"Sister-in-law, I bought the house, I bought the car, and it's you, not my mother, who should get out!"

01.

If there is anything I believe in, it is that "everyone changes", and the reason I have this perception now is because of my brother.

He is a perfect interpretation, people are changeable, no matter how good the words are, they can only be listened to.

When my twin sister and my brother were still in college, one day, we were chatting at home.

I inadvertently mentioned that uncle Zhang's daughter-in-law next door was not filial piety, and at that time my mother asked my brother: Son, if you marry a wife in the future, she is not good to your mother, what will you do?

Without thinking, the younger brother said: "She dares, if she is not good to you, I will be the first to disagree, and I will divorce immediately."

Although everyone knows it, my mother also knows in her heart that parents are short, there is no such simple thing.

Even if there is a contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, how can it be said that it is separated.

But this sounds really good, and my mother is very happy after listening to it, and she thinks that her future life will not be too bad.

But she forgot that people change, just like her brother, and we believe that his original answer was sincere.

My father died of illness when our siblings were very young, and my mother never remarried.

When someone asked later, she always smiled and said: I have three children, who will want me?

But when I grew up, I learned that my grandparents were willing to take away 2 children.

The mother has a child, she is still young, hard-working, can remarry no matter what, and life will not be as hard as later.

But my mother couldn't bear to tear us apart from our brothers and sisters, and she was worried that after remarriage, my stepfather would not be good to us, so she never remarried.

A person pulled us to grow up, suffered a lot, my sister and I both looked in the eyes, the more we grew up, the more painful it was for my mother.

Later, my sister and I were married one after another, the in-laws had good conditions, the husband was also very good to himself, and the life after marriage was warm and happy.

02.

More than once, we hope to pick up my mother to live together, we have a family, I hope that my mother can enjoy the blessings.

But she has always refused, saying that she wants to follow her son to retire, and on our side, basically the elderly are following their sons for the elderly.

She was worried that she would go to her daughter's house and let her daughter retire, and that her son would be pointed out.

Later, my sister and I had no choice but to go home as much as possible to see her and give her a lot of living expenses every month.

I feel that it is not easy for my brother to take care of my mother alone, and I also hope that his wife can be kind to my mother-in-law.

When my brother got married, my sister and I made a down payment and bought him a matrimonial house and a car.

We thought that doing this would give the mother and her son and daughter-in-law more confidence when they lived together.

Who would have thought that less than half a year later, I went to see my mother and found that she had moved back to the old house.

The younger brother said that his mother asked to move away, and his mother also said that he liked to be quiet.

But later I learned that my mother was taken away by my sister-in-law.

At first, the younger brother and the sister-in-law were married by Fengzi, because they bought a house, and the wedding date was delayed again and again, and then after the wedding, within a few months, the child was born.

My sister-in-law just gave birth to a child, and my mother was not in good health and had just undergone surgery, so it was not realistic to take care of the confinement.

At that time, my mother was embarrassed, saying that she could not serve her daughter-in-law to confinement, so she took 30,000 out and invited her sister-in-law in advance.

This money was saved by my mother from the living expenses we gave over the past few years, and later this money was taken by my sister-in-law to her mother-in-law, who said that her mother took care of herself very hard.

After we know, we can't help but feel funny, in fact, in the sister-in-law's month, her mother-in-law has not come several times, and there is a sister-in-law, there is nothing to make her mother hard.

But my brother didn't say anything, we were sisters, we didn't talk much, so as not to quarrel.

Thinking that my mother lives together after all, as long as I am better to my mother, these things are not a big deal.

But we don't know that people will have to make progress, probably because we have repeatedly backed down, so the sister-in-law is more greedy.

Of course, this is also indispensable to my brother's connivance.

03.

With children, the family expenses are naturally much larger.

In particular, the younger sister-in-law, regardless of the actual economic conditions of the family, must be compared with everything.

We gave my mother this little living expenses, and my mother took it all out as a living expense for a small family, which was also stretched.

My sister-in-law began to force my mother to do odd jobs, saying that many old men and women she knew, older than my mother, were working odd jobs to earn money.

People are more considerate and take care of their sons, and my mother should also know something and share the pressure on her son.

My mother really went, and if the neighbors couldn't really look at it and called my sister, we don't know when we will know.

After all, my mother hid from us and made many excuses for us not to see her at both ends of the three days. He said that he was afraid that his brother would think too much, thinking that we thought that my brother was not good for my mother.

If I had gone to see my mother at the end of the year, and she had prevaricated, we would have been kept in the dark.

I saw my mother working in the factory, moving heavy boxes, and I was mad.

My sister and I were going to my sister-in-law to theorize and ask her why she didn't let her parents continue to work odd jobs to earn money.

But I was pulled by my mother to death, and she wouldn't let us go, saying that she couldn't embarrass my son.

It's not good to say that the quarrel is not good, and I don't want my son to be talked about.

We insisted that my mother quit her job and then persuaded her to follow us to the pension, but my mother still did not agree.

In the end, there was really no way, my sister and I pulled my brother and said all the good things, so that he could be nicer to his mother.

I blushed and said have you forgotten your original promise?

We don't want you to be so good, basic daily life and don't have to continue to go out to do odd jobs, this can be done.

My brother was really uneasy about us, and gave him 40,000 yuan, full of promises.

The result is good, the younger brother did not let his mother go to work again, but he did not let his wife treat his mother kindly.

It wasn't long before we got another call from a neighbor, this time my mom fainted and was taken to the hospital.

Ask carefully, it turned out that this time the sister-in-law did not blatantly let her mother-in-law go to the factory to work.

She asked my mother to help others wash their clothes, and in the winter, my mother's health was not good, and there were many clothes, washed and dried, and fainted on the way to others.

I looked at my mother lying on the hospital bed, and I couldn't breathe.

04.

But the younger brother did not answer the phone, and after calling a dozen times, he said: Oh, sister, I know that my mother is hospitalized, am I not unable to walk away from the outside.

Our mother is not in any serious trouble, and you don't have to worry too much.

After hanging up the phone, I smiled angrily and despaired of this brother, he really changed, no longer the good son who was understanding, filial and considerate.

His mother fainted and was hospitalized, or fainted in order to make money for the small family.

But what about him? With his wife and children, he and his husband's family were fishing outside.

He also said that he was busy and couldn't leave, which was too chilling.

My sister was silent for a while and said: Sister, my mother is discharged from the hospital this time, we will take it away no matter what, after settling in, we will find our brother and daughter-in-law to have a good theory.

This house money, car money, and some miscellaneous money, even if I can't get it back, I still have to ask her for it.

Don't make a fuss, she also really bullied when we were good.

"I don't stop you," I said as I looked at my sister, then looked at my mother and said, word for word, "Mom, don't stop us, your brother has changed, and we don't have this brother from now on." ”

Mom wanted to say something, and she couldn't say anything, except for tears, and there was only silence.

The son wants to raise and the relatives are not there, the parents raise us small, we should raise the parents and the old, I hope that the children of the world can treat their parents well.

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