Gu Lei never chose Feng Xiaoqin, but his sister, like the kind of mother who only listens to his mother's words.
"What my mother says is what it is, and what my sister says is what it is."
Feng Xiaoqin is his pillow person, he can't figure out his own situation, he can't see his own position, and he ignores his son's education and his daughter-in-law's situation.
The reason why Feng Xiaoqin is so difficult in the Gu family is precisely because she has been fighting alone with the entire Gu family for up to 8 years.
Even if Gu Lei is a sister who stands in line in small things, in big things, knows and thin mud, or has a heart with his wife, Gu Qingyu will not be careless, treat his wife as a free maid, and enjoy the fruits of filial piety with peace of mind.
This time, Feng Xiaoqin made trouble to the point of running away from home twice in one day, and Gu Lei's own attitude was the most critical.
Feng Xiaoqin, who had accumulated a stomach full of gas, could not easily suppress it, and he consciously entered the house with his sister for a meeting at night, and lit the fire again.
Didn't he know that Feng Xiaoqin had been in a state of irritability at any time for such a long time because she had bought a house?
He knows.
But he still added fuel to the fire with his sister.
Feng Xiaoqin's dispute with him, the crack in his marriage, is a big reason, it is the traces he himself chiseled out again and again, but he knows nothing.
The argument that those who do not know are not guilty should never be used in marriage, but Gu Lei does not understand.
end
As the saying goes, no snowflake is innocent when an avalanche occurs.
Gu Lei's death, there are too many people to be responsible for him, and it is impossible to trace it carefully, but the only thing that can be determined is that no one is qualified to push the responsibility on Feng Xiaoqin alone.
It's not fair to her, and it's not rude.
In the whole Gu family, at present, the only person who understands things is only the cousin and daughter-in-law Ge Yue, who has just married, which shows that the coolness of the Gu family is actually carved in the bones.