Author - Luo Hongchen
Original works, welcome to pay attention
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The little shell in the snail, the real name is "Bailey". It may be that the name is not very good, and it slowly changes from "Bailey" to "green".
His girlfriend Seaweed, stepping on two boats, is in love with him while she is unclear with the powerful middle-aged uncle Song Siming.
The important opportunity for seaweed to split legs is because of 60,000 yuan.
She was in a hurry to use the money, Xiao Bei had 60,000 yuan in her hand but did not want to borrow, but It was Song Siming, who did not have a deep friendship, who generously donated. Seaweed knew that it could not afford to pay back the 60,000 pieces, so it pushed the boat along the water, "human debt, meat to pay."
So seaweed changed its heart, is it to blame Xiaobei for not borrowing this money?
If couples borrow money between each other, will it necessarily hurt their feelings?
1, talk about money hurt feelings, talk about feelings hurt money?
Seaweed borrowed money, not for himself, but for his sister.
Sister Haiping to buy a house, the down payment is about 160,000, there is a lot of lack, she hopes that seaweed and Xiaobei can help, at least 20,000, not capped.
Seaweed feels that buying a house is a big deal, and her sister is so good to herself, and now she has difficulties and must help.
But seaweed himself only saved 8,000 yuan, fortunately, her boyfriend Xiaobei is a small expert in saving money and saving money, she hopes that Xiaobei will take out his 60,000 yuan and lend it to Haiping.
XiaoBei was reluctant. He saves money to save money, but he also wants to marry seaweed quickly and buy a house early. If you lend it out, Haiping will not be able to get it in a few years.
But the contradiction between the two did not break out at once.
Song Siming inadvertently learned that seaweed was worried about money, took the initiative to help, and borrowed 20,000.
XiaoBei is also very frustrated after the past, he loves seaweed, although he can't take out all, but he is willing to take out a third, so that seaweed will not be too sad, and he can also be at ease. Seaweed was very touched, and she used the money to return it to Song Siming.
Who knows that soon there will be a moth, and the brother-in-law actually borrowed 60,000 usurious loans to buy a house. Seaweed does not want to see her sister's family broken up and finds Xiaobei again.
This time Xiaobei refused, and the contradiction between the two broke out.
Seaweed seems well reasoned.
My sister's family is burning eyebrows, you don't even borrow? She's none other than my favorite sister! You say you love me, can you bear to watch my sister's family break up and see death and not save it?
Xiaobei's reasons are also very good.
He was reluctant to stake his future life and that of seaweed on the Haiping family.
Rescue the poor, what if Haiping encounters difficulties again in the future? Divorced again? Could he and Seaweed endlessly help Hai Ping's family?
After all, a person's life should be mainly responsible for himself.
2, in the face of money, human nature is always exposed
The contradiction between seaweed and shellfish is ostensibly due to the difference in borrowing money, but the essence is that the three views are different.
In my opinion, Xiaobei is pragmatic, has a plan, a principle, a bottom line, and is not lacking in humanity, quite real, reliable a young man.
Although seaweed pays attention to family affection, it is a moral kidnapping of Xiaobei "in the name of love".
She herself had no problem helping her sister, but there was no reason to ask her boyfriend to empty all the family funds to help her sister - this was the same as Song Siming's later taking the original 500 to seaweed, which made others feel indignant.
Seaweed always said, you love me, you should help me without hesitation. But does she love Xiaobei, and has she ever put herself in Xiaobei's shoes?
In the face of money, human nature is always exposed.
Seaweed's commitment to Song Siming seems to be for the sake of family affection, but in the end it is only her own choice.
Seeing her sister's family jumping all day because of real life, her mind had wandered, just at this time she met the powerful Song Siming.
Even if she doesn't borrow money for her sister, sooner or later she will leave Xiaobei and catch up with a rich man -- helping her sister is just a reason to whitewash herself and alleviate guilt.
People go up and water flows low. It is not a sin to catch a rich man, but it is not necessary to make a leg splitter and a husband with a wife so tall.
In the original work, when Seaweed quarreled with Xiaobei because of borrowing money, he said: "You don't borrow tens of thousands of yuan." ”
When he turned to look for Song Siming, he said, "I need a sum of money, a lot of money." ”
Can't help but laugh. She also knew that 60,000 at that time was not a small amount.
Alas, man, it is always easy to play tricks in front of those who love themselves.
What is even more ironic is that the brother-in-law Su Chun enjoys the various conveniences brought by seaweed, but he does not appreciate it, and finally tries to draw a line with seaweed, and sighs: "Seaweed, you are trapping me in unkindness and injustice." ”
Can't help but huh.
3, couples borrow money, will affect the feelings
Borrowing money between couples is originally a delicate topic, borrowing well to promote feelings, borrowing badly hurting feelings and hurting money.
Netizens' experiences about borrowing money are also various:
"Last year, my father had a cerebral hemorrhage, emergency surgery, and my poor boyfriend, who was in college, also silently raised 20,000 yuan to take it. At that moment, I had already decided in my heart to marry him. ”
"My girlfriend often borrows money from me and doesn't pay it back, if she doesn't borrow it, she will lose her temper and say that I slammed the door and didn't love her, which is really annoying and doesn't know what to do."
"The boyfriend did business and asked me to borrow almost 150,000, each time only borrowed and did not pay back, only once quarreled I said I want to break up, he paid back 20,000." Tonight I was asked to borrow it again! Now he asked me to make a list and pay it back in installments. It is estimated that the relationship has also come to an end, although I have also met both parents, and his family also likes me. ”
It is inevitable that money is involved between couples, after all, spending money for each other is also a way to express love.
But it's one thing to be willing to give you flowers, it's another thing for you to open your mouth to borrow them.
I think that couples borrowing money between them should grasp the following points.
1, save the emergency does not save the poor.
2, the feelings are not deep, the contact time is short, it is best not to borrow money.
3, should not borrow money often.
4, borrowed to repay in time.
5, do not exceed the other party's ability to bear.
No matter how good the feelings are, they can't stand the lasting consumption, after all, no one is a cash machine.
Healthy, dignified love must be based on self-love and self-improvement, do you think?
I am Luo Hongchen, welcome to pay attention!