Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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After disconnection, if two people have the same frequency as the following behaviors, they will have the rest of their lives when they are reunited:
Both sides can't help but miss;
Both sides are willing to solve the problems that have occurred calmly and jointly;
For love, willing to smooth out their edges and corners and approach again;
When you want to take the initiative, he is also on the way to you.
Feelings are mutually identical, in order to have results!
The disconnection is not terrible, the terrible thing is that the two people after the disconnection have disappeared at the same frequency and tacit understanding!
Disconnection is the most hurtful act in the relationship. At the same time, it is also the final criterion for testing true love.
There is a disconnection because I know that I don't love it and don't want to be disturbed. There is also a disconnection, because I can't feel loved, so I have supported countless days and nights with "ta love me and will come to me"!
The two disconnected behaviors have one thing in common: there is a person who is still in love.
There is a clear difference between the two disconnected behaviors: the former, never look back. The latter, as long as the other party shows a "loving" move, he will definitely rush to hug each other.
For those who are still in love, whether active or passive, the act of disconnection is not advisable but it is a good way to get born again!
After the disconnection is broken, people who truly love each other will double their understanding of cherishing through this disaster. The wrong people, from then on strangers, give each other the best to let go and liberate.
In the relationship between men and women, when the disconnection strikes, the more people who love deeply, can't let go, and are not willing, the more they will do some behaviors that make them cry and laugh after that.
And it turns out that people who are deeply tormented by disconnection generally have a deep misunderstanding of the relationship they care about!
Not all expectations will respond, not all disconnections will be because someone stands in place and waits, and someone will turn back happily!
Feelings need to be managed and need to be managed with each other's hearts because they care and are afraid of losing! One person is overloaded and the other person is enjoying his success, which is not a healthy emotional relationship.
Both people are in business, and they will not be disturbed by anything, affecting "together".
Whether you are active or passive disconnected, if you happen to encounter the following 3 situations, if the other party does not look for you, let it go! Advise you, such a disconnect, do not expect the love affair to continue:
1: The person who always says he will change for you, but he has never changed
What is love? Love is willing to cherish the relationship in front of you and change yourself to cater to each other! And, such behavior must be mutual!
In a relationship, one person has always been affectionate, considerate, and dedicated to love, and the other person will never let the other person feel his intentions unless he is outside the superficial form.
When the person in front of you expresses his lost appeal to this, the other party will say "I will change". However, when everyday life or contradictions strike, there is only a difference between excessive and more excessive!
For such a situation, people with psychological imbalance will choose to disconnect.
However, because I have paid too much in my feelings, I have not received a corresponding response, and I am frustrated with unwillingness, so I have been wrongly expecting the other party to come to me.
Even, fantasizing that the other party will stand in front of him with a full-hearted appearance, and continue to harvest the rest of his life with his love affair...
In fact, a person does not love you, no matter how much you pay and how long you break the connection, he will not take the initiative to come to you. Believe me, no one can stand a person who loves you deeply.
When getting along with you, you don't consider your feelings everywhere, always ignore your appeals and only care about yourself, even if you don't break off contact with him, you won't have a future.
Because, the person who truly loves you is reluctant to do that to you. A person who doesn't care about your feelings has never thought about having a future with you! Whether you break the connection or not, it never matters to that person.
2: Because of a third party intrusion
In today's society, the love between men and women is changeable, and many have not escaped the invasion of third parties.
Between married men and women, there may be too many objective people or things involved, the relationship is not good because of the existence of a third party and immediately choose to terminate the relationship.
However, many people who have not entered the marriage and love, in the face of such emotional changes, should have terminated the relationship immediately. On the contrary, some people "admit to death" and feel that if they play a game of disappearing, they will make the person who betrayed them "wake up".
In fact, how can a person who can betray you "wake up" and think of your goodness?
Under what circumstances will a person who betrays his feelings think of the good of the "original match"? Because, the third party only consumes ta. Because, he feels that some interests with a third party cannot be satisfied!
Other than that, the person who betrays you will never think of your good.
Whether you get married or not, if your significant other betrays you, advise you not to play a "clown" one-man show in the form of a broken bond. Rest assured, no one will be there! You will only humiliate yourself.
You think that some of your actions will make the betrayer change his mind, change his past mistakes, and cherish you from now on, don't dream!
For the betrayer, I hope you disappear, so as not to disturb the interest of others!
When your relationship encounters betrayal, what you should do is never a one-man show of disconnection, but weigh how you can benefit more in this relationship. Then, kick the betrayer away and leave no illusions behind.
3: The other party shows that they don't love you anymore and break up
In feelings, not all deep love is presented in a tangled way. Love is mutual, if you can't make the other person give as deeply as you, your deep love is just "unrequited love".
Unrequited love, never love! You have to understand this anyway!
Yes, you've had a beginning, and the other person has said they love you, so what? Feelings that have a beginning and an end are not feelings. If you have already died, don't think of coming back to life!
Those who love you can't drive away, and those who don't love you can't stay! People who have already told you to break up and don't want to contact again have never thought of turning back from the moment they turned around.
For such a person, no matter how good you are, it is useless! Ta is good, ta does not love you, you say that you are reluctant is equally meaningless!
People, often in their feelings, are unwilling to recognize reality. Why bother?
You say you can't put it down, but it's actually an unpleasant entanglement. You say that you still love deeply, but in fact you are not willing to embarrass yourself.
Recognize your own emotional source, you will know that the person who decided to leave, after a long time, will forget. Think about it, a person who comes and goes is just a tenant of the atrium, and when the person leaves, you clean the atrium and meet the right person!
Life is short, don't look forward to a person who has already indicated that he will not come back!
After breaking off the connection, I know that that person is not worthy of being expected, but what should I do if I am still not willing? Here are a few suggestions for you:
First, think about the experience when the other person hurt you! It's best to write out what he hurt you, just think of the person, and take it out and look at it.
Believe that one day you will be healed by your own words.
Second, find out all the misfits when you're together.
Again, accept a new, not-too-nasty offer from the opposite sex.
Finally, learn to keep yourself busy and unravel yourself in your spare time.
I tell you, there is never anyone in the world who can't let go, only people who don't want to let go.
After the disconnection, you are doomed to not be able to be together, you are still very sad, nothing more than because you are not willing.
There's nothing wrong with breaking up, you admit it and accept it, and you'll let yourself go in the shortest possible time!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
Topic Discussion: Have you ever been unable to put down the wrong person because of the disconnection? Leave your truth in the comments section below.