I'm 32 years old and still single. My mother introduced me to an object. Yesterday when we had dinner together, she drank too much. When she woke up, she

　　I'm 32 years old and still single. My mother introduced me to an object. Yesterday when we had dinner together, she drank too much. When she woke up, she told me two things, and I really had a hard time accepting it after listening to it. Speaking of Ms. Jia, I have to say that she is the most gentle woman I have ever met. To my surprise, she actually drank. In fact, A year ago, I had already met Ms. Jia at my cousin's wedding. Ms. Jia is a friend of my aunt's. She came over to my cousin's wedding and sat at the same table as me. At that time, her first impression of me was that she was particularly gentle, with a gentle voice and a gentle demeanor. She looked lovely. I didn't know her age at the time, but it looked like she was only about 30 years old. We haven't seen each other since that one.

　　My name is Li Wei. It's not that I'm still single at this age that I don't want to look for it, it's that I've had a failed relationship. That was when I was in college. I met my ex-girlfriend Meng Xiao. Meng Xiao is a cute girl who is very talkative. The first time we met, I watched her talk quietly. She can go from south to north, from east to west. Nothing to say, nothing to say, I think her knowledge is endless. It is admirable that she is especially good at telling jokes, and every time I am with her, I feel very relaxed and happy.

　　However, the good times didn't last long. When we graduated, her family had already found her a good job, so we were not in a city, and because of the distance, our feelings gradually faded. In order to maintain our relationship, I resolutely went to her city, only to find that her parents had introduced her to a suitable boyfriend. So I felt that it was time for me to leave, so I silently blessed her and returned to my hometown.

　　After so many years, I have been obsessed with my dreams and have no heart to fall in love, so that at the age of 32, I am still single, and my mother's nagging has been repeated thousands of times in my ears. Later my mom asked my aunt to introduce me to an object. It was Ms. Jia, whom I had met once before, and her aunt said that she was also a bitter person. Her parents arranged an arranged marriage and let her marry her alcoholic husband. As a result, his husband died unexpectedly on the way back from drinking, but she was not sad at all, and even a little happy in her heart. Because her husband often abused her when she was alive and beat her when he was drunk, she looked forward to getting out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible. Now, she could finally breathe a sigh of relief.

　　After the death of Ms. Jia's husband, Ms. Jia received 1 million yuan in compensation. She also has a daughter who is currently in high school and is doing well academically. She had planned to devote all her energy to her children's studies, so she did not consider remarrying. However, her family also advised her to put aside the past and live a good life, it was time to find a companion, after all, the child also needed a complete home, and the family also needed a man.

　　Just to let my aunt know about this, my mother asked my aunt to find me a companion, so my aunt decided to make up with the two of us. That introduced us to each other.

　　My aunt simply told my mother about Ms. Jia, and my mother didn't tell me too much, just said that she would introduce her to me and then find out for herself. After meeting, I found that she was a very gentle person and did not like to express herself. Ms. Jia's personality happens to be the type I like, so my first impression of her was good, she said she liked me too, so we started a formal relationship. After a period of time with Ms. Jia, I felt that I was deeply in love with her, which made me realize the true meaning of love. If you have someone in your heart, you really can't hold anything and will lose your mind every day. Except for breathing, it was missing her.

　　However, when we had dinner together last night, her image of tenderness was completely shattered. Yesterday I asked her out to dinner and she happily agreed. When serving, she deliberately asked for a bottle of wine. I asked her "Aren't you not drinking?" She didn't speak, just nodded. I didn't expect her to get drunk after a few drinks. Then I panicked and didn't know what to do, so I took her to the hotel and waited until the evening when she woke up, and then she told me what was on her mind.

　　She snorted, "You can see that during my relationship with you, you were a sentimental person." I'm glad you love me very much. I'm willing to marry you! "Hearing this, the stone in my heart instantly landed on the ground.

　　Then she said with a serious face, "You already know my basic situation very well, but I have two more things to show you!" ”

　　I felt that she was talking very seriously, so I sat down and listened to her carefully and then said, "First thing, I hope that you have no other woman in your heart, and I also know you." It's hard for sentimental people to let go of their previous feelings, but I only hope you don't think about other women when you're with me. ”

　　How can a person who has already entered his own heart be so easy to forget? Moreover, since meeting Ms. Jia, I will only bless my ex-girlfriend, without any non-division of thoughts, nothing more.

　　Then she said, "Also, I'm not young, I'm not good at this age, but I can ask you for a child of our own, but if you don't end up conceiving, I hope you don't mind it." I also have a daughter who is very sensible. When we get married, she will treat you like a biological father. We also have to shoulder her education and marriage together, which should not be too much for you! ”

　　Is the woman in front of me still the woman in my heart? I had never been confused before. I thought our love was pure and there were no other factors, but I don't know why she suddenly told me this. To be honest, I was a bit disheartened.

　　But I really fell in love with her and I struggled very much. I didn't want to promise her. I think she always had these two things in mind, and there would be a gap between us. I feel like our feelings have changed, but if we don't promise her, our relationship may end there. In addition, I am also at this age to get married, and it is really difficult to meet someone I love very much.

　　People say, should I promise her? Are these conditions of hers excessive?

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