Speaking of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is recognized that the problem of the ages, these two strange women have to be entangled because of a man, or mutual respect and love, or each other

Why should a woman be embarrassed by the relationship between a woman's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Speaking of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is recognized that the problem of eternity, these two strange women have to be entangled because of a man, or respect and love each other, or love each other.

        When she got married, she carefully married into her husband's family with her mother's instructions. I thought that as long as I talked less and did more, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law would not be a problem, but I did not expect that soon after I got married, my mother-in-law gave me a dismount. Shortly after the marriage, we ate together for the first time as a whole, and everyone had chopsticks in front of us, but I didn't think much about it, so I immediately went to the kitchen to get it, and when I came back, I heard my mother-in-law whisper to them: "I deliberately took less, that is, let her be diligent at home in the future." What are you doing here?" said the husband disapprovingly. If you marry a daughter-in-law and forget your mother, who pulled you up with a handful of and a handful of pee? Gotta get, I don't argue with you, don't do this in the future, okay? "Then look at your performance!" Hearing this, my tears were already swirling in my eyes, I dried my tears, calmed down, bowed my head and walked in. Everyone looked at each other, the meal was quite awkward, and I was even more like chewing wax.

        When I got back to our little house, my husband took my hand and said, "Did I hear everything my mother said?" "I nodded." My mother is a knife mouth tofu heart, slowly you will know, and then there I am, you don't have to worry. I nodded deeply, and the tears couldn't stop flowing, and there were both grievances and feelings inside. My husband's life in the wind and waves is still calm, but soon after marriage, my husband's unit is going to work in other places, and I don't want to think about tea for a few days, except for his reluctance to face my mother-in-law alone. (Although we don't live together, but three meals a day must go to my mother-in-law's house to eat) I really don't like to go, although my cooking is not delicious, but it is better than suppressing the mood to eat. My husband and I mentioned my idea, and he agreed, but my mother-in-law said, "I got up early in the morning to cook for you, and you are not happy?" You see who serves children like me. I'll just put the words here, I must come back to eat, unless I am gone, and you two will separate again! "Seeing my mother-in-law's resolute attitude, I don't want to argue with her, after all, I just got married, and my husband is going to go far away."

      The first night of the husband's business trip, the mother-in-law had to accompany me, I was a hundred unwilling and helpless, shortly after she came, the husband called, confessed some things afterwards to start greasy and crooked, I said shyly "Mom is here, you and Mom say two words." "No need, just say hello for me" The phone hung up quickly, and I was dumbfounded when I saw the mother-in-law who heard the sound, how can I say this?" Mom, Manager Xiao Wang is looking for him, and he will call you next time. I hastened to make up a lie. Only to see the mother-in-law's face change from red to white, the eyes of the boss, after a while the corners of the mouth began to twitch, and then the tears came out with a wailing sound. I really can't think of any words to describe my surprise, I understand that she wants to hear her son's voice, but I didn't expect her to cry so loudly, and it is not too much to describe it as earth-shattering. I've never seen this kind of crying, and timidly asked, "Mom, are you okay?" The mother-in-law glared at me viciously, did not reply to me, and continued to cry loudly, and her voice became louder and louder, as if she was complaining that because of my arrival, his son did not talk to her on the phone. I was really panicked, my hands were hanging in the air, I didn't know where to put it, and finally I could only watch her cry silently for almost half an hour, seeing that her crying was small, before I dared to go forward and pat her back and say: "Mom, don't be sad, tomorrow Xiao Wang will definitely call you early in the morning, wash and sleep quickly" The mother-in-law bowed her head and did not say a word, stood up and went back to her house. I let out a long sigh.

There are too many such unexpected things in the back, because of a little thing, even a look at her eyes she feels that she is not sitting on the ground and crying, or where you go, where she goes with you, pointing at you and scolding, and once even hit her head against the wall. At first, I carefully apologized and coaxed her, but she became more and more rampant. I'm also on fire, and I haven't done anything wrong, just because she's not happy, am I going to go down three or four? Later, I didn't feel sorry for her anymore, I wasn't afraid of her, I would talk to her a few times, she cried and cried, I just watched from the side, she was tired of crying, she was tired, and she even knew how to get up and leave. Through these observations, I found that she sometimes just looked for stubble to attract the attention of her favorite people, her father-in-law and son, afraid that the two people she loved the most would not listen to her. As long as the father-in-law waited for the family to say a few words for me, she was particularly fierce, and finally the father-in-law did not bother to take care of it, she immediately stopped, immediately followed the father-in-law out, and then went to interfere with the father-in-law. Later, I slowly understood: the mother-in-law has a strong desire for control, she wants everyone to listen to her, as small as what to eat and wear, as big as employment and work, she has to manage, so the father-in-law is annoyed with her, do not pay attention to her, she has to find something to make a fuss, so the father-in-law is afraid of her, so they often quarrel, the relationship is more and more troublesome. Later, she turned her attention to her son, hoping that his son would listen to him, who knew that his son would not listen to her when he married his daughter-in-law, so she sent her resentment to me. She felt that sovereignty was going to be taken away by me, so the more she made trouble, the more out of line, that is, to defend sovereignty.

I really pity her a little, is the "sovereignty" exchanged for ugly nonsense worth it? Home and everything is happy, home is the harbor of love, everyone should respect and love each other, there are problems to solve the problem, one cry, two troubles and three hangings can not solve the problem, nor can it be exchanged for the respect of the family.

When she was in a good mood, I tried to enlighten her by knocking on the side, and she would sometimes listen, but in the end she would always add: "I just have a bad temper, and I forget it when I say it." Later, it was time to make trouble or make trouble, but not only against me, sometimes it was the father-in-law, sometimes it was the husband, and we were all speechless. My father-in-law chose to leave early and return late, and I tried to meet her as little as possible.

Hang her for a long time, she called me pitifully, I was helpless, I still want to live with my husband, and then the relationship with her is lukewarm, she said two words, I don't like to listen to me to leave, I didn't expect that the number of times she made trouble behind her was even less. So I want to say why women are embarrassed by women, tearing their faces before bowing their heads to remedy what is the meaning, mutual respect and mutual love is not good?