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My name is Shi Ting, I am 34 years old and unmarried.
Maybe others will think that I am not married at this age, that is, a proper older leftover woman.
But I don't think so, I'd rather be single with quality than get married to a low standard.
I hope that marriage will bring about a sincere union of two people and go hand in hand for a lifetime.
Instead of getting married, it will be helpless to sigh in the future and say "what does marriage bring to women".
Moreover, my own conditions are better than many people, I work in foreign companies, nearly 10,000 per month, in this second-tier city, has surpassed many people.
I've always been very focused on maintenance, and I've spent a lot of money on my face and body, so a lot of people say I don't look 25 or 6 years old.
Simply put, I'm a quality single beauty.
02
My external conditions are really good, I have not been worried about marrying out, and the range of choices I can choose is also very wide.
However, in the past two years, my parents have become more and more urgent, and many friends around me even have children, and I have slowly had the idea of getting married and stable.
But the suitors around me are not as good as one, and the people who used to pursue me were either handsome or arrogant, but now many of them can't even meet my minimum mate selection standards.
So in order to expand my social circle, I also joined the blind date team.
Some of the blind dates are introduced by relatives, some are recommended by the marriage agency, and some of them chat on mobile phones have been vetoed by me.
There are not many people who can make an appointment to meet, even if they make an appointment to meet, after contact, they know some of my marriage requirements, but the other party said that they could not accept it, and finally ended hastily.
Although I began to go on a blind date, I was reluctant to lower my mate selection criteria and requirements, including marriage.
Also from the experience of the previous two failures, I concluded that instead of wasting time getting along, it is better to be honest with my requirements early, so that if you are not compatible, you will disperse.
Later, I met one, introduced by my aunt, 2 years younger than me, working in a listed company, looking at the photos and looking quite tall and decent, chatting on mobile phones for a period of time, and also feeling that they can talk.
So, we made an appointment to meet offline.
03
This meeting, I was prepared, some of my requirements were listed through the list, ready to meet with each other frankly.
After meeting him, I had a good impression of him, and his demeanor and conversation were in line with my mate selection conditions.
After a meal, we both learned the basic information, and finally I took out my list.
But after he saw it, he smiled and said, "I am also the first time I have met such a strange person as you, I have reached the age of blind dates, you still think how young and beautiful you are, don't you feel ashamed to take out such a list?" ”
Listening to his ridicule, I was a little angry, I didn't expect that the person who originally talked and behaved Sven would say such a thing.
I said somewhat angrily, "Everyone has their own conditions for choosing a mate, and you don't accept that there is no need to be cynical." ”
He said: "Blind dates are nothing more than looking for a person who can live a life, you are already a 34-year-old leftover girl, are you still so naïve to think that you can find someone who pays you wholeheartedly?" Don't talk about giving, on your list, do you think you deserve it? ”
With that, he left, leaving me sitting awkwardly alone.
My bride price list is not listed in a few, one is that the bride price is not less than 200,000, the second is that the marriage room is paid by the man to add the woman's name, and the third is to jointly undertake housework after marriage...
Aren't these reasonable conditions for marriage, and why do you say I'm naïve and delusional? Is age really a hindrance?