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Some people say that the person who really loves you is only afraid of giving you not enough, and the person who does not love you is afraid that you will take advantage of him.
If you think about it, people who truly love you will always consider your feelings, care about your thoughts, will put you in their hearts, and think about everything for you.
People who don't love you, not only won't pay for you, but will also think of hitting you and blaming you, in their eyes, seeing only your shortcomings and shortcomings, without any shining points.
Many times, whether a person loves you or not, the feelings in your heart are the clearest.
To love you is to give, and not to love you is to calculate everywhere.
For men, if he gives you all the following three things, it can be seen that he has moved his affection for you. If you don't occupy the same thing, what he says about loving you may not be true love.
One: a sense of security
The sense of security that women want is actually not complicated, just a man's firmness.
Liang Zhengxian in the TV series "Thirty Only" met Wang Manni on a cruise ship trip, and she looked very beautiful, so she immediately attracted Liang Zhengxian's attention.
The night before the trip ended, Liang Zhengxian went to look for Wang Manni but was blocked out. At that moment, Liang Zhengxian once again had a strong desire to conquer her, and after separating, he also deliberately found a place where Wang Manni worked.
Later, they formally engaged.
When they were together, Liang Zhengxian was very generous to Wang Manni, directly gave her an accessory card, no matter how Wang Manni spent, but she was a very strong woman and did not accept Too much of Liang Zhengxian's giving.
Liang Zhengxian will take her to buy her favorite high heels, expensive luxury goods, clothing, etc., and will also take Wang Manni to various high-end social places.
When she was with him, Wang Manni felt very happy. However, Leung Lives in Hong Kong, and Wang Manni hopes to bring each other closer, so she and the company applied to work at the headquarters in Hong Kong.
But Liang Zhengxian did not agree, and Wang Manni was disappointed.
The sense of security she wanted, Liang Zhengxian was not willing to give at all. If he really loved her, he wouldn't refuse her to work in Hong Kong, and Wang Manni worked so hard to go to the city where he lived, but Leung Cheng-yin only treated her as a burden.
No matter how good a man is to you, not taking the initiative to give you a sense of security, in fact, is not loving you, or wake up early.
Two: Respect
Men who truly love you will definitely respect you and will definitely put you in the same position as themselves, rather than condescending to look down on you.
Zhu Man met a very domineering boyfriend, his name was Zhou Yang.
When Zhou Yang was pursuing her, he showed a very gentlemanly appearance and was very concerned about Zhu Man. However, after the exchange, Zhou Yang revealed his true personality.
Usually, she did not allow Zhu Man to wear clothes he did not like, and even once, Zhu Man and his colleagues went together to perm curly hair, and as a result, after returning home, Zhou Yang kept scolding her and verbally suppressed her new style to look very old-fashioned.
In this relationship, Zhu Man became more and more unconfident.
She has her own ideals and ambitions for her career, hoping to seize good opportunities, but her boyfriend always forces her to change to a lighter job, don't always work overtime.
When she did not agree, Zhou Yang would threaten her with a breakup.
Zhu Man has compromised many times, and although her boyfriend always says that he loves her very much, he cares very much about her before he makes so many requests. But Zhu Man found that he was not happy, and all that her boyfriend did was just to control her, not love at all.
Seeing this clearly, Zhu Man no longer wronged himself and directly chose to break up.
No matter how good a man is to you and cares about you, when he doesn't treat you as an independent individual and doesn't let you choose freely, it means that he doesn't love you.
Most of these men are selfish, they usually only love themselves and leave early so they don't get hurt.
Three: the future
A man who treats you as true love, hasn't thought about being apart from the moment he was with you. He genuinely wants to marry you, not just to play tricks with you.
Chen Ke in "Beijing Women's Illustrated Book" met a boyfriend with good conditions at work, his name is Yu Yang.
The two people have been in love for three years, she is very serious about managing each other's feelings, seeing that Yu Yang is working very hard, she also forced herself to continue to run forward.
In order to further his relationship with him, Chen Ke specially arranged for his mother to travel to Beijing, hoping to let the other party meet his parents.
But Yu Yang deliberately used business trips as an excuse and was reluctant to meet her family.
When the two people sat down to communicate, Yu Yang said that he was very afraid of marriage, and his heart was very afraid, he felt that the relationship between them was very stable and did not need the marriage certificate.
Chen Ke felt very ridiculous, if they did not plan to get married, why should they be together, but Yu Yang said: "Are you with me just to get married?" ”
At that moment, Chen Ke knew that her boyfriend did not love herself at all, and she simply turned and left.
Men who are unwilling to take responsibility always have many high-sounding reasons to cover up, don't be naïve to believe, otherwise the person who will be hurt in the end is still yourself.
A man who truly loves you will give you a sense of security, respect and a future, and if you have not felt or had any of these, then you may wish to think carefully about whether he is the right person.
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