Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
Love is like sunshine, it will definitely make you feel warm, like rain and dew, and can nourish your heart.
If a man really loves you, it will definitely make you feel the taste of happiness.
Moreover, no matter how boring life is, he will manage the marriage with his heart, so that his wife feels taken care of, cared for, and treated affectionately.
If a man really feels sorry for his wife, he will not do the following.
02. I won't be a shopkeeper, and I will work hard to take care of things at home
I have a cousin who lives out of town. He has been the treasure of the family since he was a child and grew up in pampering.
Once, I went on a business trip to his city, so I stopped by to see him. When I went to his house, I found that my brother was really different after he got married.
He also became proficient in housework and learned to cook.
I said, it's troublesome to cook, invite them to dinner. But he had to eat at home, so I could try his handiwork.
It can be seen that he is in a hurry, and while cooking, he follows the recipe on his phone, but the food is really delicious.
He said that it is not easy for everyone to go to work now, and they must be diligent and thrifty. However, I also saw that he really loved his wife, and he was working hard to bear the affairs of the family.
If a man feels sorry for his wife, he will cherish his family and his current life.
He will work hard to learn how to be a good husband and grow up quickly. I hope to create a good family atmosphere so that my wife can be happy.
Romain Rolland said: "In marriage, everyone has to pay the price, and at the same time have to take something back, this is the law of supply and demand. ”
No matter what problems he encounters in the family, he will not run away from them. Be willing to take on more responsibilities and strive to be a good husband.
In a family, the more diligent the man who does all the housework, the more he loves his wife.
03. I will not ignore the children and take on the responsibilities of a father
Xia Junshan in "Little Shede" is busy with work, but he has never shirked the responsibility of raising children.
As long as he has free time, he will take his children to the playground to play and read books.
The child attends the tutorial class, and he also follows the whole process. Even if he was so tired that he fell asleep outside the tutorial class, he didn't complain.
When I get up in the morning, I help the children to dress first, and at night I tell stories and put the children to sleep, and I never feel that all these tasks should be the wife's.
He is a good father who cares about his children's physical and mental health, and breaks his heart for his children's education.
He felt that if he gave more and took on more responsibility for taking care of the children, his wife would be more relaxed.
He loves his children and is a sign of empathy for his wife.
A man who really loves his wife will never leave her children to take care of alone.
Schopenhauer said: "To marry is to divide the rights and interests of the individual equally, to assume double obligations." ”
In life, he never feels that raising children is a very troublesome thing, but will cherish the time he spends with children.
He is responsible and responsible, and hopes that his home can be warmer and more harmonious, and he hopes that his wife can worry less and express love with practical actions.
04. I will not disrespect my wife, and I will put my wife first in everything
A man who truly loves his wife will respect his wife and put his wife first in everything.
Shakespeare said, "The joy of marriage is like a refined rose, the fragrance of which remains." ”
At home, he will try to regulate the family atmosphere and care about his wife's emotions.
Try to minimize the number of business trips, and if you can't go home after overtime, you will tell your wife to eat well and not wait for him.
Moreover, he will spend more time with his family and likes the way everyone sits around for a reunion.
Men are willing to put all the money they earn into the hands of women, and no matter how difficult life is, they will not put too much pressure on their wives.
A man really feels sorry for his wife, he will keep his heart, take care of his wife's feelings, and take care of his family.
He remembered his wife's preferences and saw her needs. In everything, I will take into account my wife's feelings and give more protection and love.
He can understand your hard work and know that it is not easy for you.
With him, no matter how many springs, autumns, winters and summers have passed, I will not feel much pressure in life, nor will I feel that I am bound and hurt.
05. Summary
A man, if he feels sorry for his wife, he can see it at a glance.
A man who truly cherishes his wife is reluctant to quarrel with his wife.
He will handle family relationships well and learn to do all kinds of household chores. He is proficient in taking care of children and does not say "no" and does not leave anything alone.
The woman could see his progress and how much effort and sweat he had put into this family.
A man loves his wife, and he will work hard to run the family, work hard to support a family, and give his wife the most down-to-earth happiness.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.