The first time I took my daughter-in-law back to my hometown was in a summer four years ago, when the weather was hot, and my mother made us a table of meals early and waited for us to come home. As a result, there was a traffic jam on the road that day, and it was already down when I went back

The first time I took my daughter-in-law back to my hometown was in a summer four years ago, when the weather was hot, and my mother made us a table of meals early and waited for us to come home. As a result, there was a traffic jam on the road that day, and it was already afternoon when I went back, my mother heated the meal, and my daughter-in-law didn't eat two bites, but she spit it out and said, "This is all dirty, can I still eat it?" Then the gesture is to dump the food on the table. My mother didn't let me, and I felt that my union with my daughter-in-law was really a mistake.

I grew up in the countryside since childhood, but I have always had a heart that yearns for big cities, more than ten years ago I was admitted to university, stayed in the provincial city, thought I could develop steadily, but did not expect that the high housing prices in the city completely blocked the road I stayed behind.

Men have no room and are not even qualified for blind dates, and every time they go on a blind date, the first sentence blocks my heart to continue talking, "Do you have a room?" ”

But many times there is often light lurking in the darkness, and just when I was preparing to go back to my hometown to marry and have children, an understanding girl gave me hope.

She is from the city, but she does not dislike me from the countryside, because she is an only child, and she hopes that I will focus on her family and take more care of her parents with her.

Later, she became my daughter-in-law, and when she got married, the bride price was only fifty thousand, and the down payment for the house was given by her family. My mother thanked my daughter-in-law's family for her profound righteousness and often taught me to be filial to my in-laws.

But in this way, if you lose sight of one or the other, you will take care of your mother much less.

After getting married, I found that my daughter-in-law had many shortcomings, she was lazy and had a tantrum, but she was still good at coaxing. But even if I go back to my hometown, I am always reluctant.

At my strong request, my daughter-in-law returned to my hometown with me for the first time after marriage.

It was summer, the weather was hot, but the countryside was still quite cool.

I was supposed to be able to arrive in the morning, but the road was blocked for three or four hours, and when I went back, it was already two or three o'clock in the afternoon.

The meal that my mother had cooked earlier was also cold, and then it was hot and brought to the table.

The daughter-in-law was tired and immediately came to eat, and as a result, she vomited all over after eating two bites.

"It's all delicious, how can this be eaten"

But I didn't smell much, and my daughter-in-law didn't understand, so she had to dump all the food.

Mother came out to stop it, saying that you don't eat myself. Then he made a new copy for his daughter-in-law.

In order not to make my mother sad, I accompanied my mother to eat the rest of the meal.

My daughter-in-law didn't understand our behavior, and I also expressed my dissatisfaction with her, in the countryside, this has become a habit, just come back for a day or two, how can you not stand it?

As a result, that night, my mother and I began to feel bad stomachs, ran to the toilet several times, and couldn't stop. Or the daughter-in-law drove us to the hospital, which said it was food poisoning.

My daughter-in-law lectured me and my mother, "You have to eat it!" ”

The next day, my mother cooked too much food, and she couldn't bear to throw it away, so my daughter-in-law came over, took the meal and ordered me to eat it, don't waste it, and gave my mother a heartache, saying that my daughter-in-law was too domineering.

Later, after returning to the provincial capital, I called my mother, who advised me to take care of myself.

After a week, my mother asked me, "Did you buy me a refrigerator?" What a waste! ”

I was a little puzzled, so I opened my daughter-in-law's mobile phone and saw that my daughter-in-law bought it.

I told my mother the truth, and she told me to live well with my daughter-in-law in the future.

The daughter-in-law said that she would not pick up your mother for a few days, but her mother said that she was used to the countryside and did not want to come over.

However, my mother still entrusted me with a lot of local specialties from the countryside, all of which are good for women, she said to let my daughter-in-law make up for it, and as a result, I looked for half a day, but there was no mine.

Now the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law talk on the phone as soon as there is something wrong, and my mother always disciplines me on the phone to make me be nicer to my daughter-in-law.

Daughters-in-law have learned to make small reports.

@Next door old Zhang Zhang

Love is mutual, and mutual respect and understanding are important factors in family harmony. Know how to pay for each other, in order to reap a return.

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