I am a male obstetrician and gynecologist, and the first day I chose this department, I lost my girlfriend Xiaoan. Xiao Ann said that I was disgusting and humiliated, and the female patients who came to see me, their eyes

I am a male obstetrician and gynecologist, and the first day I chose this department, I lost my girlfriend Xiaoan. Xiao An said that I was disgusting and humiliated, and the female patients who came to see me were also full of disgust and disgust in their eyes. Later, my parents did not understand me, and my father was angry with me to change departments, but I resolutely disagreed, and what I said made him stunned!

My name is Zhang Lin, 33 years old this year, I was born in the countryside, the family conditions are very poor, so poor that my mother can not even afford to go to the hospital when I was born. Later, my mother gave birth to me at home and called a midwife in our village to deliver the baby. According to my mother, she almost had a difficult birth when she gave birth to me, and walked away at the ghost door once.

Even though I almost lost my mother's life, my parents treated me well. Over the years, they did their best to nurture me to go to college. And I didn't live up to their expectations and was admitted to a medical university.

After graduation, I dreamed of being a life-saving doctor, but within a few days of my arrival, I was called to the office by the dean. The dean said: "Our hospital now lacks male gynecologists, because many surgeries take a long time, and female doctors are often physically weak, and I want to train you as a successor." ”

After work that day, I excitedly called my girlfriend, I said: "Baby, tell you a good news, the dean asked me to be a gynecological doctor, said to give me a salary increase, and later train me to be an attending doctor, so that my income will be high, and I can buy you the bag you like in the future." ”

Xiao An frowned, "Didn't you say you were a surgeon?" How to choose the obstetrics and gynecology department, can you change back? ”

I said, "I've promised the dean, this can't be a joke, and the dean promised to cultivate me with all his might, I think it's very good!" ”

Xiao An said: "If you work as a gynecologist, we will break up!" ”

"Why?" Gynecologists are also doctors, and it is better to operate on them than for male doctors. I said incomprehensibly

"Even if I love you again, I can't accept my man looking at other women every day, which makes me sick when I think about it, if I touch other men every day, do you mind?" Do you like to look at women's bodies so much? Xiao Fang said coldly

After saying that, my girlfriend blocked me, and after three years of feelings, just because I was a gynecologist, she left me. I met her in college, and later I knew and fell in love, but she denied everything I had done for her because of the profession I chose, and I was depressed for a long time, but fortunately I insisted on taking the path I chose.

Seeing my girlfriend's reaction, I was even more afraid to tell my parents the news that I had become a gynecologist. Because they live in the countryside and have more traditional ideas, if they know that I am messing around with women all day long to see women, they will definitely feel that I am humiliated. So I only dared to tell them that I was a doctor in a hospital in the city, not which department I was in.

But there is no impermeable wall, my parents know that I am a gynecologist, very opposed to my work, they immediately called me to persuade me to change positions, but from childhood to listen to their words I chose to defy them.

My father never scolded me, but that day he angrily lectured me on the phone: "You look at a woman's body every day, aren't you ashamed?" We have spent so much effort cultivating you, thinking that you can honor your ancestors, but what have you done? Are you going to disgrace our ancestors? What's the difference between you and a midwife, do you need to read books for so many years? ”

I was originally wronged by being broken up by my girlfriend, and when I heard my father's series of questions, I was stubborn and said, "Do you remember when my mother gave birth to me?" The midwife will only deliver babies, but she may be helpless when she encounters a woman who has difficulty giving birth. And I am a doctor who encounters difficulties in saving people, and I can give them hope when I encounter a baby who can't have a baby.

I am receiving a patient, but often two or more patients can be sent away, compared with helping couples who cannot give birth and delivering babies, what other department can give people a stronger sense of professional honor? I think this is to save lives and help the injured, it is a thing to win glory for my ancestors. ””

The father listened to me and was silent, and half a day later he said: "I'm sorry son, just now it was Dad who was not good, he was prejudiced against you, he didn't ask your thoughts, since you decided to do this, then you should do a good job, give me something famous, Dad now supports you, saying that I will beat who I dare to talk nonsense!" ”

After receiving my father's approval, I was very pleased and redoubled my work. Just doing this job really has to accept a lot of incomprehension! You're right to say I'm sticking, and hopefully give me a little encouragement. (Netizen sharing)

What the author says:

I understand you! Once I was also a member of the medical staff, from entering the medical school, we received the education is only patients in the eyes and no gender racial identity, etc., in our eyes are patients, are organs, there is no gender, there will be no behavior and thoughts for patients that should not have!

Many of us are disgusted with male gynecologists because we don't know that there is such a big knowledge in it, and male doctors are indeed physically better and can work continuously for a longer period of time.

Choose your own path and go on bravely, you will be a good doctor. Successful people have been misunderstood by others because they have taken an unusual path. No one can succeed casually, only persistence.