There are three kinds of men who will not have true love for "lovers"

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Miss Wen 丨 White

I have consulted a question like this: "If you find that a man has a situation outside, how to save it?" ”

Readers who are familiar with me know that I have always been "persuaded not to reconcile" for this kind of inquiry. But after all, I am an outsider, I don't know much about your marriage and family situation, and the advice given is not entirely appropriate.

Many people are multi-faceted, for some men, but when this sign appears, it is basically difficult to be pulled back; but another part of the man, even if there is a situation outside, do not need you to save anything, when the time comes, he will automatically accept it.

For "lovers", most of them take what they need, and until the point is reached, they rarely produce true feelings. Such shrewd men are basically divided into three types.

01

Cost conscious men

I know that I have seen the emotional story of an anonymous respondent:

When the lover was in her second year, the man said goodbye to her.

The man is calm, careful, gentlemanly and has a successful career (has his own company), business contacts, the two slowly intersect.

If she had known that a man was a fake divorce, she would never have allowed herself to be a third party. Yes, the man and his wife divorced in order to satisfy the city's home buying policy, but actually still lived together.

After the interaction, the man booed cold and asked for warmth every day, she had a cold and cough, and would deliberately ask for leave to accompany her to the doctor. Share life's funny things with her every day.

Moreover, the man is indeed talented, and she admires him and slowly becomes dependent on him. Ask him for advice when you encounter something difficult, and you can patiently guide you to find a solution every time. She is also very generous to her, and everything she likes will be secretly bought for her to create surprises.

After discovering a man's fake divorce, she was shocked and conflicted. On the one hand, men swear that they actually do not have deep feelings for their wives, and they have the idea of pretending to be true, but they are serious about her. On the other hand, it was really difficult for her to leave with a hard heart.

Until nearly two years after dating, she felt that she could not delay any longer, so she asked the man when to get a license with her? The man hesitated for a moment and then said that he did not have any ideas about marriage, nor did he want to step into marriage again, so it was very happy to live together, and if he wanted to get married, he could not give.

After that, men stopped coming to her. She found out that the man's wife was pregnant with her second child, and the clown was herself.

A man with a strong sense of cost can be nice to you, but he will never give you true love.

They will spend their minds for you, they will spend money for you, and they will not look like a scumbag who only knows how to ask for excitement in every way. Only by truly paying for you can you be dead hearted and eventually unwilling to let him fall into disrepute.

But when the lover wants to turn right, the man's heart is the same as the mirror, this account is not cost-effective, it is not good for his future career and family stability, the cost is too high, and the relationship should end.

With such a man, you can't count him out.

02

Men who are passionate about emotional games

Another story, the fate of the lover is even more tragic, originally thought to be true love, who ever thought that they were just a link in the game.

After 3 years together and 4 abortions for a man, the doctor said that the probability of her re-conceiving in this life is very small.

But even so, she didn't feel that men owed her anything, until she found that she wasn't even a third party.

The fact that the man and his wife were separated from each other and did not interfere with each other in these years, she believed that men did not deceive her.

When another woman came to the door, she could not connect the man with the prodigal son of the love field.

That woman, who had known men long before her, had been together for 4 years. Originally thought that he was the beginning and destination of a man's extramarital affair, now it seems that he is just a small role in the game of men's love field.

The man walked the kidney, she walked the heart, and she destroyed her body.

In reality, there are especially many prodigal sons outside of marriage, they are keen on emotional games, and no one can guarantee which harbor he will eventually stay in.

When you feel that you are a special case among lovers, and he is truly in love with you, it is very likely that you are just one so-and-so who appears in this game.

03

Greedy and selfish man

Zhang Ailing's "Red Rose and White Rose" has a very classic and intriguing passage:

"Maybe every man has had two women like that, at least two.

Married to a red rose, over time, the red changed a touch of mosquito blood on the wall, the white is still the bright moonlight in front of the bed; married to the white rose, the white is a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, and the red is a cinnabar mole on the heart. ”

In the TV series "Thirty Only", such a man is depicted.

Xu Huanshan and Gu Jia look like a model couple. Virtuous wife and lovely children. Decent career, happy family, if there is no accident, this life to go to the white hair, can also be regarded as a happy.

But then Lin Youyou appeared, completely breaking this calm. Lin is young and beautiful, his body is full of youthful breath all the time, and he especially admires Xu Huanshan, which fascinates him and constantly sinks.

While indulging in the love of Lin Youyou's little girl, he can't leave his wife Gu Jia, who can take care of personnel affairs and can take care of him.

Wanting both the tenderness of the white rose and the enthusiasm of the red rose, such a greedy and selfish man will not actually have true love with anyone, and he loves only himself the most.

These three kinds of men will not have true love for their lovers. If you want to save, it is also the easiest. But there are still some things to say, whether it is a wife or a lover, if you can stay away from him, stay away from him!

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