"Thirty Only": Lin has useful "first time" to confuse Xu Huanshan, it is the biggest evil lin in human nature that has a person who loves, not Xu Huanshan, but herself. In fact, Lin has a right

"Thirty Only": Lin You useful "first time" to confuse Xu Huanshan, is the greatest evil of human nature

Lin Youyou loves a person, not Xu Huanshan, but herself. In fact, Lin Youyou's "first" coercion of Xu Huanshan is the greatest sin in human nature. For Lin Youyou, she always chose the wrong person. Whether that person is Xu Huanshan or not, when she really goes back to the past for this so-called "true love", it is when she really falls into the trap. Whether she loved Xu Huanshan or not, the final result would not be as good as she imagined. When she began to know people cryptically and put half of her life on Xu Huanshan, she was already doomed to a tragic end in the future. In fact, sometimes it is not necessarily the hunter who sets the net; usually, the person who is most likely to restrain himself is himself. The conspiracy of these three men has always been unfair. In Xu Huanshan's view, Lin Youyou's status has always been inferior to that of the Gu family. Whether in work or life, Gu Jia is the most necessary existence in Xu Huanshan's life, and Xu Huanshan realizes this.

After weighing the pros and cons of men, he has been holding on with Lin and has been asking Gu Jia for forgiveness - if Gu Jia is really like Lin Youyou, for Xu Huanshan, his marriage with her has long been over. Sometimes, value is a person's real "talisman" in fact, most of the time, it is actually a bystander. One thing is clear to anyone who looks at it coldly: some of Jeremy Lin's appearances are just a microcosm of Xu Huanshan's life, but it won't last forever. Even if he lost the Gu family, this was also dispensable, but if he lost the Gu family, it would be a huge loss that Xu Huanshan could not make up. In fact, Lin You gave his feelings to Xu Huanshan and expected to get something in return from such a person, which has always been the most wrong decision. The story of three people is always unfair. Gu Jia and Lin Youyou could not see the truth at the moment when Xu Huanshan caused harm: Xu Huanshan's favorite was always himself. Otherwise, such a person would not have done anything wrong. The first reaction is to throw away the jar and worry about how to face the facts in the end, what to do in the future, and even how to live after losing the person. In fact, a truly mature adult should learn to take responsibility for his actions. Gu Jia decides to wake up after the grief is over; but Lin Youyou has been addicted to imaginary fantasies about each other and herself. If you think about it, in fact, everything is self-deception. The saddest man is always himself. In fact, what Xu Huanshan has been struggling with is not that he feels sorry for Lin Youyou, or that he betrays the Gu family, but that he has been "feeling sorry for himself" For Xu Huanshan, it is not because he can't see clearly, but because he sees too clearly, so he is very indulgent. Whether it was his lover Lin Youyou or his wife Gu Jia, he never really kept his bottom line. Because it's clear that someone is telling him behind his back.

Therefore, Xu Huanshan has always been in such a contradictory state: for Lin Youyou, he can show him his true inner self and unlimited masculine charm; but for the Gu family, he correspondingly shows the state of a good person and expresses his loyalty. But in fact, Xu Huanshan's most unfaithful person was himself. In fact, people always have two "selves" but whether they present their true selves or false selves ultimately depends on the person himself. However, Xu Huanshan was trapped in it and could not extricate himself. In front of Lin Youyou, he felt that he could do whatever he wanted and indulge himself. In front of Gu Jia, he must be a "good boy" and return to the state of a good man. In fact, everything is self-coercion. In fact, if Xu Huanshan could really see himself, he would not have made such a confusing decision. What really can't be changed is himself, which is why he is always so confused and reckless. Such a person simply does not deserve it. Whether it was for the two women he hurt, or for himself, he couldn't match his words with deeds and was always irresponsible.

The coercion of the "first" is the greatest evil. In fact, when Lin Youyou gave her self-righteous love to Xu Huanshan, she was doomed to regret it. When she says "this is my first time", failure is already decided. The stupidest way for a woman to keep a man is to rely on her own body. The truth has always been: what she doesn't get is always in chaos, what she likes is safe, and what she gets will never be cherished. Lin Youyou chose to use his "true feelings" to keep Xu Huanshan. This is naïve. Even if the other party is a person who will be touched by true feelings and win things by improper means, it is doomed not to last long. Even though she had been exchanging her interest and youth for Xu Huanshan's pity for her, she had never grasped the core.

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