You look at the scenery on the bridge, and the people who watch the scenery look at you on the bridge.
We all hope that the people we marry are capable and rich, after all, everyone wants their lives to be better and have a higher quality of life.
It's just that when we ask others to have money, men with such conditions are also asking us.
Some men who meet the material standards will naturally match women who meet their own mate selection criteria on other conditions, and after finding them, the feelings paid for this will also be divided into whims or weighing the pros and cons.
It can be seen that rich men are definitely not so-so when it comes to marriage.
In a relationship between the sexes, how to see through a rich man, is he really trying to marry you?
Will invest in you in what is scarce
Liang Zhengxian in the TV series "Thirty Only" is a very rich man, when he fell in love with Wang Manni, tens of thousands of yuan of luxury goods were given to each other like flowing water, and hundreds of thousands of luxury cars were also said to be sent.
Liang Zhengxian is very willing to spend money for Wang Manni, not all of them are "men who spend money for you do not necessarily love you, but men who do not spend money on you must not love you."
As a result, Wang Manni felt that she had met Prince Charming, after all, Liang Zhengxian had spent so much money on her.
As a result, Liang Zhengxian has a fiancée, and when his fiancée appeared in front of Wang Manni, she realized that she had become a third party without her knowledge, and her love with Liang Zhengxian was just a dream.
Money can indeed be measured against a relationship, but we also need to see under what circumstances the money is paid.
A man with a lot of money to give you ten thousand yuan, and a person who has only a hundred pieces but is willing to give you ninety-nine pieces, these two kinds of giving are not the same concept.
Money is not a rare object for those who have money, and their material efforts cannot prove that the man's love value is not worth scrutinizing.
Christopher Meng wrote in the book Intimate Relationships: "What we need is a partner who encourages us to go beyond ourselves, and what we seek is a relationship that inspires meaning and direction in life and helps us when we are tested. ”
The components of the soul relationship are the scarce substances, and for the rich man, their scarce substances are character, morality, responsibility, and responsibility.
If a rich man is willing to give you these things, it means that he wants to marry you.
It will give you a sense of security and will carefully plan your future
Keigo Higashino wrote such a sentence in "Shisheng": "I am sure that the person I like can live well, even in the face of death, it is like seeing the future, the future is not only tomorrow, the future can be in people's hearts, as long as there is a future in their hearts, people can be happy."
That is, a certain thing will make us feel safe, and a certain thing will give us the motivation and confidence to continue.
When the rich man is really emotional, he is eager to tell the world that this woman is his own.
Love is full of possessiveness, and men's love is even more stingy, and once it is determined, it is necessary to let others know that the person they love has "famous flowers and masters".
Of course, they also give their loved ones a sense of security.
They will carefully plan for a future that belongs to two people;
They will take their lovers to meet their parents and friends, and in this way let each other integrate into their lives;
They will keep their distance from the opposite sex, and they know the feeling of gain and loss, so they empathize with the sense of security that their lover wants.
Love is not so complicated, it is determined to want to give each other forever.
Everyone's way of dealing with feelings will be different, but it is the same, even if it is a rich man who deals with feelings.
Will give you a commitment about marriage
Or take Liang Zhengxian in the TV series "Thirty Only" as an example.
When Wang Manni proposed to get married, Liang Zhengxian directly said that he was unmarried, in fact, from this point, it can be seen that the other party does not love Wang Manni so much, and does not want to marry Wang Manni.
There is no such thing as unmarriedism in this world, but I have not met the person who particularly wants to marry, so I use unmarriedism as an excuse.
Before we do something, we set a goal and use it as a force for action.
And if a man wants to marry a woman, he will give the other party a promise about marriage when the love is deep, so as to show his heart.
Suppose a man never said anything about marriage, and even used the excuse of "unmarriedism" and "I'm under a lot of pressure and have no intention of getting married" as an excuse.
Needless to say, he just doesn't want to marry you and doesn't love you that much.
As there is a saying in the variety show "My Girl": "I think that if a man marries you, it is a commitment to your love, and if he does not even marry you, it is not loving you." ”