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The union between men and women, no matter who they come together, will have regrets. Some men, no matter who they marry, are not afraid to be careful with other women.
Whether it's film or real life, for some men, no matter how beautiful and talented the woman he marries, he may betray him. The biggest determinant is to see what kind of "third party" he encounters.
The phrase that flies don't sting seamless eggs is the same as the fact that no thief can't lure out ghosts!
Between the man who betrays the feelings and the third, there is a very tacit relationship! One wants to enter the non-right, the other can provide the non-right, and the "good thing" becomes a "good thing"!
Why are some non-marital men and women doomed to have no excessive behavior?
Men, with enough sense of responsibility, women enough self-love, two people will not do malicious and transgressive things.
Walking into real life, I believe that many people will know the truth that "one slap" cannot be made. Between Song Siming, who betrayed his wife in "Snail Dwelling", and seaweed, a third party, this is it.
Song Siming, stepping on his wife's shoulder in exchange for a noble life, but gave the seaweed a life of calling the wind and rain. What kind of "charm" does seaweed have, satisfying Song Siming's "careful thinking"?
In fact, women who are easy to be "third parties" have obvious characteristics themselves. In particular, women with these three characteristics are most likely to become the "third party" with a wife's husband:
1: Measure feelings with substance
The seaweed in "Snail Dwelling" looks like a little white rabbit who does not understand the world. This is also the main reason why her boyfriend loves her deeply.
However, because her sister bought a house and did not kidnap Xiaobei morally for successful seaweed, she thought that it was not worth it to choose to be with Xiaobei!
In the face of facts, it is enough to prove the simplicity of Xiaobei, and it has done the perfect cover for the materiality and vanity of seaweed.
Many people may think that Xiaobei is too poor and stingy to push seaweed into Song Siming's arms. In fact, the materiality and vanity of seaweed have long been hidden in the details of daily life.
Seaweed, do not seek progress, only want to enjoy life, dream of doing two breaks and five, monthly salary of more than 10,000.
Moreover, knowing the financial situation of his and her boyfriend Xiaobei, Seaweed is still standing in front of the window, staring at Häagen-Dazs, who is 25 yuan a ball, and his eyes are not turning.
He said "no" on his lips, but expressed what he wanted with practical actions.
Knowing that he does not earn much, Xiaobei is also tightly clothed, or he will discount some brands of clothes, and whether he needs to buy a big bag or a small package to go home...
Seaweed is a person who enjoys it from beginning to end, and the more such a person is, the easier it is to bend over backwards for money.
From the initial 20,000 pieces to solve the urgent need for seaweed (sister needs to buy a house) and a trial mobile phone, Song Siming saw what the biggest desire of seaweed was in his heart.
As a result, when the seaweed later opened his mouth to say 60,000, Song Siming was more certain of his "direction".
Sure enough, seaweed became its own bag. Seaweed is also proud to have entered the ranks of "third parties"!
Song Siming once said such a classic sentence: Problems that can be solved with money are not problems!
And seaweed is the "problem" that he can solve with money and make up for his regret for his first love Bai Yichun. If Seaweed doesn't love money and figures otherwise, then she won't become Song Siming's prey.
Seaweed loves money and Song Siming is just able to be generous, which is the best "management" of the betrayal relationship that each needs.
2: Knowing that men have a home, they do not hesitate to "self-dedication"
Some women are like this, obviously knowing that there are more men in the world, but they stare at others. At the same time, he also gave himself the so-called love and the name of "I don't care about fame".
In this regard, men will be deeply moved, either with a fluke mentality, or blatantly flaunting their charm, or desperately combining with a third party.
Will a woman who is a third party really love a man who is not single?
The seaweed in "Snail Dwelling" says that she loves Song very much. So, if Song Siming can't make the seaweed call the wind and rain, and she can't meet her material needs than Xiaobei, will she still love him? The answer, no!
Seaweed Knew that Song Siming had a wife and children, but she still had to interact with Song Siming, without any shame or moral heart.
This is not love, but a moral corruption that can be disregarded for selfishness.
After Song Siming's betrayal was fully known to Mrs. Song, Seaweed and Song Siming began a blatant life.
In the luxurious room that Song Siming gave to seaweed, the life of seaweed "pig" became the real realization of her former ideal life.
In Song Siming's view, seaweed needs its own protection. After all, seaweed broke up with her boyfriend because of herself, and because of herself, seaweed lost virgin blood...
In fact, all of seaweed's "self-giving" is a "lie." This is true of virgin blood, and it is also true of the break with the boyfriend! It's just that seaweed used the most advanced wrist, which made Song Siming feel a sense of guilt.
It's just a pity that in real life, too many men, like Song Siming, may not know how scheming women who dedicate themselves to them at the moment when they close their eyes. Thus using the appearance of "self-dedication" and not seeking "fame", it always affects their own heart that cannot extricate themselves and protect.
Between the betrayer and the third, there was never love. There are only two people of low moral character, in a state where their selfishness is satisfied, paying each other for pleasure!
3: Take the initiative to "find opportunities" to get closer, good at seduction
As the saying goes: good men, can't bear the female teasing!
That is to say, once a man's concentration is not strong enough, it is also very difficult to withstand the woman's initiative! Therefore, in the face of women's "rushing" approach, there are very few people who can resist or want to resist.
After all, who can not eat the meat that comes in a hurry?
In particular, when a woman who takes the initiative to approach and is good at seduction has what she wants, men will not restrain themselves!
Song Siming in "Snail Residence", from the first time he saw seaweed, he sublimated the regret in his heart for Bai Yichun again! The phrase "the future is immeasurable" contains Song Siming's incomparable lovesickness and regret for the late Bai Yichun.
Seaweed, although she is not deeply involved in the world, she deeply understands her "weight" in Song Siming's heart the moment she first met her 20,000 yuan needs.
If seaweed did not take the initiative to appear in front of Song Siming after holding Xiaobei's 20,000 pieces and the applicable mobile phone back to Song Siming, then she and Song Siming would never have a later story.
What's more, the re-contact with Song Siming after the "two" disconnections are all the initiative of seaweed.
For the first time, after returning 20,000 pieces and applying mobile phones, Seaweed took the initiative to come to the door in the name of work, and did not avoid private contact with Song Siming.
The second time, seaweed did not delete Song Siming's text message of "seaweed come back and don't get married" in time, and after completely ending her relationship with Xiaobei, she took the initiative to crouch next to Song Siming's car...
The two refusals to return the favor completely strengthened the foundation of his existence in Song Siming's life.
Song Siming, like other men, enjoys the sense of accomplishment of being actively approached and needed by the opposite sex, and prefers this kind of "welfare" posted.
In particular, when you feel that women are reserved and difficult to get, you receive a message from the woman's initiative, which is the moment when men are more proud.
Outside of marriage, there has never been true love.
Every woman who is a third party is not really a "fuel-saving lamp". Never define the "giving" of a third party in the name of "love".
Believe me, every woman who is a third party, most of them want to be satisfied in the most realistic way.
And these women, most of them use material to measure feelings, know that men have a home and have to jump up, and take the initiative to approach these three obvious characteristics without difficulties.
If you are a non-single man, don't think beautifully how attractive you are and favored by other women besides the person in front of you.
You don't have hobbies for the people in front of you, how can you love other women?
What's more, what is the true love of a non-single man and a third person who takes their own needs?
As a woman, no matter how old you are, you must have your own correct three-dimensional cognition. At least, when it comes to running your own life, you must be cautious and rational.
Third, if a woman touches this kind of thing, she must control herself in time. Otherwise, the results may be overwhelming.
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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