13 days ago, my daughter told me she was pregnant, and I sat down with my daughter's boyfriend at home to talk about the marriage of two children, but I didn't expect that the other party's attitude was very bad. Let me after eating

13 days ago, my daughter told me she was pregnant, and I sat down with my daughter's boyfriend at home to talk about the marriage of two children, but I didn't expect that the other party's attitude was very bad. After eating, he asked me to go to the checkout. After checking out, I found my daughter sitting on the side crying, and I was busy asking why. I was furious after hearing my daughter say why!

My name is Xin Min, I am 49 years old, I retired from my unit many years ago, and I run a life supermarket. My husband died in the line of duty 15 years ago. I did not remarry after he left, mainly because I was worried that my daughter would be affected.

After my husband left, I received a compensation payment of more than 600,000 yuan. We had two suites ourselves. Since my daughter went to the second year of high school, I have withdrawn from the unit to open the life supermarket, so our mother and daughter can still live together. My daughter is very sensible, so she has been studying very hard. Admitted to a 985 college. He also went to work part-time after college.

After my daughter graduates, she plans to return to our local area to find a job. I was less stressed and burdened after she went to work. Started traveling with my daughter. But when we went out a few months ago, she seemed absent-minded. Always holding the phone, happy, irritable. I think she's in love. I asked her what was wrong, and she told me the truth, and there was indeed one of her universities chasing her, but she was still hesitating and disagreeing.

Through the chat, I learned that the boy's family is very well-off, and his parents are in business. However, my daughter was still worried that she would be left with my own life after she got married, so she was still hesitant.

I told my daughter, "Marriage is probably something that a lot of girls go through." I can't stay with you for the rest of your life, and I know you're worried about mom, but I still hope you can find a boy you really love and really treat you well to live with. So I'm relieved! ”

The daughter understood my idea, agreed to the boy, and seriously talked about love. After 6 or 7 months, my daughter took her boyfriend home to see me. The boy's name is Zhou Chuang, and he is very handsome and polite. I watched my daughters happy, and I was happy for them. Since the relationship between two people is very stable, they can also go in the direction of marriage as they wish.

What I heard from the two of them was that my daughter and Zhou Chuang were already living together, and I didn't say much. After all, adults, especially times are different, as long as they really love each other.

About 10 days ago, my daughter told me she was pregnant. I thought about this situation, and the parents of both sides should also meet to discuss the marriage. On the day of the meeting, I carefully dressed up so as not to lose my daughter's face.

When my daughter and I arrived at the hotel, Zhou Chuang waited there and took us into the room, but did not see his parents inside. We waited for 1 and a half hours, but Zhou Chuang's parents still did not come. I think something must be wrong. After all, it is a matter of children getting married, who would be so unactive?

Zhou Chuang has been explaining and comforting us, and finally Zhou Chuang's parents have also come. But Before Zhou Chuang's mother sat down, she said, "I didn't agree with this family affair, but your daughter is pregnant, and I'm not an unreasonable person.

I understood why it wasn't positive, they didn't agree with this protégé at all. I was angry, but I could only bear it. I said, "Parents want their children to be well, and they can live well in the future!" ”

The meal was awkward and we discussed the wedding and the bride price. After eating, the southern parents should have checked out, but Zhou Chuang's parents had no intention of checking out. In order not to make my daughter sad, I went to check out. When I came back, I saw my daughter sitting on the sidelines crying. I immediately stepped forward and asked why. My daughter told me what had happened. I was really angry in my heart.

It turned out that when I went to checkout, Zhou Chuang's father said, "Zhou Chuang is their only son." Business hasn't been good lately. I'll write you an IOU for the bride price. When the child is born, I add 30,000 to the IOU for the boy; if it is a girl, I will give you money according to the number of ious.

The anger I had been holding back for a long time finally broke out, and I said to his father, "Is this how my daughter I have worked so hard to raise is for you to treat?" You can say such a thing as an IOU to give a bride price! ”

Zhou Chuang's mother said: "You see, your daughter is pregnant, and her belly is getting bigger and bigger. If you don't promise to see if your face hangs on! ”

After listening to Zhou Chuang's parents, I got up and said to my daughter, "Do you see clearly what this family you are looking for is like?" Let's go, go home with your mother, your mother will accompany you to the hospital for surgery, we are not married! ”

Zhou Chuang hurriedly pulled me: "Auntie, I'm sorry, it's all my fault." I'll convince my mom and dad! ”

I pushed Zhou Chuang away and said as I walked: "Forget it, your parents just wanted to get married and treated my daughter like this, and I don't know how many grievances there are in the future!"

Zhou Chuang's parents' approach is very annoying to me, but after all, my daughter and the child in my belly are innocent, I really can't bear to let my daughter suffer, what should I do?

Getting pregnant before marriage has always been the last thing everyone wants to see. Girls who are unmarried and pregnant generally suffer more or less the harm caused by their in-laws. If you meet a reasonable in-laws, you will feel that the whole thing is very beautiful, and the girl's life will be very happy. However, people's hearts are unpredictable, and many people think of lowering the bride price or not holding a wedding when they see that the girl is pregnant. Therefore, girls must know how to protect themselves.

What do you think about this? Should she take her daughter to get rid of the child and break up, or marry Zhou Chuang?