The content of this issue is specially for you who can't forget your ex.
I know you're all trying to figure out if your ex still has you in mind, and if you both have a chance, so next, I'm going to put the compound signals of your ex in this video.
First of all, I will give you a misunderstanding, after the breakup, many parties who want to save will fall into a "high sensitivity emotion", see any wind and grass, start to do reading comprehension, over-interpret each other's every move, and the other extreme is to over-deny each other's good signals, resulting in missed opportunities for reconciliation.
Then after the emotions, we must maintain a sense of sanity, from the following aspects, which is the "effective signal"
After handing it, you can still feel that the other party's attitude towards you is special, such as remembering your eating habits, reminding you when you can't drink cold, and seeing you send a circle of friends for help, you will actively find ways to help you.
But usually he is not a good personality to everyone, then the compound intention shown by this person's behavior is very high, even if he refuses to compound again and again, but the behavior cannot deceive people.
We can think that the other party is not compounded because some contradictions cannot be resolved, not because they do not like it.
Two people who have broken up will definitely have a period of disconnection for a period of time, not seeing each other, and if he will be very curious about your life during this time, ask you from time to time, or give you a thumbs up to your dynamics, this is very suspicious.
Most couples will pay attention to the status of the ex for more than half a year to a year after the breakup, and if during this time, the ex finds a lot of high value that you have not found, his interest in you will also rise.
So after the breakup we must carry out self-construction, if you become more and more rotten, the other party will only feel that breaking up with you is right, only to see you getting better and better, he may regret it.
He will take the initiative to break the ice, contact you frequently, or share some of the no-no. And based on your recent social software status, analyze your needs and mention these things intentionally or unintentionally.
For example, if you have shared a song in your circle of friends, he will inadvertently mention the music he has been listening to recently, which just happens to be the one you shared, which has to cause your association, although he did not say what he wanted to do with you, but he deliberately showed concern for you.
One situation is to remain single all the time, with almost no heterosexual resources. Another scenario is when some of your competitors appear, but most likely haven't established a stable relationship yet.
The first situation shows that he has a relatively large margin for the relationship, and if you are not reunited, he wants to get out of the breakup period and forget about you, which will take a long time.
The second situation seems to have a small chance of compounding, but it is also necessary to analyze the opposite sex resources around the other party, whether the value is higher than you, and whether the personality type is the same as yours.
Many boys seamlessly connect after the breakup, is holding a kind of psychology to get rid of the ex quickly, the more brutally he is hurt, the faster it may be seamless, but the situation of cheating is not in this range.
Fake breakup as long as a temptation to know, the other party's attitude is generally not tough, for example, if you are the circle of friends officially announced the breakup, he immediately came to question you.
If you really break up, it mainly depends on how much the other party has feelings for you.
Many people have asked me before, if he really breaks up, has a tough attitude, and is very desperate, is it irretrievable?
On the contrary, in the true breakup, the terrible thing is that the person who has no emotions for you, he is very calm and decisive, and comforts you to bless you, that is really want to leave.
Often the more desperate a person is for you, the easier it is for him to redeem, because he must have paid a lot to you, and he has not been rewarded, so he will have such a big emotion, resulting in him being so desperate now.
It is also to use this desperate way to force yourself to put down, behind the emotions is love, is the real needs of the other party, so do not be afraid of the other party's emotions, seize the needs, the opportunity to save will come, understand?
Psychological test: Test the sentence your ex most wants to say to you
1. Do you argue over small things when you're together?
Yes, I often feel tired —2
Rarely quarrel over small things—2
Occasionally, but soon reconciled —3
2. Do you think you are a person who likes to self-reflect and is willing to correct mistakes?
Yes —3
Not —4
3. Will he or she take the initiative to tell you his troubles?
It is often said that -5
Not much to say —4
4. Would you tell your parents about the process of your relationship?
Everything is too big or small, and I often complain to my parents -6
Occasionally they ask and say —5
Hardly to say, nothing to say —5
5. Faced with what you want, how much energy are you willing to put into acquiring it?
Everything follows fate, and it is mine in the end--7
Try hard, maybe you can succeed - 6
Do my best, I want to get --B
6. Did you break up because of a third party?
Yes—A
No —7
7. Did the other party take the initiative to contact you after the breakup?
Yes—D
No—C