"I heard that he is also a father" [come to see me] Story source: Ding Shan Image source: Network self-talk: These things, these people and my current life, now laughter, now happiness are not

"I heard he was a father too" [Come and see me]

Story Source: Ding Shan

Image source: Network

Self-talk: These things, these people have nothing to do with my current life, my laughter now, and my happiness now, just some past things, past people, occasionally walking lightly in memory!

A few days ago one night, the baby went to sleep, I finished washing clothes, wiped the house, finished cleaning up the other trivialities, as usual, began to in front of the computer, typing on the keyboard. The image on QQ flashed, and it was an old classmate Ding Mou who greeted me. After a few small talks, he asked me timidly: "I don't know if I should tell you about Zhang?" ”

sheet? The person who can be found everywhere in the ignorant memories of my youth, the person who haunts my dreams before I am twenty-five years old, and I will miss it every day, the person who makes me tear my heart and lungs apart and talk about pain, the person who wants to forget but cannot erase it with a lifetime; the person who turns away and intends to never see each other again in this life, who only wants to forget each other in the rivers and lakes, the person who now thinks of love and hate, and let go!

Ding was the only one who knew the details of my story and his story and my pain, so when I mentioned that person, I was so careful. In fact, the person who was really away from me has been away for a long time, and then remembered that my heart was like a water stopper. So I replied to him: "Say, I won't hold you back." With my consent, he said: "Daughter-in-law Zhang has given birth to a son, and when she calls me to announce the good news, she feels excited and about to cry." I think he probably exaggerated his description, and smiled back at him in his heart: "Congratulations." Then, Ding classmate said some things about that person: "His daughter-in-law's face is full of youth beans", "Once I met him and his daughter-in-law quarreled, I picked up the bed sheet cover on the ground that my daughter-in-law threw and threw it out tens of meters away", "Now I have become more obedient, I haven't drunk and played cards with me for more than a year"... In fact, these things have nothing to do with me, but out of the courtesy of gossip, I replied to him: "People have pimples to prove that people are still young", "quarrels are inevitable for every couple", "become obedient, It's because he met the right person and was willing to change himself for that person"...

In ding's view, I have never let go of that person, and I remember That Ding once asked me: "Hurt you so deeply, do you hate him?" I replied" "Don't hate, why hate it, choose to love each other is not for today to hate, I don't want to live with hate, then I am more miserable, I don't want to be a sad woman, besides, I still live well without him" Every time I meet, I have to be comforted, I know that Ding classmates are well-intentioned, but I think I really don't need it now, this time is still no exception, and I also told me a story: an old man and a young monk came down to the edge of the mountain, came to the river, encountered a flash flood, and the stone piers crossing the river were flooded. A young woman also stood by the river, looking at the gushing water. At this time, the old monk stepped forward and expressed his willingness to help the woman and carry her across the river. The woman hesitated for a moment, and then acquiesced. After dropping off the woman, the old monk and the young monk rushed straight to their own path. After walking a long way, the little monk was still puzzled by this, and could not help but ask the old monk euphemistically: "Master, it is a common folk ritual for men and women to be intimate or not, let alone our family?" The old monk looked at the young monk, and also had a look of doubt: "What, I have put it down, but you have not put it down?" After reading it, I involuntarily provoked the corner of my mouth to smile, in fact, I had long wanted to tell him this story, who knew that he had told it to me first, so I replied to him: "I think this story should be told to you by me, because you always feel that I have not put it down, and that person is really irrelevant to me", he replied: "Well, I thought you could not face it calmly." I replied: "Oh, don't think so much in the future" He replied to me: "Okay" and then talked about children until late at night, and Ding said goodnight, said goodbye, and suddenly became more relaxed.

The days passed really fast, it has been a few years since I parted with that person, everything has become a human being, I have my new love, he has his own wife, and now I am a mother, he is also a father, still a son, sending him blessings in my heart, sincerely. I used to talk with him about whether he liked boys or girls, and he said he preferred boys, and now he's really got his wish. Glad for him, it seems that it is really good for him not to go down with me, but I will only give birth to girls, and I will be two in my life.

Love has become a thing of the past, let everything drift away with the wind, life is only a few decades, love and hate do not have to remember too much in the heart, love is not right and who is wrong, there is no continuation, or the time is not right, or the person encountered is not right. Turn away when the fate is over, although the tears of heartache are tuotuo, but as long as we still have the ability to love, still believe in love, serious life, we will definitely meet the lover who belongs to your life.

Don't regret having loved, don't regret giving up, sometimes letting go is deeper love! Is greater love!

May all the men and women who have not been able to accompany each other for a lifetime, after turning around, remember the good, forget the pain, truly bless each other, and then smile and start their own new life, new happiness...