Receive the grace of a dripping water, and repay it when the spring comes.
When we are helped by others, we should keep in mind the kindness of others, even if we can't repay others at that time, but we can't take their help for granted, at least we must have an attitude of gratitude, so as not to chill people's hearts.
In particular, the help between brothers and sisters is originally selfless and does not ask for anything in return, but if one party takes the help of the other party for granted, not only does not know how to be grateful, but also cheekily moves forward, even the best brothers and sisters will feel that their efforts are not worth it.
Event review: The younger brother got married, the sister bought a house and a car to pay the bride price, but the sister-in-law insisted on adding her name to the house book
Xiao Yan and Mr. Sun are a small couple who have been married for two years, Xiao Yan is gentle and beautiful, Mr. Sun is tall and handsome, looks like a talented woman, and is a good match.
When the two got married, Mr. Sun's sister arranged all the marriage affairs of his brother, bought a car, bought a house, and even the bride price was paid by her sister.
There are not many big sisters like this, and it is really a great help for the newly formed small family.
But not long after the two got married, Xiao Yan always proposed to buy furniture for the family, but she did not dare to buy it, because she was worried that the house would not know when it would be taken away by her sister.
It turned out that although the house was xiaoyan and Mr. Sun living, the name on the house was Mr. Sun's sister, and this matter had always been a big bump in Xiao yan's heart, making her very insecure.
Mr. Sun was very touched by his sister's strong support, but he thought that he was already an adult, and he could not only think of relying on his sister, although he now lived in the house bought by his sister, but his heart always wanted to wait for himself to make money, bought his own house, and then returned the house to his sister.
This is what Mr. Sun has always thought, before getting married, he also consulted Xiao Yan's opinion, and Xiao Yan also agreed at that time. It's just that after getting married, Xiao Yan always wants to add her name to the house book under various excuses.
In her opinion, her sister said that the house was for both of them, and now they are already a family, and it is only natural to add a name, so that she can arrange to buy furniture, decorate the house, and live a good life.
But Mr. Sun is unwilling, he thinks that his wife just wants to dominate his sister's house, the car he bought when he got married is already in Xiao Yan's name, and now he even wants to add her name to his sister's house book, which makes him very uncomfortable.
For this matter, the two did not quarrel less, Xiao Yan felt that the car had added her name, and the sister said that the house was given to them, how about adding a name to the house? In this way, Mr. Sun is guarding against her and does not treat her as a family.
Living in a house without her own name, she felt very unassigned, and she had been entangled in the issue, which had brought the couple's relationship to an impasse.
Xiao Yan even asked her sister at the dinner table when she would take the house back, which surprised their family and did not know why. Mr. Sun also felt that Xiao Yan's emotional intelligence was too low, and said such a thing in front of so many people.
Although at the party, her mother-in-law bought all the dishes she loved to eat, Xiao Yan felt that in this family, she was always an outsider, because Mr. Sun was unwilling to add her name to the house book, that is, he did not regard her as a family.
The two have been arguing endlessly over this matter, Mr. Sun is overwhelmed, feels that Xiao Yan has low emotional intelligence, and is completely two people before marriage, often escaping to his parents' home, unwilling to face the unreasonable Xiao Yan.
So Xiao Yan proposed a divorce, hoping to intimidate Mr. Sun and achieve her own goals.
Mr. Sun's sister probably never expected that her kindness would actually lay a hidden danger for her brother's marriage.
Netizen views:
Netizen Yajiang said that this greedy face is vividly interpreted, he has no ability and greed, and he buys a house by his own ability and blindly asks for what is his skill.
Netizen fairy said that if others take the initiative to add your name to show that they love you, but it is different to go with a thick skin. And my sister's car has written her name, and she wants a house, really anyone has it, too greedy.
There are also netizens who joke that our landlord's house is also a lot, but when I went to find the landlord to add my name, I was beaten out, and I can't understand what is wrong with adding my name!
Netizen Cat Ear said that if I were a sister, I would take back all the cars and houses.
Morrowind's view:
The so-called Sheng Mien, Dou Mi Qi, a person who does not know how to be grateful, you are good to him, as long as there is a little that does not meet his requirements, he will remember the hatred in his heart and forget the help he has received.
Although in marriage, security is indeed very important for a woman, but the sense of security is given by herself, and the couple's good feelings are the greatest sense of security, rather than stalking to add their own names to other people's house books.
Xiao Yan's practice is completely to use the sense of security as an excuse to achieve the purpose of occupying the house.
The sister's financial conditions are good and she is willing to help her brother, which shows that the relationship between them is very good, and her love for her brother is also selfless.
Since she bought a house for her brother to marry, she must have been sincere, but she did not register the house in her brother's name, indicating that she also kept a hand in her heart.
In fact, I also want to see the performance of my sister-in-law, after all, the divorce rate is so high now, and my money is not blown by the wind, if my sister-in-law is at ease with my brother, the house will definitely fall under their name.
But I didn't expect that Xiao Yan's emotional intelligence was too low, because she was not satisfied with Mr. Sun's desire to return the house to his sister, so he wanted to add his name in advance.
In this story, Mr. Sun's three views are very positive, and he is also very responsible, unwilling to rely on others all the time, and wants to strive to create the future with his own hands.
Regardless of whether the sister will accept the house when she arrives, at least it shows that he is a person who knows gratitude, and even if the sister pays more, her heart is still happy.
If a person cannot control his greed, ask for things that do not belong to him, cannot see the happiness he has received, and does not even have a basic sense of gratitude, such behavior will sooner or later lose all existing happiness.
If you were the sister, would you agree to add your sister-in-law's name to the house book?