The so-called family is to share the good and share the bad, in order to have the courage to face the world and be fearless.
Some people say that when people reach a certain age, they must throw away four things: people who don't love you, meaningless drinking, friends who are hypocritical, and relatives who have no sense of boundaries.
Getting along with relatives is a science, going too far, the relationship will be weak, going too close, whether there will be more grievances. The writer Bondarev once said: "The root of all human suffering stems from the lack of a sense of boundary." ”
Relatives without a sense of boundaries, we don't have to be sorry, let alone keep them. After all, some people have always been selfish and don't empathize with others.
01, the in-laws have dinner and the sister-in-law asked to go to the hotel
Someone once said that the attitude of others towards you is hidden in your permission. Without your permission, others will not act arbitrarily.
This is not wrong at all, and it is most appropriate to use on Luo Juan. Luo Juan's family is relatively well-off, and she has been the only daughter in the family since she was a child, so even if she later married her husband, her generous characteristics have not changed in the slightest.
And Luo Juan's generosity often cheapened her sister-in-law. Luo Juan's husband has two brothers, and there is a younger brother at the bottom. When Luo Juan and her husband were still in college, the little uncle and sister-in-law were already pregnant before marriage and soon married.
Therefore, over the years, the in-laws have been living with their younger sons and helping their sister-in-law to bring their two sons. Even if Luo Juan later became pregnant and gave birth to a confinement, the mother-in-law did not come, and the reason for the sister-in-law was that the mother-in-law wanted to help her take two children, and she lacked skills.
When asked for help, the sister-in-law pushed out. But once there was any benefit, she rushed to the front and did not give in. Although the in-laws are partial to helping the younger son, Luo Juan still respects the in-laws as always. During the New Year's Festival, send gifts to red envelopes.
And these gifts, in the end, were all accepted by the sister-in-law laughing. Although Luo Juan was a little uncomfortable, she could think of her in-laws living with her sister-in-law, but she didn't care, but just turned a blind eye.
Fast forward to the 60th birthday of her mother-in-law, Luo Juan originally thought of taking her in-laws and uncle's family to be lively and lively, and to make a hearty meal to treat everyone. As a result, the sister-in-law shook her head resolutely and insisted on going to the hotel to celebrate, saying that the mother-in-law's 60-year-old was the big birthday and must be celebrated well.
02. The sister-in-law chooses 15 dishes of her own choosing
The little uncle echoed it, and the husband who saw the situation was not good enough to pull down his face and refuse, and could only agree. So two in-laws, a family of four people, plus Luo Juan's family of three, a total of 9 people went to the hotel that the sister-in-law had booked long ago.
As soon as I went to the hotel, my sister-in-law unceremoniously ordered 15 dishes by herself, and specially picked up expensive and good points. Seeing the menu ordered by the sister-in-law, Luo Juan and her husband did not dare to start again, after all, on the table dish ordered by the sister-in-law, there was no two thousand yuan to be determined.
As soon as the dishes came up, the sister-in-law hurriedly greeted them, and also put all the favorite dishes in front of their family of four. Seeing this scene, Luo Juan was a little sick to her stomach. If it weren't for her husband pleading with her eyes, Luo Juan almost wanted to jump up and get angry.
In addition to the small episodes of ordering and serving, other times are more enjoyable. It can be seen that the mother-in-law is very happy, after all, she is a lot older, and finally enjoyed a guest, and it feels really good.
Seeing this scene, Luo Juan secretly advised herself in her heart that as long as the bill did not exceed 2,000 yuan, this meal, even if they invited it, should give her mother-in-law a good congratulations and do their filial piety.
03, checkout sister-in-law throwing pot: brother-in-law salary is high, you should all out
After drinking and eating, Luo Juan called the waiter to check out. Seeing the bill, Luo Juan was also a little stunned, spending a total of 2600. Luo Juan gave the bill to her sister-in-law, and after the sister-in-law glanced at it, she directly threw the pot: The brother-in-law's salary is high, and you should all go out. Our monthly salary is only 8,000, where can we afford to eat?
The sister-in-law said this, did the same, directly threw the bill back to Luo Juan, and then directly wanted to go outside. Husband in order to calm things down, do not destroy today's good atmosphere, but also advised Luo Juan to calculate, the family is here, 2600 is 2600, not bad for hundreds of dollars.
But Luo Juan did not intend to give up so kindly, if the sister-in-law spoke well and respected people well, perhaps Luo Juan would be a great benevolent person again, and the head of the wrong was wronged. But the brother-in-law advocated ordering the most expensive dish without authorization, and now when it comes to paying and wanting to run away, there is no door, and the two brothers must share half of it.
Luo Juan asked for the AA system, each family out of 1300, which is considered to be a birthday for the mother-in-law. The sister-in-law jumped a little when she heard it, saying that they were under great financial pressure, and they had two sons and parents, unlike the brother-in-law, who was rich and powerful, and could earn tens of thousands of yuan a month, which was not money at all in the eyes of the brother-in-law.
Luo Juan was happy as soon as she heard it, daring her brother-in-law to stand and talk without waist pain, not her own money. Luo Juan ignored it and directly threw out 1300, and the remaining 1300 was paid by the little uncle.
Seeing that others had cast a strange look, the little uncle finally compromised and pulled out 1300. After settling the bill, the little uncle and his wife left with two children, leaving their in-laws alone.
After returning home, the husband was still a little sullen, blaming Luo Juan for being too preoccupied, not 2600, what about the wrongful first time, at least it could make his parents happy. Now the two brothers are making trouble for 1300 yuan, and the most uncomfortable thing in their hearts is their parents.
Ke Luojuan didn't think it was her fault, wasn't 1300 money? Her money, too, was not blown by the wind. Usually, how much money she pays to honor her in-laws is her business. But in this matter, it is clear that the sister-in-law wants to take advantage of them, and she still has no way to repent.
Today's Topic:
Do you think that on the mother-in-law's birthday, these 2600 should be shared equally between the two brothers?
Half-summer commentary: Dissect the emotions of marriage, teach you to read the human nature of the human heart!