Last night, my cousin called me and said that the girl's family asked him to get engaged first and then take the girl with him to Chengdu, but he hadn't thought about it yet! I was almost speechless and didn't know how to answer him anymore!
My cousin is 46 years old this year, 1 meter 7 thin hunan Hanzi, Sichuan University graduate school graduate, now stay in the school, the school has a single apartment, he bought a small commercial house in Chengdu, people are very filial piety, in our hometown also built a small three-bedroom house for parents to pension, it is reasonable to say that the personal conditions are not bad, but he is still unmarried, usually every winter and summer vacation come back a trip, once he comes back home to arrange a blind date, blind date has almost become a must-have program when he returns, but every blind date, Leave contact information with each other or spend some time together and then there will be no problem! Friends and family gradually lost patience and interest in his marriage. Because in the eyes of our others, the object of each introduction is still very good, but my cousin does not seem to be very attentive to marriage, his personality is more connotative, he does not like to talk and express, in the words of our hometown, it is to read too much, and everything must be studied and then expressed. In the past, every time he went on a blind date, we asked him what impression he had of the other person, and his answer was average, ok, and then there was no follow-up. This New Year's back, my cousin-in-law introduced his relative's daughter to him, this girl graduated from college to take the undergraduate examination, the personal conditions are also good, in fact, as early as 7 years ago they both kissed each other, when they did not look at each other, she is four years younger than my cousin, this year is also 41, the eldest girl is not married, of course, the family is also anxious, so the families of both sides are looking forward to the success of this blind date, the blind date is arranged on the second day of the New Year, according to our side of the custom is that my cousin went to the woman's home, Because the woman's family and my cousin-in-law are relatives and know each other's roots, we learned from the cousin's mouth that as long as my cousin nodded and agreed to this family affair, everything would be OK on the girl's side! So the dozens of people in our big family who cared about my cousin's marriage were rubbing their hands one by one, excited, even happier than their own marriage! On the day of Chinese New Year's Eve, they gathered together to plan and rehearse this blind date show over and over again, and the morale of the crowd was extremely high, just waiting for the two protagonists to play. I heard that the relatives on the girl's side are also one by one happily pushing away the fact that they are going to visit relatives and friends in the New Year, which is specially used to receive this blind date, which can be said to be an unprecedented blind date ceremony, which is simply inspiring!
At 12 o'clock on the second day of the Chinese New Year, my cousin brought some blind dates from the girl's side to the house, my uncle's family was hot to receive, my brother's son was a hotel cook, personally made three tables of good dishes to entertain guests, according to our pre-rehearsal plan, we can drink on our side to take turns to toast the girls who drive over, the only purpose is to leave them here for the night, and then excuse that the bed is not enough to let the girl and my cousin cave today. Along with the girl came her mother, her brother and her sister and brother-in-law and the matchmaker on the girl's side, we toasted one by one, discussed the marriage while drinking and dishes, after three rounds of drinking, the people on the side were very happy and satisfied, and the first step was completed! After the banquet, the entertainment program is on the field, the card mahjong is on the same page, several rounds of cards are down, the relationship has been quite harmonious, the matchmaker said that today's atmosphere is so good that it "becomes a thing", "success" is the vernacular of our side, which means that if both men and women are satisfied, the man will wrap a red envelope for the woman's side to temporarily set such a family affair, and then hold the engagement ceremony on the chosen day. At the crucial moment, it is time for the protagonist to take a stand! A few of our brothers called my cousin outside the house to ask for his opinion, he swallowed and vomited for half a day, hesitated, indecisive, said that the girl has a very strong personality, we asked what the situation was, he said last night in her house to play cards, the girl gave him a staff officer, teaching him to play cards is very domineering, can not be denied, we said in unison that you can not play cards, she taught you to play cards as it should be, and you are introverted, do not love to express, there is a strong wife for the future family is a good thing, tongue-in-cheek to him a big channel, He just couldn't make up his mind, he killed us all, and later, I said to him, Brother Bing, you just go back, so many years, you have repeatedly hesitated and don't know how many good marriages you missed, this girl you have a good impression of her, and you also know the roots, the most important thing is that we all think she is a good match for you. After our soft and hard treatment, my cousin was finally driven to the shelves by us, "became a thing", and the dust temporarily fell to the ground. Everyone rejoices! The girl is ready to go home, originally our plan was to keep them here to live, but the woman invited my cousin to live in their house, because my uncle and aunt are almost eighty years old, the meal is relatively rough, we are also worried about leaving them here to entertain, let my cousin go over there to get along is also very good, when my uncle gave my cousin cleaning and brushing supplies, the girl said on the side, no need to bring, our family is ready, he wears size cloth shoes, we all feel that this girl is good, very thoughtful and intimate, Happy for my cousin.
The excitement of the day continued into the evening, and we were all wondering if the cousins would sleep together tonight.
On the third day of the Chinese New Year, according to the usual custom, our brothers and brothers are going to visit the home of several aunts and uncles, we can't wait to call our cousin, the most important thing is to find out where he slept last night, he did not disclose the news, and then said that he would not come back to Changsha today, we laughed at him on the phone, and then he hung up the phone.
Space is limited, to be continued!
