Marriage sees a person clearly, and if it is not compatible, it is divided, and smiling goodbye is the last decency of adults

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I am really glad to be able to live in this era, and I am really glad to be born in this paradise.

People can enjoy the greatest freedom under the premise of abiding by basic norms, work, marriage, and socialization, and in this era, as long as individuals are willing to work hard, they can achieve relative freedom.

Today, when the Network is developed, we can sit at home and brush our mobile phones, eat celebrity melons, or sigh at the chicken feathers in our lives, or secretly rejoice in our own life encounters.

What about the wedding of the century, in the end, it still parted ways

Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying's official announcement of divorce is probably the most calm one, because about the marriage of two people, the news of the marriage has come out from two years ago, but the two people have remained silent.

In fact, for this couple, I personally was initially optimistic, because I liked Huang Xiaoming's personality, I think he is a decent person, high emotional intelligence, will do things, from his and his mother's way of getting along and the atmosphere of family can feel a wave of warmth, which can not be acted.

Such a family is a solid family, so it will not be easy to divorce.

Since Xiang Tai mentioned a sentence on the variety show: what about the century wedding, in the end it was not divorced, when Wei Jia asked "who is it" with a melon face, it was determined at that time that the marriage of Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying came to an end.

So don't rush to hold hands with a new couple, maybe after a few years, looking back will be regrettable.

Marriage is a protracted battle

Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying's divorce melon did not start a thousand waves, because the battle line was too long.

The first two people are a combination of male strength and female weakness, marriage has become a springboard for women's careers to hang all the way, after marriage, good resources have poured in, so that Yang Ying has transformed from an unknown small model into a front line.

There must be something to do with her marriage and the man behind it.

At that time, the male was strong and the female was weak, the female bird was dependent on the person, and the male domineering president.

However, in the two years before watching the divorce, every time the news came out, the man was carefully maintaining, and the woman was arrogant and had a great reversal.

Yang Ying's personality has quietly changed.

No matter how you look at it, the wife is dominant, and the husband tries to save it.

At that time, I also thought that maybe the two people just had problems with their feelings, and if they continued like this, they could still be saved, after all, there was a cute little sponge in the middle.

After the divorce, one party remains silent, and the other party is still taking advantage of it

The official divorce of the two people was before the Spring Festival, and before That, Yang Ying also brought an oversized diamond ring, which was very similar to the ring worn when they were married. So many people speculate that the two people have reconciled.

In fact, just before this, Yang Ying wore a men's down jacket, and was pulled out by netizens that it was The same model as Huang Xiaoming, and various signs also showed that the two people had reconciled.

Because of such similar topics, Ms. Yang often occupies the hot search list.

Don't say that there is a coincidence, it is more logical to have ulterior motives, which has exposed the different attitudes of two people to marriage.

What would you do if doing so would generate traffic and topics that were directly related to the benefits?

This exposes the pursuit and goal of the individual.

In fact, Yang Ying has not been a person who is willing to be the woman behind a man, she has her own ambitions.

Huang Xiaoming said that he felt that he was being consumed, and if he tasted it carefully, he would definitely be able to taste something.

After the divorce, there is a big change of attitude, and there is really no need for girls to do this

Recently, there is a topic that always comes into view, to the effect that Yang Ying revealed in the interview program that Huang Xiaoming did not want her, although she repeatedly tried, in the end she was still unable to make the other party re-accept herself.

In fact, it is not, in fact, Yang Ying expressed her feelings in the program: she has repeatedly corrected herself, can not return to the other party's return, always hope that there will be a miracle, but what to do is useless.

This passage was directly translated as: regret divorce, it is she who was abandoned.

However, it is not surprising that it is directly translated into this way, because her words are reminiscent of her marriage, and this is probably her intention.

This is completely contrary to the previous high-cold attitude, I remember the two people attending the ceremony together, Huang Xiaoming helped her tidy up the skirt in the back, she was as cold as the queen, and did not take these details seriously.

Of course, this may also be expressing your attitude, since the feelings have already gone wrong, there is no need to act here.

But in the end, some problems are explained.

The two people contrasted the pattern and appeared, but it was not shameful to lose to Huang Xiaoming.

It may be that there are real regrets, it may be really unwilling, or it may be for the topic and traffic, Yang Ying mentioned this paragraph, in the end, let people understand the clues of their marriage.

The problem is that the core issue of marriage is not a third party

Any arbitrary assertion that two people are inappropriate, or that two people are suitable, is unreasonable.

Some people say that people with three views cannot live together, and making friends must first have three views together, and only partners who have three views can work together for a lifetime.

There was a problem in the marriage of a good friend before, because the two people's parenting views were inconsistent, and they almost came to the step of divorce, but the two people's emotional foundation was good, and they were willing to communicate, and they had the same goal, and all the final parties compromised, each took a step back, and saved the marriage.

At that time, a confidant sister said: There is no betrayal, no third party, it is not a problem, and it will not be divorced.

The three views are not in harmony, the interests are different, they have gone through decades of wind and rain together, and finally they have returned to plainness, and the hand of the son and the partner of the son and the old can be seen everywhere.

And the three views are in harmony, there is no third party to intervene, and in the end, they still can't resist the trivialities of life, and the same people who are separated in the end are also there.

In fact, divorce, the real core problem is never the third party, when the third party can be inserted between two people, it means that the marriage has a problem.

There are many key points in a harmonious marriage, mutual tolerance, mutual understanding, personal character characteristics, whether two people have the same goals, and so on.

The most important thing is to communicate, tolerate and understand, willing to communicate, willing to tolerate and understand, everything is not a problem.

Laughing and saying goodbye is the last decent thing for adults

Marriage should not be involved with children, feelings are split, two people go their separate ways, but children can not disappear out of thin air, children need love, need companionship, need parental care.

The real wise man is that even if the separation is unpleasant, he will try to leave enough dignity, just to leave room for the child, not to embarrass the child.

Two people may have right or wrong, but in the eyes of children, right or wrong is not important, the first thing they see is the relationship, one is the closest father, one is the closest mother, which is what they care about the most.

The feelings are no longer, the marriage is over, but life will go on, laughing and saying goodbye, leaving plenty of room for the child, is the last decency of adults.