Is it easy to forget someone who hurt you or is it easy to remember someone who loves you? Where is the key to carefully analyzing this problem? In you, that is, the feelings of the parties! The old man said that no one wished

Is it easy to forget someone who hurt you or is it easy to remember someone who loves you? Where is the key to carefully analyzing this problem? In you, that is, the feelings of the parties! The old man said no one wanted to kick a dead dog on the side of the road. Because there is no feeling of the parties here. The place where I lived as a child was very special, it was a family area on a labor camp farm. It is said special because two kinds of people lived together in a special political period. There were heroes who participated in the war to resist US aggression and aid Korea, and there were also Kuomintang political prisoners left behind by the Kuomintang who fled Taiwan. There were two such people, one was a cross-legged combat hero who had participated in the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea (he himself had always said so), and the other was a former Kuomintang officer who had undergone labor reform (he himself said to be a brigade commander). I haven't experienced the past and can't say it clearly, saying what I saw. Two old men like to play chess together, I am a child, so I often run to watch two old men play chess. Both men were once soldiers, both had big tempers, and often shouted because they accidentally lost their children. I watched it for a long time and knew that the first shouting of this chess piece stopped today! The two old men have similar chess skills, in fact, it is for entertainment, but the jokes under it are full of jokes. They play chess very slowly, from eight o'clock in the morning to dinner can set two games is not bad! Serious chess players are all looking at a few steps and there is something to go! The two old men who had a support next to them scolded together. I didn't like to talk either, so I was a long-time chess player. Once the old man of the Kuomintang was sick! The battle hero old man let me play chess with him, and when I had time, I could see that in fact, the two people basically understood the chess path. I play chess with the old man from 1 p.m. to 3 p.m. I've already lost five sets! The old man's chess path has changed so much that I don't even have the strength to fight! The old man laughed triumphantly and said that I was still short of practice, so I would not go down with me! I was in a rage and wondered how I couldn't even figure out the way of the old man! I went to Xinhua Bookstore to buy five endgame chess books of key river patrol cannons at a time, and I laid out the chess scores at home for a month. There was also a small episode in the middle, my dad did not play chess and did not know why he bought me a very small magnetic chess piece that was very popular at that time. This thing is really convenient for chess to put up a good score and go once, and you can basically find the point by solving it yourself! A month later the battle hero went to his son's house! I went to play three sets with the former Kuomintang old man, and the old man's bottom gun was very strong and lost two sets, and the old man already had some desire to play! In the third game I imitated the battle hero's river cruise gun and chess. Obviously in the third set he played very seriously. He smiled! Say the routine is to understand! Didn't master the essence! I went back and studied the bottom gun method. It is really a leap forward in chess skills, and I feel that I can see more and more moves! Later, the two old men once had a conflict again! Chess can't be played again! The two old men proposed three people down, because I was not skilled, it was the two of them who were defeated, and the two people felt that they had a number in mind, so they told me about it. I agreed after starting the knockout rounds and losing the next. I practiced secretly! Five sets were played, three wins and one loss. The two old men are no longer able to work, and they will jointly deal with one of me. The last set was lost! But happy! In this way, through playing chess, I became friends with the two old masters! Not a few years after the battle hero old man died of bad health! The former Kuomintang old man cried this sadness. Then he told me a story that used to be. At that time he was undergoing labor reform, and the battle hero Old Man was his squadron leader. Once, a stone that flew out of the mountain and fired a cannon hit him in the arm! At that time, the Houshan Prison Infirmary could not operate, and after cleaning the wound to stop the bleeding, the stone could not be found in the flesh! The battle hero Old Man walked about twenty kilometers down the mountain in the winter to find him a hospital for surgery. After winter, there are snow carriages on the mountain road that cannot be climbed. Because he took the prisoner out of the prison management area without permission, the battle hero was also punished! But the former Kuomintang old man's arm was saved! In this way, the two people had a deep friendship. I said, "Why do you play chess together and quarrel?" He said, do you think playing chess makes you happy to win? I think, too. Play chess! Winning in a loss is bliss! Winning and losing is painful! And you know every day, prevent your kill with one move, and you will be blinded! How painful it is to be killed again! So the joy of playing chess is that you will lose, not always win. I understand that this sentence has been used for many years, what is the difference between losing and total winning! Later I understood! It's a truth to forget about someone who hurts you and remembers someone who loves you! What hurts really make a hurt is that you remember the hurt! And loving you really produces love is to warm the heart! So remember the feelings that warm your heart and forget the feelings that cause harm. Sounds a bit of a Q spirit! But that's a better foundation for a person's life!